I can't tell you how to get laid, but I can warn you how NOT to get any--marry my ex-wife. She is in Wis., which is pretty close to Canada. You have been warned.
You might try what I have always done--be an absolute gentleman, in spite of all the pressure to do otherwise. Seriously, most women do seem to want to be treated like crap, but there are enough "real women" (ladies) out there that will find gentlemanly behavior a big turn-on in today's world. After my divorce, (about the time you were born--1985) I had three girlfriends in a row who, uh, were very passionate. That's the gentlemanly way to say they nearly screwed me to death. The third one was a keeper, so she is now Mrs. Beekeeper. I can't say any more, but after nearly four years of wedded bliss, things have not tapered off--at all.