There's one issue I havent seen yet raised here..overweight people,no matter how loveable, how much we accept them, are a very real drain on the health care system.and also our pocket books in the form of higher health care costs, taxes, insurance, business liability, and social policy...to sum it up they are dragging us all down or to put it another way the fewer healthy ones are once again carrying the majority on our backs...
just to say I have dated "larger women" a lot in my life and hold no prejudice against them and I myself have gained a few pounds in my later years up from 165 at 30 to 180 at 38. resulting in a spare tire effect..I work in a very physical job (construction) and eat 5 servings of fruit and vegatables everyday, limit my complex carbs and fat and try to be healthy in my lifestyle..but some times fat happens...all that means is I have to suck it up and work harder at staying fit (reasonably).
It's my obligation and my resposibility.
and if more people would own up to their own personal responsibility this country would benifit exponentially in every way,economicly,freedom, health, prosperity,safety, everything!!
instead we are trying to litigate responsibility on the backs of someone else...it might work for now....but watch out someday we will all pay, fat,thin,young and old.