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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:32:20 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/31/2005 10:34:29 AM EDT by bruh44]
I got a call at work early this morning. My fiance got on the computer to download some music, and found all the porn I have been downloading for the last few weeks. I guess it's a good thing in some ways. She was bound to figure out I'm a scum bag eventually, better now before we are married than after. She says it's like cheating on her with porn. My point of veiw is that, thats what stops me from cheating on her. But how do you explain that with out being an even bigger ass? Just wanted to hear everyone elses thoughts on this. And yes, I am prepaired for all the crap I am about to get.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:34:48 AM EDT
My girlfriend doesn't like that I watch porn. I told her I did it before we were together and that it's something she'll have to accept.

Girls feel like they're not good enough if you watch porn. She'll probably get over it, just try to explain that it has no relevance to how you feel about her.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:34:53 AM EDT
Try not hiding the porn from her!! That's part of what makes it feel like you're cheating because you're not including her in part of your sexual life. Some women are okay with watching porn with their man and it can make the sex better.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:37:21 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/31/2005 10:43:13 AM EDT by Bama-Shooter]

Originally Posted By HeldHostage:
Try not hiding the porn from her!! That's part of what makes it feel like you're cheating because you're not including her in part of your sexual life. Some women are okay with watching porn with their man and it can make the sex better.



I love HH.

ETA: bruh44, get the ring back.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:39:02 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bruh44:
My point of veiw is that, thats what stops me from cheating on her.



I would have NEVER said that to her.

But then again, I'm divorced, so what do I know?
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:39:48 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:

Originally Posted By HeldHostage:
Try not hiding the porn from her!! That's part of what makes it feel like you're cheating because you're not including her in part of your sexual life. Some women are okay with watching porn with their man and it can make the sex better.



I love HH.

ETA: Get the ring back.



I love you too!

I'm serious though, when you keep things from your significant other is what makes it a big deal! Hiding them complicates it and drags it out longer. It can also create trust issues where there shouldn't be any.

Bama.. ring?
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:43:00 AM EDT
She knew I was into it before, it just hasn't come up in a while. I have tried to get her to watch it with me, but she just isn't into it. The way I see it, either, I'll be packing my shit over the next few weeks, or we're gonna have some damn good sex tonight.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:43:50 AM EDT
I use to hide my porn habits from my wife and that's what pissed her off most about it.
Now I'm totally open about it and ocassionally, VERY ocassionally, she'll even watch with me.

The funny thing is she gets off like mad when she watches porn, but says she dosn't understand why I watch it?
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:47:33 AM EDT
women are always like that... youd be amazed at how much soem off them actually love to check out other beautiful women.. my last three that i was with .. weve all bought porn together .. its unbelievable.. they get off like crazy...
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:50:21 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bruh44:
She knew I was into it before, it just hasn't come up in a while. I have tried to get her to watch it with me, but she just isn't into it. The way I see it, either, I'll be packing my shit over the next few weeks, or we're gonna have some damn good sex tonight.








Hope it works out for you


Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:51:18 AM EDT

Originally Posted By MicronuT:
women are always like that... youd be amazed at how much soem off them actually love to check out other beautiful women.. my last three that i was with .. weve all bought porn together .. its unbelievable.. they get off like crazy...



Thats true most girls seem to like watching the girls get fucked they aren't really watching the guy. My old GF thought porn guys were pretty gross but like watching Girl on Girl No complaints here

She is the same one who caught all of my downloads off the computer

the girl now is not very interested in porn, but the sex is awesome so i dont really care at all.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:54:03 AM EDT
Tell her that porn was there before she was, porn has shaped you as a man and is one of the major components of your formed sexuality, and she won't bother you about it anymore.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 10:56:21 AM EDT
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:00:34 AM EDT

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.



LOL! I dont see why they get mad if your lady is taking care of your needs you dont want to beat off.

I come home from work scared that I am going to be attacked, I could not cheat on her if I wanted to the body just would not cooperate I am drained...
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:13 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bruh44:
I got a call at work early this morning. My fiance got on the computer to download some music, and found all the porn I have been downloading for the last few weeks. I guess it's a good thing in some ways. She was bound to figure out I'm a scum bag eventually, better now before we are married than after. She says it's like cheating on her with porn. My point of veiw is that, thats what stops me from cheating on her. But how do you explain that with out being an even bigger ass? Just wanted to hear everyone elses thoughts on this. And yes, I am prepaired for all the crap I am about to get.



If I were you, and she truly believes that watching porn is like cheating on her, I'd be real careful that she doesn't get the idea in her head that she now has the right to get "even"
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:22 AM EDT
You know, my hand is the only thing she should be jealous of.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:29 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/31/2005 11:02:25 AM EDT by J_Smith]
You got to be open about that stuff. Either Porn or no porn - but don't hide who you are - and don't apologize for being yourself. EVER. She should appreciate the fact that you only want her. But thinking Porn is cheating - that's bullshit.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:48 AM EDT

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.



Gabby the wise!

Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:02:04 AM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By MicronuT:
women are always like that... youd be amazed at how much soem off them actually love to check out other beautiful women.. my last three that i was with .. weve all bought porn together .. its unbelievable.. they get off like crazy...



Thats true most girls seem to like watching the girls get fucked they aren't really watching the guy. My old GF thought porn guys were pretty gross but like watching Girl on Girl No complaints here



same here.... not all that outwardly enthusiastic, but reach for the kitty and it's dripping like a Dairy Queen ice cream in July....
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:29:43 AM EDT

Originally Posted By modog:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By MicronuT:
women are always like that... youd be amazed at how much soem off them actually love to check out other beautiful women.. my last three that i was with .. weve all bought porn together .. its unbelievable.. they get off like crazy...



Thats true most girls seem to like watching the girls get fucked they aren't really watching the guy. My old GF thought porn guys were pretty gross but like watching Girl on Girl No complaints here



same here.... not all that outwardly enthusiastic, but reach for the kitty and it's dripping like a Dairy Queen ice cream in July....



LOL, yeah the kitty dont lie!

I think it is the way they are raised they are taught that certain things are bad and they shouldn't enjoy them.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:30:49 AM EDT
Hide it better next time.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:37:39 AM EDT
A quote I heard one time- "It doesnt matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home".
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:38:10 AM EDT
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:42:03 AM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Rule #1: Don't ever hide it from the girlfriend/wife.

If you're hiding something, then it makes you look like you're guilty. As soon as we think you're guilty of something, the sh*t will hit the fan, and fast. Just try getting her to watch it with you. Better yet, take her to an adult store and pick some things out together.

I personally could care less about the hubby watching any porn, although I don't think he does. I've tried, but can't seem to really get into it. Too shallow for me. As soon as they come up with porn with a plot, I'm in.



I haven't looked at any but there is porn out there targeted at women, and it does have some plot
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:42:22 AM EDT
Porn is good. As long it is not homo porn your good. Tell her to relax.

Max
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:43:41 AM EDT

Originally Posted By comp1911:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.



Gabby the wise!




Huge +1,she should be the mod of her own forum here on cooking and intergender relations
I got ten bucks that it would be one of the highest traffic areas on the site
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:46:05 AM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Rule #1: Don't ever hide it from the girlfriend/wife.

If you're hiding something, then it makes you look like you're guilty. As soon as we think you're guilty of something, the sh*t will hit the fan, and fast. Just try getting her to watch it with you. Better yet, take her to an adult store and pick some things out together.

I personally could care less about the hubby watching any porn, although I don't think he does. I've tried, but can't seem to really get into it. Too shallow for me. As soon as they come up with porn with a plot, I'm in.



My wife has enjoyed the "Shane's World" series abit. Absolute no plot, pure hardcore, but it's written/directed by a woman so there must be something in it that she knows appeals to other women...
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:51:39 AM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Rule #1: Don't ever hide it from the girlfriend/wife.

If you're hiding something, then it makes you look like you're guilty. As soon as we think you're guilty of something, the sh*t will hit the fan, and fast. Just try getting her to watch it with you. Better yet, take her to an adult store and pick some things out together.

I personally could care less about the hubby watching any porn, although I don't think he does. I've tried, but can't seem to really get into it. Too shallow for me. As soon as they come up with porn with a plot, I'm in.



LOL! Porn with a Plot! I love it... it will definitely pull in the female audiences but the men will just fast forward to the "action" scenes!!

Hey ya know? It gives me an idea, If they make "The Amazing Race' all nude then it just might get my bride into porn!! (Oh I am such the dead man now for saying that)


On a SERIOUS note: I agree, dont hide anything from your wife. She is more hurt by that then the porn itself. Shit, I remember when I had to tell the wife "DO NOT send the check to resubscribe to Playboy for me. Screw those anti-gun assholes!"
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:52:06 AM EDT
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:54:51 AM EDT
Tell you can either watch that shit or do that shit to her... Show her some guy jizzing on faces, anal, etc. She'll knock that shit off real quick.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 11:59:50 AM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By colklink:

Originally Posted By comp1911:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.



Gabby the wise!




Huge +1,she should be the mod of her own forum here on cooking and intergender relations
I got ten bucks that it would be one of the highest traffic areas on the site





That's no lie, either. Hell, I'd pay ten bucks a day just to see her whip a lot of these boys into shape. No fear, that woman.


Don't encourage me.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:01:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By colklink:

Originally Posted By comp1911:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.



Gabby the wise!




Huge +1,she should be the mod of her own forum here on cooking and intergender relations
I got ten bucks that it would be one of the highest traffic areas on the site





That's no lie, either. Hell, I'd pay ten bucks a day just to see her whip a lot of these boys into shape. No fear, that woman.


Don't encourage me.



Hell, I'm sure there are quite a few of us who'd pay the ten bucks to be whipped into shape by her.

I can't be the only one.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:01:46 PM EDT
Does your fiance like to cook and clean? If not, you should be breaking off the engagement, regardless of porn issues...
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:03:57 PM EDT
Some porn has a "plot" (I use that word loosely), but they're lame. Usually it goes something like this:

"Oh, my car broke down!" (bimbo bends over car engine wearing bootie shorts)

"Hello ma'am....I see you're having some trouble there...can I help you?"

"Why yes."

And then it goes to normal porn from there.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:07:53 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:09:21 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Sniper_Wolfe:
Some porn has a "plot" (I use that word loosely), but they're lame. Usually it goes something like this:

"Oh, my car broke down!" (bimbo bends over car engine wearing bootie shorts)

"Hello ma'am....I see you're having some trouble there...can I help you?"

"Why yes."

And then it goes to normal porn from there.


Yup! Too much of a plot is stupid, anyway. It's porn; who wants in-depth characters?
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:10:27 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:10:49 PM EDT
My wife knows I look a porn.
Sometimes she looks . I like pie
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:11:47 PM EDT

Originally Posted By bruh44:
I got a call at work early this morning. My fiance got on the computer to download some music, and found all the porn I have been downloading for the last few weeks. I guess it's a good thing in some ways. She was bound to figure out I'm a scum bag eventually, better now before we are married than after. She says it's like cheating on her with porn. My point of veiw is that, thats what stops me from cheating on her. But how do you explain that with out being an even bigger ass? Just wanted to hear everyone elses thoughts on this. And yes, I am prepaired for all the crap I am about to get.





If that's what you think, she deserves better.....


Thought ever cross your mind that maybe you don't cheat on your significant other, because you LOVE them ?



Good luck with that........


Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:16:05 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
Yup! Too much of a plot is stupid, anyway. It's porn; who wants in-depth characters?



Didn'tcha know? It's all in depth.



I set myself up for that.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:19:57 PM EDT
we need that one guy here to post his story again. You remember the one who was moving and his girlfriend told him to throw away his box of porn....hahaa
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:26:21 PM EDT
Watching porn can be an educational endeavor as much as for entertainment. (monkey see, monkey do!) I have a wife who's very reserved and isn't one who will "discuss" sexual matters easily. I have a difficult time telling her I'd like to try some new idea because of her unwillingness to talk much about it (reads propriety). Sometimes, when I can talk her into watching an adult movie, it leads to a hotter, and much more adventureous evening. Most women seem to have some reservation about enjoying an adult film. But it's true that despite all the protestations, they seem to really get into the subsequent lovemaking.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:28 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Big_Cheese:
Most women seem to have some reservation about enjoying an adult film. But it's true that despite all the protestations, they seem to really get into the subsequent lovemaking.



Is this true for women and romance novels? A co-worker told me that there were studies done proving that women who read romance novels, tend to be better lovers in bed.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:57 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/31/2005 12:30:19 PM EDT by cnatra]
SIIHPPP

Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:58 PM EDT

Originally Posted By leakycow:

Originally Posted By bruh44:
My point of veiw is that, thats what stops me from cheating on her.



I would have NEVER said that to her.

But then again, I'm divorced, so what do I know?



+1
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:29:34 PM EDT
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:30:41 PM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By Big_Cheese:
Most women seem to have some reservation about enjoying an adult film. But it's true that despite all the protestations, they seem to really get into the subsequent lovemaking.



Is this true for women and romance novels? A co-worker told me that there were studies done proving that women who read romance novels, tend to be better lovers in bed.



that would be an interesting experiment!
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:32:47 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By Big_Cheese:
Most women seem to have some reservation about enjoying an adult film. But it's true that despite all the protestations, they seem to really get into the subsequent lovemaking.



Is this true for women and romance novels? A co-worker told me that there were studies done proving that women who read romance novels, tend to be better lovers in bed.








Can I get some proof!?
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:33:09 PM EDT
Mine was bothered more by my downloading porn and spending more time organizing it than spanking to it.

She actually gets turned on by the though of me rubbing one off, and often attacks me after I do, even though my rubbing one off is precipitated by her turning me down. Works for me.
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:34:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Sniper_Wolfe:
Some porn has a "plot" (I use that word loosely), but they're lame. Usually it goes something like this:

"Oh, my car broke down!" (bimbo bends over car engine wearing bootie shorts)

"Hello ma'am....I see you're having some trouble there...can I help you?"

"Why yes."

And then it goes to normal porn from there.



Well you gotta work into it somehow. Like starting casual conversation with a chick. Something like, "Like ice cream? Wanna get naked and get in a heap?"
Link Posted: 12/31/2005 12:36:12 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/31/2005 12:36:45 PM EDT by SP1Grrl]
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