Quoted: To me, homosexuality is an unacceptable aberration and an abomination....but who am I to tell others to stop doing that?
Arfcom has some openly homosexual members, and I respect them like anyone else, even if I might be of the opinion that something in their brains is not wired correctly.
CJ
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As a Bible believer, I believe homosexuality to be a sin.
Nevertheless, I do NOT believe that homosexuality is necessarily perversion on the level of what was in Sodom and Gamorrah in every instance. The Biblical account of those people and of Corinth and other places in the Roman empire was of excess and lawlessness of proportions that were shocking even by the standards of the societies they lived in.
While there are certainly absolutely perverted homosexuals (just like there are absolutely perverted heterosexuals) around today, I don't believe that title fits many homosexuals in our society. Most of the gay folks I have ever dealt with personally are reasonable normal people in every way except for their choice in who they share a bed with.
The guys who want to march down mainstreet in ass-less pants french kissing one another are not representative of all homosexuals.
While I do not approve of ANY homosexual behavior, I do not despise homosexuals. Often they have felt a pull in that direction from very early in life and have struggled to come to terms with what that pull is. As things have become more "progressive" in society, that pull can seem stronger and easier to follow than ever. Few people understand what it is to encounter something that seems to have a hold on you, one that is so powerful it feels as if it is WITHIN you. It is not an easy thing to deal with, whether it is homosexuality, alcoholism, whatever.
I don't agree with it and I won't say it is another harmless option on the menu of life, but at the same time I can understand their humanity and weakness is just like my humanity and weakness, and that the same Jesus who died for me died for them. Thus I don't see any justification to go beyond telling the truth:
God does not approve of homosexuality just as He does not approve of adultery, fornication, and HETEROSEXUAL sins. Christ can liberate ALL who would call upon His name. Without Christ the homosexual will be lost....Just as I will be lost without Christ.
The homosexual deserves my compassion and understanding, and ultimately my love. I MUST tell them the truth, but as the Apostle said, I must tell it in love.
There is a difference between telling someone about sin because you want to see them saved, and telling them of sin because you want to see them suffer....Phelps and those like him belive, I suppose, that their zeal in hating the homosexual will be pleasing enough to God to cause Him to overlook THEIR sins.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Paul said it best:
" And do you think this, O man, you who judge those practicing such things, and doing the same, that you will escape the judgment of God? 4 Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance? 5 But in accordance with your hardness and your impenitent heart you are treasuring up for yourself wrath in the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God, 6 who “will render to each one according to his deeds”: 7 eternal life to those who by patient continuance in doing good seek for glory, honor, and immortality; 8 but to those who are self-seeking and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness—indignation and wrath, 9 tribulation and anguish, on every soul of man who does evil, of the Jew first and also of the Greek; 10 but glory, honor, and peace to everyone who works what is good, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. 11 For there is no partiality with God.
12 For as many as have sinned without law will also perish without law, and as many as have sinned in the law will be judged by the law 13 (for not the hearers of the law are just in the sight of God, but the doers of the law will be justified; 14 for when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by nature do the things in the law, these, although not having the law, are a law to themselves, 15 who show the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and between themselves their thoughts accusing or else excusing them) 16 in the day when God will judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ, according to my gospel."
Romans 2
All men must answer for their lives. No ammount of railing at the sins of another will excuse me for my sins.