Ok this thread has played out a few days, let's take a look at the scoreboard, looks like about 85-90 percent of you that posted agree with me and rest 10-15 percent don't. What does that mean to people like Gunslinger who seems to violently oppose my view. That you are on the "fringe" my friend and you are surrounded by MMM and HCI supporters (in your mind, and on this board even), and you are creating enemies where they are none. As gun owners we can't even agree on things that seem like common sense to most of us (85-90%). Some (10-15%)of you take any measure of safety as threat against your right to own & bear. I might have come off as preaching that you got to save your kids and I know what's best, for that I apologize. I know what's best for me, and personally I don't care what you do. If your child shoots themself, to me it will just be another meaningless statistic on the TV and I'll say "damn that's too bad" and move on with my life.
For my friend that this happened to, losing the child wasn't his only loss. He literally lost everything. Wife blamed him for what happened and left him, police still has his guns. On top of that, what about the 3 year old, he has never been the same and may suffer with mental problems for the rest of his life. Very unfortunate just because he forgot to put the gun up on the closet shelf that day and the wife was talking to the mailman for a couple minutes. A safe is not a cure-all either, this guy could have just as well forgot to put his gun up in the safe. I don't have all the answers. I wrestle with the balance of gun ownership and quick access in case I need it and the safety of my children. I have had to use a gun a few times in the past to protect my myself, my family and my home. I sleep with a cocked & locked 1911 under my pillow, as soon as I wake up the gun goes in my CCW holster or my safe. My wife has one of those quick acces mini-vaults on her nightstand. You break into our house and you can expect to be shot. Some of you think it's all about raising your kids right and mom being home, you'll notice in the unfortunate event I mention, the mom was home and was just distracted for a couple minutes. My wife quit her very lucrative job (she has a masters in chemical engineering) when we had our first child so she could be a full time mom, she's home all day. You think you can keep track of 3 kids every second of the day? If you think so you've never tried it, you gotta go to the bathroom sometime.
Some of you call me liberal, others call me a gun nut or a killer. I'm neither, I'm just a man that cares very much about my family and my right to keep and bear arms.
The more "statistics" there are, the easier it will be for us to lose our gun rights, let's do what we can to not be a statistic cuz that just adds ammo to the gun grabbers.