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Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:06:58 AM EDT
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Depends on your state but, most states in the US do not allow a child under the age of 10 to be charged with a crime.
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That’s true. But they can be PO’ed, which forces the kid away from yours and - if they’re dumb enough to actually resist it - gets the school admins a much-needed ass-reaming from a judge.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:09:14 AM EDT
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What kid?  


Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:12:52 AM EDT
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You both could be correct.  School sweeps it under the rug, then when the kid does something they try to throw OP's kid under the bus.  Seen it happen.
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You’re no longer dealing with a reasonable system with public education. You are increasingly not dealing with reasonable people within it, either.

You need to be the first one to go “legally kinetic” on them. And don’t go half-assed. The snowflake side has much stronger legal weapons than you  do as the victim, so speed and strength of action matter.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:13:25 AM EDT
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Most 7 year olds do make good on their death threats!
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:21:14 AM EDT
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Forget school or teacher.

Go direct to parents for intervention.

This is learned behavior the kid picked up
from somewhere and possibly at home.

If  the father's reaction is anything less then
concerned, then refer to the "True Detective -
Ray Velcoro" option.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:24:58 AM EDT
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Lol. You’re one key retirement or school board election away from a complete 180 on that.

Again, voice of experience here.
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I understand that some areas have complete shit for schooling, but our district isn't so bad.


Lol. You’re one key retirement or school board election away from a complete 180 on that.

Again, voice of experience here.


The one thing we have (and a lot of small towns have) is that most of the people that work there, also live in the community and have kids or grandkids that attend.

It makes them actually try a little bit to keep the place decent.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:27:23 AM EDT
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He probably likes her.



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Just doesn't know how to murder pussy yet in a picture...
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:29:46 AM EDT
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You’re no longer dealing with a reasonable system with public education. You are increasingly not dealing with reasonable people within it, either.

You need to be the first one to go “legally kinetic” on them. And don’t go half-assed. The snowflake side has much stronger legal weapons than you  do as the victim, so speed and strength of action matter.
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You both could be correct.  School sweeps it under the rug, then when the kid does something they try to throw OP's kid under the bus.  Seen it happen.


You’re no longer dealing with a reasonable system with public education. You are increasingly not dealing with reasonable people within it, either.

You need to be the first one to go “legally kinetic” on them. And don’t go half-assed. The snowflake side has much stronger legal weapons than you  do as the victim, so speed and strength of action matter.

agreed.  

This is why I stroke a Porsche payment every month to send my kids to private school.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:37:53 AM EDT
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Red Flag his ass and have all of his squirt guns, Nerf guns, cap guns, dart guns and even a fucking paint gun if he has one, taken away.  
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Can he keep his hot-glue gun?
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:38:36 AM EDT
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Sociopathy has no regard for age.
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This.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:39:37 AM EDT
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The kid's a budding psychopath.  Intervene now.
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this^
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:42:16 AM EDT
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I'd go with this.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:46:21 AM EDT
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I'm going with the fuck his mom option.
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Pics of mom?
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:51:59 AM EDT
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Kid's mom loves White Claw.

Kharn
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:58:16 AM EDT
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Don't take it lightly! Talk to the school and the police. Something might be going on in his home and he could even have access to a gun.
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Don't take it lightly! Talk to the school and the police. Something might be going on in his home and he could even have access to a gun.


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By the way, is the kid's name Jeremy? You ever heard that rhetorical question 'do you want me to draw you a picture?'? HE DREW YOU A PICTURE.


"Jeremy" is a true story out of Texas.

While seven is seven, like others have said, the school should be notified.  There are 100's of "Jeremy's" simmering out there.

Pearl Jam - Jeremy (Official 4K Video)



Link Posted: 1/27/2021 11:59:52 AM EDT
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homeschool

Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:04:05 PM EDT
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You both could be correct.  School sweeps it under the rug, then when the kid does something they try to throw OP's kid under the bus.  Seen it happen.
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I doubt the school will get involved. liability issues.
Isn't it the other way around? If they do nothing about the threats, and then the kid does something, then they're on the hook.

You both could be correct.  School sweeps it under the rug, then when the kid does something they try to throw OP's kid under the bus.  Seen it happen.
Unfortunately I've had to go through an "improvement process" with an employee, and I learned right away to document everything in writing, including making notes after our discussions.

We officially started this process with a brief, factual story (as we know it) via email to the principal.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:05:28 PM EDT
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He probably likes her.



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Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:06:14 PM EDT
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This story is about my 7 yo daughter, in case you missed that little detail.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:07:04 PM EDT
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1.) Don't listen to the advice of people that don't have kids and never went to school
2.) Send your kid to school with a bullet proof west or in full battle-rattle
3.) Talk to the parents of the kid

Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:07:24 PM EDT
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They're just kids, but I'd invite the man (police and child protect services & not the school) into her life.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:11:14 PM EDT
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bad news on the first part.

i'd talk to the school, if for nothing else other than documentation for later.
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We live in a nice, small, very red town, no ghetto or 'hood to be found.

I grilled her pretty hard to be certain she wasn't making anything up or even embellishing it.
What do??


bad news on the first part.

i'd talk to the school, if for nothing else other than documentation for later.



Sociopaths come in all shapes and colors.  
The boy sounds defective.  Who knows what is causing him to act this way.  
Maybe some bad influence from a parent of older sibling.  
It’s not normal behavior.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:16:12 PM EDT
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Talk to the school
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This, express that maybe this kid needs to go elsewhere, especially if it’s more than one kid.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:16:30 PM EDT
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You gotta say something.

If you don't , it could turn out that the kid is a little sociopath and really is going to hurt someone.


Then pee on him to assert dominance... obviously!
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:27:51 PM EDT
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Get intel on the kid's family. If they aren't trash, you may want to calmly talk to the parents. Keep the originals. Don't immediately go to the school and get the bastards from CPS involved.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:32:43 PM EDT
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They should be able to prosecute as an adult. If the left thinks kids are wise enough to pick their “gender”, they’re ready for the judicial system.
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....aaaaaand I'm gonna have to use that one.  Brilliant.  Thank you, sir.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:35:15 PM EDT
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Odds are greater than 98% that he will own ferrets, snakes, or both before he turns 18.
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So he's the beastmaster
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:35:37 PM EDT
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Happened to us.  Kid threatened my daughter and a few others.  Multiple times.  Once in front of a teacher.

We demanded he be moved to a different class.  School declined.  We showed up for a meeting with 2 attorneys.  School solicitor offered a "safe space" for my daughter.   We pulled both of my kids out of that school and went to a private school.

3-4 weeks later the kid threatened to take a gun to school and shoot the place up.  They then did daily searches of his bags etc.  I believe at one point they found a knife.  He is no longer in that school.

They were 10 years old at the time.

He was into "Slenderman" stuff, was a real fucking tard.  His parents were worse.  

While some might say they're just kids, that kind of shit has got to be taken seriously.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:38:20 PM EDT
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See if you can get him tried as an adult.  This isn’t a 4 year old we’re talking about, he’s 7, which is 1 away from 17, so basically an adult.
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Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:41:31 PM EDT
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This.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:42:32 PM EDT
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1st grade? Tell her to punch him in the stomach. Good grief. And 7 in 1st grade?
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:42:39 PM EDT
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He's 7.  My daughter is also in first grade an loves to draw and has drawn some pretty morbid things.   A kid in my daughter's class called her a poopy head and she drew a picture of him with X's on his eyes.  Kids just aren't aware of stuff like that at that age and don't have full control of their wild emotions.

I wouldn't take it too seriously. I would get in touch with his parents and let them know.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:43:26 PM EDT
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lol.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:43:53 PM EDT
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Snitch?
Really?
You have kids?
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Just joking
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:44:06 PM EDT
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1. School principal

2. Head of school board

3. Local LEO's

4. Parent/s

Start a paper trail so when this shit escalates no one can claim ignorance.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:45:47 PM EDT
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What kind of fucked up ass home does that kid come from that he is drawing shit like that?

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Or not.

I was drawing the Easter Bunny tossing grenades in 2nd grade and making pistols with Legos in kindergarten. Playing with GI Joe's was graphic too with arms and legs everywhere.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:46:23 PM EDT
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They are 7.  Do nothing.
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Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:49:38 PM EDT
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This day and age I wouldn't be taking any chances as to who or what raised this kid and how far off he is mentally...

Could be nothing but it could be everything.

Talk to the school
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:50:02 PM EDT
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tell him santa is not real
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 12:58:53 PM EDT
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This requires drastic action.  Steal his cupcakes.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:11:00 PM EDT
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He's 7.  My daughter is also in first grade an loves to draw and has drawn some pretty morbid things.   A kid in my daughter's class called her a poopy head and she drew a picture of him with X's on his eyes.  Kids just aren't aware of stuff like that at that age and don't have full control of their wild emotions.

I wouldn't take it too seriously. I would get in touch with his parents and let them know.
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Yeah, I do tend to agree with the point about 1st graders not having a full awareness of either the seriousness or potential consequences of threatening to murder each other

At the same time I'm not thrilled about the level of threat and specificity in this case. I got into a couple fights around that age, sure. Who didnt? My opinion is that this kid has taken it to an abnormal level. Can you imagine yourself doing this kind of thing as a child? Your kids? Nah, it's definitely out of bounds.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:20:42 PM EDT
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2. Head of school board

3. Local LEO's

4. Parent/s

Start a paper trail so when this shit escalates no one can claim ignorance.
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Yup, paper trail initiated. First email was to the principal, who answered in about 30" despite it being about 7:00 at night. Set up a meeting with my wife and the school counselor.

My wife went in, school counselor told her the kid has some behavior issues (no kidding, really?). Someone from the school, unclear if counselor, principal or teacher, is supposed.to address this incident with the kid's parents. They're going to move this boy to another desk immediately (the kids sit at little tables of four). They're going to begin checking the kid's backpack for weapons as well.

I'm satisfied for the moment. I doubt anything would have ever come of it, but I did want a paper trail at minimum. The school responded quickly and took it seriously enough to suit me, and given the special advanced class circumstances I'm not very driven to try to get the little brat kicked out completely unless there comes another issue.

I was a little surprised that we got the counselor rather than a different administrator or the teacher, but my wife and kid both love this women so I'm OK with it. She was apparently pretty forthcoming about the other kid which also somewhat surprised me, but maybe part of that is the relationship she already has with my wife.

Now I'm just wondering about follow-up from my standpoint - what, and when?

Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:45:29 PM EDT
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That is one hell of a laugh,  coming from you.

Holy shit.

17yo sends titty pics to a boy and you are all "It is child porn. We must enforce the law"

7yo draws graphic murder pic and threatens two kids with death and you say, "Meh. Kids will be kids".

WTF, dude?
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:49:53 PM EDT
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This is not normal behavior for a 7 year old. Every kid I knew like this grew up to be piles of trash. Obviously it’s not the kids fault... he’s dealing with some fucked up shit at home, but again, it’s not normal and shouldnt be let to slide.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:54:56 PM EDT
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Call the school. They probably won’t be surprised.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 1:56:44 PM EDT
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As I recall a 7 year old and a 11 year old lured a 6 year old to an abandoned building and murdered her in England no so long ago. Age has nothing to do with wonton evil! Get school and LE involved. When it comes to my child, I would destroy half the fucking planet to insure their safety and security!
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 2:02:05 PM EDT
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Call the school board , the school already knows about the kid and his behavior.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 2:02:55 PM EDT
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You MUST speak with the teacher and principal.
Link Posted: 1/27/2021 2:03:27 PM EDT
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Have your daughter point him out to you and make sure he sees that you see him.
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