I, too, will echo the sentiments of GBT, you are quite welcome.
Please, if you would, continue to hold onto the funds, and simply consider it a loan, so that you do not have to add to your burden the weight of high interest on credit cards (I've been there, done that, it really is the pits).
I think all of use simply want to help out in any way we can - since it could have been any of us that night.
All we ask for (and if I'm speaking out of turn, guys, let me know) is that you take care of that husband of yours, support him, stick by him, and of course, let us know how things are going.
Oh, and let us know if there is anything further we can do.
BTW, there is a post on here lookng to pass some information on to a gentleman that can possibly help you and you lawyer - Massad Ayoob (check my spelling). I'll try to edit this to include the link, I don't have it handy right now.
Here it is:
[url]http://www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?id=69543[/url]
Great username, too, BTW [:)]