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Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:03:40 PM EDT
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Does she do anal on the first date?
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:03:56 PM EDT
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What is wrong with living at home with your parents exactly?
Are you serious?
I moved in to take care of my mother when she got really sick. She gave me the house. So now she lives in my house.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:04:28 PM EDT
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I like that website's background live wallpaper whatever.

Meh, I'd stick it in her butt. That's what all that was code for right?
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:05:03 PM EDT
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That list isnt exactly over the top.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:05:15 PM EDT
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LOL
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:05:35 PM EDT
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1, 4, 7, 8, 9, 10.

The rest of that is just silly. And so is she. She’ll either lower her standards (hopefully the silly ones), or end up alone. Such is life.
I agree with your numbers.

But looking at her photo (I know, I know, I actually glanced at the article!) she's not unattractive.

Plus, as we often hear on ARF, she's not a "single mom" as in never married and the kids have different baby daddies. On that point, she's no different than any divorced dad with kids.
https://preview.ibb.co/bQvtU8/1_B3_EFCB8_2064_4_C6_F_8_C64_B754_F6_B542_C2.jpg
Again, she's not unattractive. (Edit, more photos posted, she's certainly not unattractive!)

Furthermore, you all know how it goes—you see a guy's SO or wife (a woman he thinks is a 10 out of 10) and you think, "Really?"

It's her personality that would be the stumbling block.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:05:52 PM EDT
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Hyphenated name, nope.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:07:21 PM EDT
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Lol. Single parent with a kid here. We’re basically kryptonite in the dating world. I’ve accepted it. She needs to, as well.
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A buddy was marrying a single mother, another buddy gave her the dented can speech.

He said you're lucky to have found him because you're a dented can. She said what? He said, "you know, you see the dented can in the grocery store, the contents are likely just as fine as the cans around it but it's dented. Nobody takes the dented can off the shelf, they take all the cans around it, appreciate what you have here."
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:07:56 PM EDT
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I know who the short posters are...
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I love the 6’ thing with some women these days, I mean that is a fantastic reason to exclude someone.

Isn’t the average height for males in West Countries like 5’10”?
I know who the short posters are...
well, that alone eliminates 85% of her potential suitors.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:08:03 PM EDT
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She said "mum", therefore she must be British and automatic no-go.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:09:51 PM EDT
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Nope. I got 5 years, 2 months, 2 weeks and 2 days left until the youngest is 18 and 1 day old. Then, I'ma gone. Planning on staying that way. (yeah, I'm looking at flushing a currently 28 year old relationship)
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:10:29 PM EDT
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Lol. Single parent with a kid here. We're basically kryptonite in the dating world. I've accepted it. She needs to, as well.
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My wife had four from a previous marriage, didn't stop me.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:10:43 PM EDT
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I’m 6’... I just don’t get it. I could understand not wanting someone shorter than them, but I haven’t met a lot of 6’ women.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:11:41 PM EDT
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My wife had four from a previous marriage, didn't stop me.
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It just means you were extra desperate.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:11:45 PM EDT
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Nope. I got 5 years, 2 months, 2 weeks and 2 days left until the youngest is 18 and 1 day old. Then, I'ma gone. Planning on staying that way. (yeah, I'm looking at flushing a currently 28 year old relationship)
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WTF
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:11:58 PM EDT
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She needs to just buy a cat and call it a day.

Chris
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:12:52 PM EDT
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Any guy that would fit that description could do WAY better than her.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:13:06 PM EDT
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Seriously, you can avoid an incredible amount of bullshit in both dating and life by simply using the hyphenated name rule.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:13:59 PM EDT
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My dad seperated from my mom just after I turned 18.

He had his reasons, but they ended up getting back together, and stayed u til she passed.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:14:08 PM EDT
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If she is divorced why does she have a hyphenated last name?
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They’re a thing among the Brits. Hypenated family names.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:14:34 PM EDT
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I love the 6’ thing with some women these days, I mean that is a fantastic reason to exclude someone.

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About that in the US.
And I believe that’s just stupid.  I’m 5’3” so my GAF on height is pretty low.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:14:36 PM EDT
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She has eliminated over 90% of males with her height, age and the man being single. Then we get into the subjective stuff. Lets say she thinks Florence and the machine is "good music", that leaves what 2 guys? And you know one of them is gay.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:14:37 PM EDT
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Any guy that would fit that description could do WAY better than her.
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"Average woman with baggage seeks man who is above average in every way"
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:15:11 PM EDT
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She sounds like an arrogant, self important, shrew and by her pics; the juice sure as hell isn't worth the squeeze.

Enjoy spending the rest of your life alone with your cats sweetheart.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:15:56 PM EDT
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Alice Judge-Talbot married her university sweetheart at 23 and had two children, before their happily-ever after crumbled and she found herself a divorced single mother on the dating scene.

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1. Intelligent, or at least well-educated.

2. Tall, preferably taller than 6 foot.

3. Older than me, probably between the ages of 32 and 40.

4. Doesn’t live at home with his parents.

5. Lives near me.

6. Likes music, but not bad music.

7. Has a challenging career that he loves and is passionate about.

8. Likes fancy food and to be cooked for. And cheeseburgers.

9. Respects and encourages my career.

10. Likes children, maybe has some – but doesn’t advertise them to the weirdos stalking their profile.

11. Has a great sense of humour (by which I mean ‘laughs at my jokes’).

12. Hot (duh).

13. Plays some sort of sport or at least goes to the gym.

14. Is fairly cultured, or at least likes to pretend to be.

15. Looks good in a suit.

16. Looks good out of a suit.

17. Understands the value of a nice pair of shoes.

18. Believes in chivalry.

And so I set about my dating game. I went out with investment bankers, entrepreneurs, CEOs, 25-year-olds (I KNOW), journalists, comedians, marketing executives, academics . . . you name them, I’ve dated them (probably). I sat through endless hours of strangers regaling me with stories of their ‘colourful’ lives (I’ll be the judge of that, pal).

I drank red wine in at least four different counties and in front of 16 different open fires, and the only reason I didn’t start a blog about all these awful dates was because my mum told me it would have been mean.
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I was going to say Brad Pitt, but apparently he is onyl 5'11"and also too old.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:15:59 PM EDT
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Any guy that would fit that description could do WAY better than her.
"Average woman with baggage seeks man who is above average in every way"
Dom Perignon taste on a PBR budget.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:16:22 PM EDT
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She's a flat chested liberal 5 that thinks she is a 10 (with baggage).  Good luck to her....
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:16:40 PM EDT
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About that in the US.
And I believe that’s just stupid.  I’m 5’3” so my GAF on height is pretty low.
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I am 6ft even and I accept the fact that the vast majority of tall girls, like 5ft10ish and above, will want someone taller than me.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:16:57 PM EDT
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A buddy was marrying a single mother, another buddy gave her the dented can speech.

He said you're lucky to have found him because you're a dented can. She said what? He said, "you know, you see the dented can in the grocery store, the contents are likely just as fine as the cans around it but it's dented. Nobody takes the dented can off the shelf, they take all the cans around it, appreciate what you have here."
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Lol. Single parent with a kid here. We’re basically kryptonite in the dating world. I’ve accepted it. She needs to, as well.
A buddy was marrying a single mother, another buddy gave her the dented can speech.

He said you're lucky to have found him because you're a dented can. She said what? He said, "you know, you see the dented can in the grocery store, the contents are likely just as fine as the cans around it but it's dented. Nobody takes the dented can off the shelf, they take all the cans around it, appreciate what you have here."
Wow.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:17:00 PM EDT
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She brings nothing to the table.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:17:04 PM EDT
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She said "mum", therefore she must be British and automatic no-go.
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But she has nice teeth for a Brit.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:17:15 PM EDT
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At least she's not fat though.  It really cracks me up when you see fat girls saying that any guy they date has to be fit.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:17:32 PM EDT
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It's a typical indicator of failure to launch.  Not being able, due to means or ambition, to strike out on your own and provide for yourself, or in this case, others.  Not having a home and life of your own separate from your parents is not very attractive to a woman.  It displays emotional and/or financial dependency.

Now having done this and come back home to care for one's elderly parents is a different story. That said, while it is an honorable and understandable reason, it's still possible that she would not want a future in which moving in with her in-laws is part of the long term plan.  I can also understand that.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:18:20 PM EDT
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I do find that all the little thot’s who do the “want, want, want”bit tend to end up with douche bags. The ones who did it when we were young and are now in their forties are busted, usually are dating douche bags, or guys that have no self respect.

Mind you, my town is only a sample. But, most 40yrs here look like complete shit. I go to more professional towns and the women in their 40’s look pretty darn good for their age. Off subject, I know.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:19:08 PM EDT
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It just means you were extra desperate.
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My wife had four from a previous marriage, didn't stop me.
It just means you were extra desperate.
Or as my EX with kids said about me "He just settled for me"

Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:19:11 PM EDT
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At least she's not fat though.  It really cracks me up when you see fat girls saying that any guy they date has to be fit.
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She certainly doesnt go to the gym or have an active lifestyle judging by her pics tho.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:20:15 PM EDT
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About that in the US.
And I believe that’s just stupid.  I’m 5’3” so my GAF on height is pretty low.
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I love the 6’ thing with some women these days, I mean that is a fantastic reason to exclude someone.

Isn’t the average height for males in West Countries like 5’10”?
About that in the US.
And I believe that’s just stupid.  I’m 5’3” so my GAF on height is pretty low.
Being over 6', it def helps as a guy.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:20:20 PM EDT
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She's going to convince herself that her kids are the reason she can't find anyone when it's her attitude and expectations that are keeping her single.
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Everyone else just said it WAS the kids.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:21:00 PM EDT
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She want to score a 10 out of the male pool while being at best a 5
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:21:03 PM EDT
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She's average looking.  But she's fairly young with kids, that knocks her down at least a few rungs.

And I suspect her list has her overly analytical about her first dates, rather than just trying to enjoy herself leading to a rather meh dating personality.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:21:32 PM EDT
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Bitches be crazy.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:22:33 PM EDT
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She spends too much time watching the Bachelor and Bachelorette tv shows. Thinks that fairytale stuff is real life.

Living in a fantasy world......
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:22:56 PM EDT
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A feminist fighting the patriarchy.  Nope.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:23:09 PM EDT
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Kids?

LOL, no.

Go be strong and independent somewhere else.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:23:25 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:24:01 PM EDT
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Being over 6', it def helps as a guy.
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I love the 6’ thing with some women these days, I mean that is a fantastic reason to exclude someone.

Isn’t the average height for males in West Countries like 5’10”?
About that in the US.
And I believe that’s just stupid.  I’m 5’3” so my GAF on height is pretty low.
Being over 6', it def helps as a guy.
SO isn’t 6’.  I’m totally fine with it.  It’s more about substance with me.  He works hard and helps me with the yard so I make him sammiches and steaks and wash his clothes.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:24:38 PM EDT
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Mum? Fortnight? Quest? What in the actual fuck? She sounds retarded.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:25:40 PM EDT
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And she is fighting hair loss.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:25:59 PM EDT
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She's sure not a hambeast.
Link Posted: 7/7/2018 9:26:27 PM EDT
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I moved in to take care of my mother when she got really sick. She gave me the house. So now she lives in my house.
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What is wrong with living at home with your parents exactly?
Are you serious?
I moved in to take care of my mother when she got really sick. She gave me the house. So now she lives in my house.
That’s an entirely acceptable reason. There are others. As with many things in life, absolutes are few and far between.
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