Damn, what a pain in the ass.
Here’s what finally worked.
1. First, I had to create a login account on my Win 2k box for the user who wanted to print to my printer, aka, the wife.
2. Then I had to explicitly add the new user to the list of authorized printer users. I actually just added the ‘Users’ group, since by default new logins are added to that group.
3. Then I went over to the XP box and installed the HP printer driver. The installation popped up a network browser, and from there the shared printer was visible, so I could specify it. I finished the install, rebooted, and it works greats.
I screwed up by not configuring a user for the shared printer. I didn’t think I needed to do that for Win 2k Pro, but it turns out I was wrong. The reason the other Win 2k box worked was because that machine already had admin rights on the printing machine (they are both in the same room and I use both).
I probably didn’t need the HP CD in step 4, did I? I think if I didn’t do step 3, and used Control Panel/Add Printer, it would have downloaded the printer driver from the 2k box and installed it, right?
Anyway, thanks for you help guys! Arfcom saves the day, again.