UPDATE
So they all get home (Wife and kids).
When it was time to come home apparently the other boys there didnt want my son to come home. They started pulling on him to get him to stay. My daughter (9, son 5) told them they had to go. They were following them and pulling on him andpushing hertrying to get him to stay. Ended up my daughter got in a "fight" with the 3 boys trying to get my son home. My son of course was as much a part of the problem as the solution.
So the daughter came home in tears after fighting off 3 boys and my son stayed there. Wife went over pissed to see what was going on, found out the story, chatted with the other lady for a while then they came back.
I toldmy daughter she did good fending off 3 boys. It isnt the first time she's scuffled with the boys over there, this time she was a bit too outnumbered. Last time she came home after winnign a sound victory over the boys but the odds were more in her favor. I figured something had happened with the other boys, not the family she was at. The family she plays with have pretty decent kids. There two other boys over there that are hell of wheels.
I've always told my kids I dont care if they fight, just DONT start it. If you have to defend yourself I'll stand behindyou 100% of the way, so my daughter has not gotten in trouble for fighting. This time was no exception.
My son on the other hand, hes in a bit of trouble for being part of the problem and not part of the solution.
So its all settled. I would have posted sooner but my wife didnt give the all clear so I was still hiding under the bed with the AR, compass and mountainhouse food.