Another version from a Tunkhannock newspaper.
http://www.newage-examiner.com/site/news.cfm?newsid=7937741&BRD=2310&PAG=461&dept_id=480505&rfi=6
BY MARY BALDWIN , The New Age-Examiner 05/07/2003
Tunkhannock Area High School Principal Jack Gallo said a recent incident in which two U.S. Air Force captains were told not to wear their uniforms when they spoke at the school was a "miscommunication."
"It was not my intent to bar a uniform," Gallo said Friday.
"What I failed to communicate was that officers coming in have the option to wear their uniforms.
"I didn't communicate clearly, and I apologize for that."
While on leave from Edwards Air Force Base in California, Capt. Christy Alexander Lee, a 1993 Tunkhannock Area graduate, was invited to address the 11th grade English class taught by her friend, Tara Trivelpiece.
Lee is a flight test engineer and co-author of the B-2 bomber tactics manual.
Lee and her husband, U.S. Air Force Capt. Maurice Lee, planned to address the class April 24 in uniform, she in her flight suit and he in his dress blues.
A few days before their arrival, Gallo spoke with Trivelpiece about the speakers. He said he does this routinely whenever any speaker is scheduled to address a class.
"We talked about the visit and she mentioned her close friend was a captain in the Air Force," he said. "I asked if the purpose was recruiting and she said no."
Trivelpiece told him the topic of Lee's talk would be "making it in the real world;" specifically, how English skills relate to success.
It was at this point that the miscommunication occurred, Gallo said.
Christy Lee said last week that that Gallo asked Trivelpiece to tell the Lees not to wear their uniforms because he was wary of their presentation being perceived as recruiting.
According to Gallo, he intended to let the teacher know that wearing a uniform is an option for military speakers. Some choose not to wear their uniforms so their presentation will not be construed as recruitment, he said.
"We've never kept anybody from wearing a uniform," Gallo insisted. "People come and go in uniform all the time."
In fact, he said, "I'll invite you into the building anytime and chances are there will be someone in uniform there."
Gallo's concern about recruitment stems from a law that permits parents to exclude their children from being contacted by recruiters.
The school district has a system in place for visits by military, business or college recruiters, he said.
"The doors are open and we encourage recruiters of all kinds," he added.
Such meetings are set up in advance and publicized. Students who sign up are issued a pass to leave class and go to the office to meet with the recruiter.
"We ask that recruiters not go into the buildings beyond the office," he said, "so as not to infringe on the academic process and so that we know who is speaking to the kids."
The district provides lists of juniors' and seniors' names, addresses and phone numbers to recruiters, Gallo said.
Parents have a legal right to have their children's names removed from the list, he said. Over 100 have done so.
"We have to assume they don't want them exposed to recruitment," Gallo said.
Balancing the objectives of recruiters, the needs of students and parents' wishes, he said, is like "walking a tightrope."
Gallo said on the day of the Lees' presentation, he stopped by to greet them, which he customarily does with all speakers.
"She (Christy Lee) didn't seem upset at all," he said. "We had what I thought was a pleasant conversation. I thanked them for coming and invited them back."
That same morning Superintendent Steve Moyer received a phone call from Christy Lee's father, Ken Alexander of Lake Winola, informing him that his daughter and her husband had been told by Trivelpiece not to wear their uniforms when they addressed the class. He said they took the uniforms with them anyway "thinking they might be able to wear them."
Alexander said Moyer apologized, but did not correct the problem.
Moyer said he didn't have the opportunity to take any action because the Lees "were already there doing the presentation. With everything else going on, I did not have the opportunity to get to Mr. Gallo. The presentation had already started."
Alexander admitted that he's more upset about the incident than his daughter. "All of the apologies were there, but nothing got changed," he said. "There was plenty of opportunity for it to be changed."
Christy Lee said she and her husband were "disappointed that the students didn't have a chance to get out of it all that they could."
Lee speaks frequently at schools and science expositions. She said schools almost always prefer her in uniform, whether or not recruiting is involved.
A letter to the editor of this newspaper written by Lynn Stevenson of Clarks Summit made the situation public last week.
In the letter, Stevenson says Gallo "gave his permission (for the couple to speak), but with the condition that they not wear their uniforms as that would be too `controversial.'''
"I never used the word controversial," Gallo said.
Stevenson's letter touched off a flurry of angry phone calls to Gallo, Moyer and school board members.
Gallo said he's been trying to contact Lee so he can apologize to her personally.
"I never intended to dishonor the uniform," he said.
"All I want people to understand is there was no malice or dishonor in my intent, only inadequacy in my communication."
"As superintendent, I also apologize to Capt. Lee," Moyer said.
"Mr. Gallo's actions and the actions of Tunkhannock Area School District have constantly been to support positive American values," he said.
"We fully understand that the perception now is varied with regard to what we stand for.
"We realize it's going to take time for people to understand that this one issue should not be used to judge all the positive programs we have in evidence."
Times Shamrock writer Chris Birk contributed to this report.