I can't believe I'm wasting my time answering this:
Once more, from the top:
You're problem was a reality perception. You think that Tom Selleck kisses guys. Never mind all the women he has been fortunate to bed down on and off screen, and never mind that he is an avid shooter and NRA member, and never mind he is an actor in a role...you feel as though he wouldn't make a good president because he kissed Kevin Kline.
Now, we're not talking about Ellen DiGeneris (sp) here, but we're talking about Tom Selleck, right. A guy's guy...a man's man.
Fine, if that's your criteria, bully for you.
My personal feeling, and I am among some others that can't quite figure out your logic, is that it doesn't make any difference. Again, if he was making hardcore gay porno flicks shown in a 25 cent peep show, I'd agree with you. But, he hasn't.
And as far as Father's go...You don't think that Selleck is not worthy of hero worship? Magnum PI? Did you know that he was slated to be Indiana Jones, but he couldn't get out of his Magnum PI shooting schedule, so Lucas and Speilberg cast Ford instead. And I believe Ford kissed Brad Pitt in The Devil's Own. Is he a "homo" too?
Let me ask you, do you do something at work that you may not enjoy? Probably...and hey, you get paid for it don'tcha? Maybe the total job experience thing for you is great, except for that one little thing they have you do that you feel isn't so kosher. But on paydays, you run to the bank. Because, you need the work to live and eat. Actors are the same way.
We have all heard your views, and don't want to hear any more. Nor, does anyone want to hear anything else that anyone has to say regarding this infamous "kiss" of Mr. Selleck's. This thread has travelled a very obtuse path.
Let's just agree to disagree and move on to something better.
Stick with the theme of the treads.