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Posted: 11/25/2003 7:10:38 AM EDT
I've been married about 20 years. In the last year or so, it seems to me that my wife, now 45, has turned from "very good looking" to "heart-rendingly gorgeous." She hasn't made any big changes in her appearance or physical condition other than letting her hair grow out, and that alone wouldn't account for it.

Do you think this phenomenon is likely to be objectively real, or is it more likely that over time one's spouse just becomes engraved in one's mind as the ideal example of her gender?

Yes, I know this is worthless without pics. No I don't have the capability to post any.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:14:41 AM EDT
Some women do age very well. It's not common but it does happen.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:15:40 AM EDT
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email them to me .. ill post them [:D]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:18:25 AM EDT
My wife is 40, and I am 36. She still looks great. Most people think she is in her early 30's. Especially with her body! Woot Woot! Just wish my tv remote worked on her some times.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:19:21 AM EDT
My wife gets better looking to me every time we have sex.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:23:56 AM EDT
Originally Posted By u-baddog: My wife gets better looking to me every time we have sex.
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Yeah, but how long does it last?
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:25:24 AM EDT
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:48:49 AM EDT
Haven't found that to be the case with mine. For 14 years now I have been telling her to let her hair grow out. Every two months she gets it chopped just above the sholders.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:48:54 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Aimless:
Originally Posted By ilikelegs: ! Just wish my tv remote worked on her some times.
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[lol] I pointed the remote at my g/f once and as soon as she realized I was clicking the "mute" button we got to find out that I can still run faster than her.
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[img]http://flymeaway.net/images/doctorsofficeMO.jpg[/img]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:56:04 AM EDT
[img]http://www.4humor.com/fv/pictures/bestremote.jpg[/img]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 7:59:48 AM EDT
This could very well be more than your love for your wife. Some woman just age very well. Look at Katie Couric, if you saw her 10 years ago, she looked like a homeley rag dog doll, now she actually looks hot. (yes I know she is a liberal, just an example)
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:03:15 AM EDT
Been married 19 years. The longer it is, the better she looks. She used to be gorgeous, now she is much more then that. Blond and built. I don't even look at other women now. All my fantasies involve her. Sex is GREAT. She is much more up to nearly anything I suggest. It doesn't get any better than this. The kicker is she feels the same way. She gives me wood just thinking about her. God I love that woman. Nothing else comes close.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:05:21 AM EDT
I suggest you might be going deaf and blind.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:12:10 AM EDT
After 20 years and 17 years of marriage, my wife now 37 years old is hotter now then she ever was as a teen ager. The only gripe I have is she don't and won't use her oral skills anymore.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:35:34 AM EDT
Stop popping all those viagras.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:42:25 AM EDT
Originally Posted By dpmmn: After 20 years and 17 years of marriage, my wife now 37 years old is hotter now then she ever was as a teen ager. The only gripe I have is she don't and won't use her oral skills anymore.
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She won't slob the knob at all? I'd call that a [b]MAJOR[/b] gripe!
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 9:20:16 AM EDT
Originally Posted By FLAL1A:
Originally Posted By u-baddog: My wife gets better looking to me every time we have sex.
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Yeah, but how long does it last?
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Till the next time..[sex] and then it starts all over again.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 9:43:11 AM EDT
Originally Posted By David_Hineline: I suggest you might be going deaf and blind.
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[rofl2] I have to admitt I was thinking the same thing.[lol]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 9:46:10 AM EDT
Alzheimer's [;D]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 9:47:27 AM EDT
My wife get's more beautiful by the day! I'd post pics but you guys would be depressed.......for a long time.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 2:37:27 PM EDT
What's a wife?
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 2:40:43 PM EDT
To seriously answer the question, Yes, she may have gotten better looking over time. Many women don't peak out in their beauty until well past 40. Part of that may be that they don't worry about the small stuff anymore.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 3:10:54 PM EDT
Can we all stand around a campfire,hold hands and sing Karen Carpenter songs??
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 3:13:41 PM EDT
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Well, You must have given her an upgraded part or a tune up since "The Wife" is an object. If she was "my wife" it may be that you respect her as a person and true love is what gets better and is making her beauty more apparent.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 3:45:15 PM EDT
Originally Posted By dpmmn: The only gripe I have is she don't and won't use her oral skills anymore.
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But do you still use yours? Tit for tat I always say. AB
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 3:48:16 PM EDT
Originally Posted By piccolo: To seriously answer the question, Yes, she may have gotten better looking over time. Many women don't peak out in their beauty until well past 40. Part of that may be that they don't worry about the small stuff anymore.
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And at 40 they get REAL HORNY! At least mine did. [naughty] AB
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 3:54:10 PM EDT
Originally Posted By lvgunner777: This could very well be more than your love for your wife. Some woman just age very well. Look at Katie Couric, if you saw her 10 years ago, she looked like a homeley rag dog doll, now she actually looks hot. (yes I know she is a liberal, just an example)
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lvgunner..you seriously need to go to an Optometrist bro..your eyesight has left you my friend. [ROFL]
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 5:00:09 PM EDT
L1A1, I've only been married 5 years but we've been together the last 10. I totally agree that my wife has gotten even better looking with the years. She's in better shape now than at any time in her life (way better than me unfortunately!). Personally I think it's a little bit of both factors (objective and subjective) but whatever it is, keep it coming! That's not to say that I don't find other women equally attractive, it's just that she's the 'total package' that really makes it difficult to imagine not being married to her. Frankly she rocks!
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 8:28:54 PM EDT
You are just going through a mid-life crisis and now trying to convince yourself that you can still act like a horny little teenager.
Link Posted: 11/25/2003 11:34:42 PM EDT
Originally Posted By albob:
Originally Posted By piccolo: To seriously answer the question, Yes, she may have gotten better looking over time. Many women don't peak out in their beauty until well past 40. Part of that may be that they don't worry about the small stuff anymore.
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And at 40 they get REAL HORNY! At least mine did. [naughty] AB
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Hmmmm, Behind the times again... 48 and still not horny... I'm gettin' tired o' waiting...
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