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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:33:46 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 7:36:23 AM EDT by fight4yourrights]
Sometimes it seems like we have a LOT of divorcees here getting screwed over.

So, what's the reality?



1st marriage, 19 years for me
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:35:28 AM EDT
Married - 20 years ...21 in May. Never happier..never better... no Bull.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:36:25 AM EDT

Originally Posted By fight4yourrights:
1st marriage, 19 years for me



How can a 15 year old be married for 19 years?

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:37:18 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:37:50 AM EDT

Originally Posted By markm:


How can a 15 year old be married for 19 years?





I bought a Delorean
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:39:43 AM EDT
I can honestly say I've given it my best shot.
Never happened.
For sure, I've had girlfriends, but nothing that was ever destined to go anywhere good.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:40:34 AM EDT
Still on number one. This one needs to pump out more kids and make me more $ before I ditch her for a 19 year old that snaps her gum and lets me poke her in the butt.

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:43:22 AM EDT
Thankfully, divorced.

The next one will be the last one.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:43:45 AM EDT

Originally Posted By fight4yourrights:
Sometimes it seems like we have a LOT of divorcees here getting screwed over.

So, what's the reality?



1st marriage, 19 years for me




The REALITY is that MARRIAGE IS THE LEADING CAUSE OF DIVORCE
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:45:15 AM EDT
THe divorce isn't filed yet, but the seperation has been a year (VA law if you have kids).
Waiting to hear back from my lawyer.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:49:00 AM EDT
loser checking in
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:52:50 AM EDT
loser here

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:54:29 AM EDT
I am currently with my first wife. After that....
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:59:23 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 7:59:55 AM EDT by pattymcn]
divorced, remarried. Which makes me a loser with attitude!

*ETA* Good job to those who have been married so long,
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 7:59:26 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:00:51 AM EDT
Happily in my first marriage. 13 years and going strong.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:01:52 AM EDT
Never married.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:02:41 AM EDT
Marriage #2 has been excellent.

Mrs. Brohawk and I will celebrate 18 years of bliss next month.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:03:57 AM EDT
Busy ruining my second marriage.

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:04:47 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 8:05:44 AM EDT by Green_Canoe]
Only marriage, 12+ years, no end in sight.

Which is a good thing.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:24:42 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 8:25:09 AM EDT by ic_guerrero]
only marriage - 6 months
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:26:27 AM EDT

Originally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
Married for 36 yrs,to the same woman.

I told my wife ONCE:"I know of people who got a lesser sentence for multiple killings"




So...... How long has it been since you've been home?
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:27:10 AM EDT
Divorced, remarried the bitch (Version 1.0), divorced it again.

Married new younger model with her shit together. Version 2.0, since 1.0 had WAY too many defects. Going on 5 years with 2.0, of which married for two and change of it. Just moved to TN so she could get her PHD in Psychology.

Life is great.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:28:36 AM EDT
Never married.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:31:26 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 8:32:02 AM EDT by DEERSNIPER]
Just broke up w/ the gf of 10 months Does that count? She helped me decide that marriage is bad.

-Dan.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:34:00 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:35:45 AM EDT

Originally Posted By fight4yourrights:
Sometimes it seems like we have a LOT of divorcees here getting screwed over.

So, what's the reality?



1st marriage, 19 years for me



Same for me!
We have had a couple rocky patches but are still together.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:53:04 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 8:53:37 AM EDT by TRW]
No choice for widow/widower?
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:54:05 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:55:19 AM EDT
Was married, eight years. Paid my fine and got released!
I'm smart enough not to do that again.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:57:51 AM EDT
never married

probably never will, the older you get the less available women
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 8:59:35 AM EDT
50 years old, never been married - but not a loser!

I never wanted to ever get married, to much fun being single!!!
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:07:24 AM EDT
13 1/2 years and going strong. We do everything together including shooting.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:09:12 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/22/2006 9:10:09 AM EDT by O2BNMUD]
I am seperated, and the divorce should be final in about a month from now. We were married for 6 years, but just couldn't make it work. I would love to say it was both of us giving up on making it work, but it was mainly me.

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:10:03 AM EDT

Originally Posted By JarheadPatriot:
The REALITY is that MARRIAGE IS THE LEADING CAUSE OF DIVORCE



Being born is the leading cause of death....
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:13:09 AM EDT
Married right out of high school....going threw divorce right now....It really does suck as much or more as people say it does....Life apparently goes on some day though.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:19:03 AM EDT
Married 5 years. 2 kids and 2 deployments later still going strong.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:19:23 AM EDT
24 years.

I'm an asshole, but she's awesome....
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:20:32 AM EDT
Going on 8 years married. Striving to make it last....
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:26:14 AM EDT
Nearly 20 years here.

Mr. Playmore is a good man...But then again, I'm nicer to him than I am to most of the guys in this place.

I have to be. He's a better shot.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:27:05 AM EDT
No option for twice divorced there
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:31:40 AM EDT
Twenty-one years old and on my first marriage. Had our third anniversary yesterday to be honest, last year has been pretty rocky but we're chugging through it.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:31:42 AM EDT
First (and hopefully last) marriage, 13.5 years, two kids.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:32:16 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Shane333:
Going on 8 years married. Striving to make it last....



Strive as much as possible to make it, your attitude says your going to. Eventually you will both end up needing each other so much that you can't do without each other. That's when you know the marriage has and will always be a success.

It really is a team effort, and bigger than either one of you. Adaptation is the key. Things change, and people change. Some grow together, some grow apart.

There were a few times in the past we could have split, thank god we made it. Looking back the reasons that we had friction were money/job/stress/etc based and had nothing to do with each other.

I think the first 8 years or so were the hardest. The last 5 years have beeen the best.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:35:43 AM EDT
Still on my 1st Marriage. Working on 27 years.

_________________________


Link Posted: 2/22/2006 9:59:21 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Hedonist:

Originally Posted By Shane333:
Going on 8 years married. Striving to make it last....



Strive as much as possible to make it, your attitude says your going to. Eventually you will both end up needing each other so much that you can't do without each other. That's when you know the marriage has and will always be a success.

It really is a team effort, and bigger than either one of you. Adaptation is the key. Things change, and people change. Some grow together, some grow apart.

There were a few times in the past we could have split, thank god we made it. Looking back the reasons that we had friction were money/job/stress/etc based and had nothing to do with each other.

I think the first 8 years or so were the hardest. The last 5 years have beeen the best.



Wise words. There have been some major bumps in the road (some are still there) but we're both striving to make it work. Actually, I think it's getting easier as we go.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 10:02:21 AM EDT
Divorced for 5 years now.

Link Posted: 2/22/2006 10:04:23 AM EDT
Never divorced. My wife and I will celebrate 30 years in a few months.

viator
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 10:10:55 AM EDT
Once, going on 21 years.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 10:13:03 AM EDT
Count me in on the Loser team. My wife and I have been together for 8 years.
Link Posted: 2/22/2006 10:15:54 AM EDT
Divorced and re-married. Guess I didn't learn my lesson on the first one. Actually I love my wife very much, we've been married for 2 years but have known each other for 5 years. There is always pot holes in the road but hey that's what makes life interesting.
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