Quoted: If you see that your wife/GF is getting a little hefty for your taste, do you tell her about it? If so, how do you go about telling her?
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I'm kind of an asshole, so yeah tell her, but dimplomaticly. If you are not a member of a gymm join one and invite her. If she sits on her ass all day eating junk food do what you can to change that sedentry life style. Phrase it like you are concerned for her health. Usually my wife is nagging me to go to the gymn. I hate it, but go 5 days a week. I'm not saying you have to be an ass to her or try and make her feel bad but if it is an issue then it is an issue.
I saw a fat chick at the gym god bless her, eating a candy bar while on the treadmill. Yes It was a candy bar I could see the wrapper. Other chicks have a kid and the kid is 8 and they blame their fat ass on the kid. I don't feel bad for them.
My wife has had 3 kids. Is a size 1. 5'4" 115#'s. She works out 3-6 times a week and takes excellent care of herself. The youngest are 4 (twins). She was back to her normal size after about 6 months. And she worked
hard to get there.
If you are not in shape then it is a choice. Getting and STAYING in good shape is alot of work and some people just don't care, or they don't care enough.
The flip side is
YOU better be in great shape if you are going to be bitching about your wife's ass spreading. [Dr. Phill] Remember we tend to dislike in other people things we dislike about our selves [/Dr. Phill]. If you are just as fat and lazy you have no cause bitching about the wife. And skinny guys with no muscle tone, just cause you ain't fat don't count, you need bigger than 9 inch arms. You want the wife in good shape make sure you are first!
Also there is a fine line bewteen being concerned and purposely hurting her feelings. A couple months after having the twins my wife wanted to wear this size 0 skin tight gown. She had a little tummy. Not huge not bad but noticable in a skin tight dress. She noticed it I'm sure but still asked me. Does this make me look fat. I told her I would prefer a different dress. Sure I had to sleep on the couch a couple days
. But she got motivated to get back into the gym and worked off the extra weight in no time. I still get razed about it once and awhile, but fitting back into that dress became a vendetta to her and she did it. She was in the gym 4 days a week untill it was gone. Being fat and inactive is a CHOICE so is being in shape. If I could take a pill I would. Fat ass is the easy choice and like most things in life the harder path is the better one.