we just cant hear the voices in their head, thats all.
the thought process of women is different than that of man for the pourpose of child rearing, repetitive actions in duties aligned to being female and "keeper of the cave" and relys on emotional feelings vs factual judgement.
look at the base of what humans are vs what we have become. from caveman to modern man, roles have changed, especially since the 1940's. But, the basis of who we are has not..hence the confusion.
lastly,,we the men who love and raise them. break their hearts, mess with their heads,
we the men that date them, marry them, break their hearts and mess with their heads..
in my humble 70% of womens issues arrive from their treatment by men in their formative years by father, brother, first love, etc...so,,and unlike the average maleof the species, they wont "let it go" and move on.
ITS MENS FAULTS they are screwed up...
get over it..get used to it. wont change, ever.