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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:34:48 AM EDT
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My girlfriend doesn't like that I watch porn. I told her I did it before we were together and that it's something she'll have to accept.
Girls feel like they're not good enough if you watch porn. She'll probably get over it, just try to explain that it has no relevance to how you feel about her. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:34:53 AM EDT
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Try not hiding the porn from her!! That's part of what makes it feel like you're cheating because you're not including her in part of your sexual life. Some women are okay with watching porn with their man and it can make the sex better.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:37:21 AM EDT
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I love HH. ETA: bruh44, get the ring back. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:39:02 AM EDT
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I would have NEVER said that to her. But then again, I'm divorced, so what do I know? |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:39:48 AM EDT
[#5]
 I love you too! I'm serious though, when you keep things from your significant other is what makes it a big deal! Hiding them complicates it and drags it out longer. It can also create trust issues where there shouldn't be any. Bama.. ring? |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:43:00 AM EDT
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She knew I was into it before, it just hasn't come up in a while. I have tried to get her to watch it with me, but she just isn't into it. The way I see it, either, I'll be packing my shit over the next few weeks, or we're gonna have some damn good sex tonight.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:43:50 AM EDT
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I use to hide my porn habits from my wife and that's what pissed her off most about it.
Now I'm totally open about it and ocassionally, VERY ocassionally, she'll even watch with me. The funny thing is she gets off like mad when she watches porn, but says she dosn't understand why I watch it? 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:47:33 AM EDT
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women are always like that... youd be amazed at how much soem off them actually love to check out other beautiful women.. my last three that i was with .. weve all bought porn together .. its unbelievable.. they get off like crazy...
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:50:21 AM EDT
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Hope it works out for you  |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:51:18 AM EDT
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Thats true most girls seem to like watching the girls get fucked they aren't really watching the guy. My old GF thought porn guys were pretty gross but like watching Girl on Girl  No complaints here She is the same one who caught all of my downloads off the computer the girl now is not very interested in porn, but the sex is awesome so i dont really care at all. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:54:03 AM EDT
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Tell her that porn was there before she was, porn has shaped you as a man and is one of the major components of your formed sexuality, and she won't bother you about it anymore.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:56:21 AM EDT
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Ugh, why do they get jealous? Sometimes a guy just wants to beat off.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:00:34 AM EDT
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LOL! I dont see why they get mad if your lady is taking care of your needs you dont want to beat off. I come home from work scared that I am going to be attacked, I could not cheat on her if I wanted to the body just would not cooperate I am drained... 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:13 AM EDT
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If I were you, and she truly believes that watching porn is like cheating on her, I'd be real careful that she doesn't get the idea in her head that she now has the right to get "even" |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:22 AM EDT
[#15]
You know, my hand is the only thing she should be jealous of.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:29 AM EDT
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You got to be open about that stuff. Either Porn or no porn - but don't hide who you are - and don't apologize for being yourself. EVER. She should appreciate the fact that you only want her. But thinking Porn is cheating - that's bullshit.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:01:48 AM EDT
[#17]
Gabby the wise!
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:02:04 AM EDT
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same here.... not all that outwardly enthusiastic, but reach for the kitty and it's dripping like a Dairy Queen ice cream in July.... |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:29:43 AM EDT
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LOL, yeah the kitty dont lie! I think it is the way they are raised they are taught that certain things are bad and they shouldn't enjoy them. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:30:49 AM EDT
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Hide it better next time.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:37:39 AM EDT
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A quote I heard one time- "It doesnt matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home".
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:38:10 AM EDT
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Rule #1: Don't ever hide it from the girlfriend/wife.
 If you're hiding something, then it makes you look like you're guilty. As soon as we think you're guilty of something, the sh*t will hit the fan, and fast. Just try getting her to watch it with you. Better yet, take her to an adult store and pick some things out together.  I personally could care less about the hubby watching any porn, although I don't think he does. I've tried, but can't seem to really get into it. Too shallow for me. As soon as they come up with porn with a plot, I'm in. 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:42:03 AM EDT
[#23]
I haven't looked at any but there is porn out there targeted at women, and it does have some plot
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:42:22 AM EDT
[#24]
Porn is good. As long it is not homo porn your good. Tell her to relax.
Max |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:43:41 AM EDT
[#25]
Huge +1,she should be the mod of her own forum here on cooking and intergender relations I got ten bucks that it would be one of the highest traffic areas on the site
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:46:05 AM EDT
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My wife has enjoyed the "Shane's World" series abit. Absolute no plot, pure hardcore, but it's written/directed by a woman so there must be something in it that she knows appeals to other women... 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:51:39 AM EDT
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LOL! Porn with a Plot! I love it... it will definitely pull in the female audiences but the men will just fast forward to the "action" scenes!! Hey ya know? It gives me an idea, If they make "The Amazing Race' all nude then it just might get my bride into porn!! (Oh I am such the dead man now for saying that) On a SERIOUS note: I agree, dont hide anything from your wife. She is more hurt by that then the porn itself. Shit, I remember when I had to tell the wife "DO NOT send the check to resubscribe to Playboy for me. Screw those anti-gun assholes!" |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:52:06 AM EDT
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That's no lie, either. Hell, I'd pay ten bucks a day just to see her whip a lot of these boys into shape. No fear, that woman.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:54:51 AM EDT
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Tell you can either watch that shit or do that shit to her... Show her some guy jizzing on faces, anal, etc. She'll knock that shit off real quick.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 11:59:50 AM EDT
[#30]
Don't encourage me.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:01:33 PM EDT
[#31]
Hell, I'm sure there are quite a few of us who'd pay the ten bucks to be whipped into shape by her. I can't be the only one. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:01:46 PM EDT
[#32]
Does your fiance like to cook and clean? If not, you should be breaking off the engagement, regardless of porn issues...
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:03:57 PM EDT
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Some porn has a "plot" (I use that word loosely), but they're lame. Usually it goes something like this:
"Oh, my car broke down!" (bimbo bends over car engine wearing bootie shorts) "Hello ma'am....I see you're having some trouble there...can I help you?" "Why yes." And then it goes to normal porn from there. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:07:53 PM EDT
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<----runs off to beg GB to put in a new forum titled 'Dr. Gabs, the loooove doctor. Push ups, NOW!'
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:09:21 PM EDT
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Yup! Too much of a plot is stupid, anyway. It's porn; who wants in-depth characters? |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:10:27 PM EDT
[#36]
Didn'tcha know? It's all in depth.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:10:49 PM EDT
[#37]
My wife knows I look a porn.
Sometimes she looks . I like pie
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:11:47 PM EDT
[#38]
If that's what you think, she deserves better.....  Thought ever cross your mind that maybe you don't cheat on your significant other, because you LOVE them ? Good luck with that........ |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:16:05 PM EDT
[#39]
 I set myself up for that.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:19:57 PM EDT
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we need that one guy here to post his story again. You remember the one who was moving and his girlfriend told him to throw away his box of porn....hahaa
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:26:21 PM EDT
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Watching porn can be an educational endeavor as much as for entertainment. (monkey see, monkey do!) I have a wife who's very reserved and isn't one who will "discuss" sexual matters easily. I have a difficult time telling her I'd like to try some new idea because of her unwillingness to talk much about it (reads propriety). Sometimes, when I can talk her into watching an adult movie, it leads to a hotter, and much more adventureous evening. Most women seem to have some reservation about enjoying an adult film. But it's true that despite all the protestations, they seem to really get into the subsequent lovemaking.
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:28 PM EDT
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Is this true for women and romance novels? A co-worker told me that there were studies done proving that women who read romance novels, tend to be better lovers in bed. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:57 PM EDT
[#43]
SIIHPPP
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:28:58 PM EDT
[#44]
+1 |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:29:34 PM EDT
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:30:41 PM EDT
[#46]
that would be an interesting experiment! |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:32:47 PM EDT
[#47]
Can I get some proof!? 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:33:09 PM EDT
[#48]
Mine was bothered more by my downloading porn and spending more time organizing it than spanking to it.
She actually gets turned on by the though of me rubbing one off, and often attacks me after I do, even though my rubbing one off is precipitated by her turning me down. Works for me. |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:34:43 PM EDT
[#49]
Well you gotta work into it somehow. Like starting casual conversation with a chick. Something like, "Like ice cream? Wanna get naked and get in a heap?" 
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Posted: 12/31/2005 12:36:12 PM EDT
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Well of cour...no. |
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