IMHO, the big question is, which is more important to her, target shooting at the range, or CCW? For CCW, many of us gravitate towards small, light, powerful guns that are often hard to shoot well. Mostly because we want to be able to defend ourselves, but carrying a huge brick around all day is a PITA.
Kel-Tec makes pretty good compact, low-cost guns. I CCW a P11 9mm. I find the recoil noticeably snappy, but I don't mind running a few hundred rounds through it in a row. I've shot the P32 too, and I thought the recoil was pretty light. I haven't shot the P3AT, though. FWIW, all of Kel-Tecs guns, including the P32 and P3AT pocket guns, are locked breech. Kel-Tec also just released a single-stack 9mm, though it hasn't been out long enough for there to be many opinions on it. The P32 may be a pretty good choice if she wants to CCW without making many compromises in clothing.
I haven't been real big on the traditional 380s. Most of them are blowback, which leads to a larger and heavier gun. You can now get more powerful 9mm guns the size of the old 380s - the Kahr, Kel-Tec, and Glock 26, for example.
My wheelgun-fu is lacking, but IMHO, a snubby revolver in 357 would be a pretty good choice too. You can shoot light 38 loads all day for practice, then load with 357mag for CCW. Also harder for a newbie to screw up.