Quoted: Ok I am working out of town for company that purchased our company I helped build. At Christmas time new corp. management figgered out that my son was working somewhat for me and that is a no no. Ok we got that part fixed so he go back to work as a EMT making 2x what a ambulance based EMT makes and only working part time. I am not his "supervisor" but he is tasked with work for my customer. Today while talking with him he asks me about visable piercings. Now Corp. says that nothing that can interfear with work or pose a threat to the employee are not allowed. So the son proceedes to tell me that a little hottie that we know and now works as a exotic dancer is now a TAT artist and piercing specialist who pierced both his ears for free. I hit the roof. I told him I don't like it and told him it was Ghey. If I get home this weekend I told him that is I get close to him and have pliers I will "Fix" the problem. Ok he is 23 doesn't live in my home. Am I wrong? I worry about perception with the construction guys we deal with.
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Pretty much ends the conversation, right there.
If he wants to do retarded shit, it's his problem where any repercussions may fall.
No different than if he becomes a crackhead and robs 7-11's or goes to school and becomes a rich plastic surgeon.
He's young and maybe stupid (in YOUR opinion, and possibly others') but he IS an adult.
He'll be the one who has to answer to life for his decisions.
I understand what you're saying, but honestly, you have no right to tell him what to do.....
You can only advise him, and hopefully he'll see right & wrong for himself.
And a couple of earrings don't really mean shit..... Seriously.
He could be doing a LOT worse things.