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Posted: 1/28/2006 6:32:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 6:34:59 PM EDT by ImplementOfWar]
This girl I once met haunts me. I cannot explain it.

I was 18 and I was introduced to her by a friend(who was dating her friend). I cant ever forget it. I went to her house to pick her up (the nicest house I have ever been to) and met her parents. Then I met her and I swear I actually think I saliva'd on the floor.

Anyways I was so set back.

I hung out with her a few times (I had just turned 18, she was younger). Then my friend got busted drinking with her friend and they werent allowed to hang out anymore.

Since those few times I have met this girl I cannot forget her.

It really does madden me because I cant seem to stop thinking of her. IT HAS BEEN 6 YEARS!

Is this normal?


Anyways like a year ago I walked outside and was walking down my walkway when a black town car stopped and started staring at me. The same kind of car her family owned. It looked like her in the drivers seat. Then I just started thinking I really need to seek help.

Is there some kind of mental thing going on or what? Why cant I stop thinking about her?

Btw this girl is like hotter then the hottest thing I have ever seen. I could not create anything more beautiful. Is that why I cant forget her?

I just want her out of my head and to forget I ever met her.


Drives me mad. Help me.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:33:46 PM EDT
Replace with new girl,... then repeat
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:34:01 PM EDT

Originally Posted By TheRegulator:
Replace with new girl,... then repeat



yup
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:34:23 PM EDT

How do you forget who?


Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:36:16 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:36:39 PM EDT
Try to think about unpleasant thoughts, like the poor relationship with your father.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:36:56 PM EDT
You remember that the hottest ones are generally the most fucked up.

Move on, man. Let it go. It's just a chick.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:37:35 PM EDT
Kamikaze by the glass full.

Go to the store and get plenty of vodka, triple-sec, and lime juice.

Put some ice in a tall glass. Put in a shot glass of lime, a shot glass of triple sec, and a shot glass of the vodka.

Drink. Repeat.

When I woke up from that one, I couldnt remember shit.



Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:37:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Cold:

Originally Posted By TheRegulator:
Replace with new girl,... then repeat



yup

Then repeat many more times. Remember, no matter how hot she is, someone, somewhere, is tired of her shit. That person could have been you. Your probably lucky that she's not in your life. Move on, get tons of pie, get both!
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:38:40 PM EDT
first of all, this is slightly scary to me.

second, it sounds like you are an adult now, so do yourself a favor and look her up, get in touch, and find out if she is everything you remember.

If you are otherwise incapable of hooking up with this chick, i suggest finding a counselor or someone else to discuss this issue with. The 6 year attachment with nothing more than a couple dates isn't really normal, even if she was strikingly beautiful. Find a solution to your issue.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:38:46 PM EDT
Distance and time.

Plus, finding another one helps also.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:40:57 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:41:16 PM EDT
If you really want to forget her, meet someone else.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:43:34 PM EDT
You need to hook up with her again for a one night stand. Bang the hell out of her (mongolian style), then pull a porn star on her and drench her face. Stand up and shake off your tool, then flip a coin on her chest and walk out.

Trust me........this really works.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:43:59 PM EDT
OMG, i had your same problem exactly 24 hours ago.

I broke up with a beautiful, caring, understanding and smart girl. She was a transfer student, and as seniors, she had to take all her hard classes at once in order to graduate on time. We had a good semester/summer, but then in the new fall semester I literally didn't see her for a month at a time. I finally called it quits when we were talking on the phone, and she didn't say "I love you" like we always do.

for 6 months I thought about her everyday.

3 weeks ago a new girl moved into my house. Obsessed with pink floyd, led zepplin, and Kill Bill. I gave her my old katana since i've moved onto to EBRs. She gets drunk every now and then and tells me i'm "cute". Yesterday at 3 AM after all her friends have finally go home, I make my move.

Now I can't get the new girl, who I am "with" out of my mind. w00t!

So...

cliff notes: big +1 on meeting someone new
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:44:49 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 6:45:28 PM EDT by tommytrauma]

Anyways like a year ago I walked outside and was walking down my walkway when a black town car stopped and started staring at me.


If you think cars are staring at you, seek professional help.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:45:51 PM EDT
Find another one to bone.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:48:01 PM EDT

Originally Posted By tommytrauma:

Anyways like a year ago I walked outside and was walking down my walkway when a black town car stopped and started staring at me.


If you think cars are staring at you, seek professional help.

I was gonna say something about that, but forgot when I posted my above, wh itty, reply.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:50:54 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 6:55:10 PM EDT by ImplementOfWar]

Originally Posted By konger:
You need to hook up with her again for a one night stand. Bang the hell out of her (mongolian style), then pull a porn star on her and drench her face. Stand up and shake off your tool, then flip a coin on her chest and walk out.

Trust me........this really works.



No, that post just made it worse.

Not only did I get a feeling of extreme jealousy of the thought of NOT doing that, I got sick thinking someone else did.

Thanks but no thanks.


I do have her number, and I did try calling her once (like a few weeks after we hung out) but I got so nervous and felt so stupid I just hung up and never called back. She definatly might not even remember me. She was young too so I would of felt even stupider actually going on an official date with her. Her parents would of probably called the police since I was over 18. Weirded me out anyways.

I have seen alot of hot girls, I have been with alot of hot girls, but for some reason I cannot forget this one. She just keeps occuring to me in my memory all the time.

I didnt know if there was some ancient secret ritual I have to undergo to get rid of these occuring memories. Like sniff pepper and dance on one foot or something.


Being single all the time doenst help either. For all those who have a girl, recognize how lucky you are. I cant seem to find one. I doubt I ever will.

My MySpace page for all the ladies. Anyways I thought it might help to get it off my chest on a public forum. Hopefully I can come up with some way to get over her. Or maybe somebody will assasinate me to put me out of my misery.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:50:59 PM EDT
Just think how fat her ass is after having 3 kids................it worked for me.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:52:36 PM EDT
Dood just go to her house or something.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:54:03 PM EDT
Liquor and mindless sex.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:54:15 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 6:54:59 PM EDT by Dusty_C]

Originally Posted By ImplementOfWar:

Originally Posted By konger:
You need to hook up with her again for a one night stand. Bang the hell out of her (mongolian style), then pull a porn star on her and drench her face. Stand up and shake off your tool, then flip a coin on her chest and walk out.

Trust me........this really works.



No, that post just made it worse.

Not only did I get a feeling of extreme jealousy of the thought of NOT doing that, I got sick thinking someone else did.

Thanks but no thanks.


I do have her number, and I did try calling her once (like a few weeks after we hung out) but I got so nervous and felt so stupid I just hung up and never called back. She definatly might not even remember me. She was young too so I would of felt even stupider actually going on an official date with her. Her parents would of probably called the police since I was over 18. Weirded me out anyways.

I have seen alot of hot girls, I have been with alot of hot girls, but for some reason I cannot forget this one. She just keeps occuring to me in my memory all the time.

I didnt know if there was some ancient secret ritual I have to undergo to get rid of these occuring memories. Like sniff pepper and dance on one foot or something.


Being single all the time doenst help either. For all those who have a girl, recognize how lucky you are.

It's probably because you didn't bag her. Cowboy up and call her or stop being a whiny bitch.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:56:04 PM EDT
If I'm not mistaken, there's an old country sone that goes, "The best way to get over somebody, is to get under somebody".
I have nothing better to offer.

CO
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:56:32 PM EDT
As others said, find this girl and get it settled one way or the other.

If that doesn't work, picture her with the flu, sitting on the toilet spewing out both ends.
That should ease your mental anguish a bit.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 6:58:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By GoGop:
If that doesn't work, picture her with the flu, sitting on the toilet spewing out both ends.
That should ease your mental anguish a bit.



Oh.. I dunno..

Some people have a fetish about that one.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:01:00 PM EDT
Stay drunk for eleven years.

You'll forget all kinds of shit.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:04:53 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 7:08:21 PM EDT by ImplementOfWar]
I CANT THINK OF HER IN A NEGATIVE WAY.

Thinking of her having sex with somebody makes me jealous for some strange reason.

Thinking of her being crazy doesnt work.

Thinking of her being ugly definatly doesnt work, in fact it just makes me think about her more.


Yeah the only think that would work is actually having sex/children/ getting married to her. But that is so farfetched.

Its been 6 years. Her family is multi millionaires. My household income is 100K. She is no doubt some super high maintenance rich supermodel. I am a poor bastard and live at home with my parents practically unemployed (better of enemployed by the amount of money I make). And im going to call her for a date? Yeah right.

Not going to work.

I just have to suck it up and recognize life fking sucks. Maybe kill myself. On principal that if I had money then maybe I could have somebody so perfect and have that person actually like me.

I fail. The first opinions were right, I just neeed to get laid.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:05:30 PM EDT
Ok...

Step away from the PC.


Get help.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:09:05 PM EDT
Right click...delete.

Empty trash.

Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:09:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By GoGop:
If that doesn't work, picture her with the flu, sitting on the toilet spewing out both ends.
That should ease your mental anguish a bit.



Oh.. I dunno..

Some people have a fetish about that one.

Even done a girl doggy style while she was puking? It explains the fetish lol
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:11:29 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 7:12:49 PM EDT by VooDoo3dfx]

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:
Even done a girl doggy style while she was puking? It explains the fetish lol



Hrm.

No.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:11:47 PM EDT


Originally Posted By GoGop:
If that doesn't work, picture her with the flu, sitting on the toilet spewing out both ends.
That should ease your mental anguish a bit.



A la Tubgirl
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:14:02 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By GoGop:
If that doesn't work, picture her with the flu, sitting on the toilet spewing out both ends.
That should ease your mental anguish a bit.



Oh.. I dunno..

Some people have a fetish about that one.

Even done a girl doggy style while she was puking? It explains the fetish lol



The muscle twitch, like coughing?

You have to picture both ends going at the same time.
That kills doggy style muscle grabs.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:16:04 PM EDT

Originally Posted By ImplementOfWar:
I CANT THINK OF HER IN A NEGATIVE WAY.

Thinking of her having sex with somebody makes me jealous for some strange reason.

Thinking of her being crazy doesnt work.

Thinking of her being ugly definatly doesnt work, in fact it just makes me think about her more.


Yeah the only think that would work is actually having sex/children/ getting married to her. But that is so farfetched.

Its been 6 years. Her family is multi millionaires. My household income is 100K. She is no doubt some super high maintenance rich supermodel. I am a poor bastard and live at home with my parents practically unemployed (better of enemployed by the amount of money I make). And im going to call her for a date? Yeah right.

Not going to work.

I just have to suck it up and recognize life fking sucks. Maybe kill myself. On principal that if I had money then maybe I could have somebody so perfect and have that person actually like me.

I fail. The first opinions were right, I just neeed to get laid.




Didn't you see Madonna's Material Girl video? She went home with the broke guy who got a used pickup to take her out.

You're defeating yourself. Go ask the question!
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:32:59 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 7:33:26 PM EDT by thedoctors308]
Well first, ya get that domestic violence charge off your record...

www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=6&t=426626
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:34:31 PM EDT

Originally Posted By ImplementOfWar:
I CANT THINK OF HER IN A NEGATIVE WAY.

Thinking of her having sex with somebody makes me jealous for some strange reason.

Thinking of her being crazy doesnt work.

Thinking of her being ugly definatly doesnt work, in fact it just makes me think about her more.


Yeah the only think that would work is actually having sex/children/ getting married to her. But that is so farfetched.

Its been 6 years. Her family is multi millionaires. My household income is 100K. She is no doubt some super high maintenance rich supermodel. I am a poor bastard and live at home with my parents practically unemployed (better of enemployed by the amount of money I make). And im going to call her for a date? Yeah right.

Not going to work.

I just have to suck it up and recognize life fking sucks. Maybe kill myself. On principal that if I had money then maybe I could have somebody so perfect and have that person actually like me.

I fail. The first opinions were right, I just neeed to get laid.




Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:36:22 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 7:51:23 PM EDT by ElCamino]

How do you forget a girl?


The real answer is, you don't.

Sorry.

Have fun, I know I am.

ETA: Let me make it clear that I didn't read any of your likely bullshit whiny story, I just responded to the question in the title.. I'm pretty confident that like most of these sorts of things the fact that the girl is on your mind in the first place is because you're either pathetic or crazy, and that to most reasonable people she wouldn't have meant a whole lot in the first place.

However, my answer above stands if she does actually mean something. Then you're fucked. Otherwise, you're a whiner.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:37:25 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/28/2006 7:39:29 PM EDT by ScaryGuy]
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Link Posted: 1/28/2006 7:52:19 PM EDT
If you figure it out, please let me know.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 8:05:44 PM EDT
They are all the same. Get another one.
Link Posted: 1/28/2006 8:07:54 PM EDT

Originally Posted By jmindler:
first of all, this is slightly scary to me.

second, it sounds like you are an adult now, so do yourself a favor and look her up, get in touch, and find out if she is everything you remember.

If you are otherwise incapable of hooking up with this chick, i suggest finding a counselor or someone else to discuss this issue with. The 6 year attachment with nothing more than a couple dates isn't really normal, even if she was strikingly beautiful. Find a solution to your issue.



Easy solution... Find another girl... Or pay someone alot of $$ to tell you the same thing.
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