My best friend's ex husband, with whom she had one child, died suddenly early this fall. In the summer of this year, 2005, he was granted a divorce from his third wife, after a marriage of a couple of years with no children. This wife left him for another woman. My friend maintained a civil relationship with her ex, mainly because of their daughter, and in the months prior to and immediately after she asked him repeatedly to change the beneficiary on his $250,000 life insurance from this latest ex-wife, back to his two daughters from his prior marriages. He said repeatedly that he would. When he died suddenly at the age of 40, the police found a change of beneficiary form on his desk, but it had not been filled out.
It is common knowledge that he absolutely would not have wanted his ex-wife to get this money, especially after she left him for a woman. However, my friend has been advised that legally there isn't much she or the mother of the other child can do to get this money for the children as the beneficiary had not been changed.
The ex-wife told my friend on several occasions that she would do what was right and make sure that his daughters received the money. The ex-wife has told people all over their small town that she has already given the girls their money. But they have not received a dime. Meanwhile, the ex-wife is obviously living much better in the last couple of months. Wonder why?
We had discussed protesting in front her of home and office, with signs that say Miss X steals from little orphans,, considered newspaper ads and billboards, in the hopes that it might shame her into doing the right thing. Any suggestions?