[RANT MODE ON!!!!!]
This afternoon I was returning an article a friend of mine brought down for me to read. The ensuing conversation turned to politics (I know sticky issue). Somewhere along the line he mentioned the MTV?(VH1?) show when the Firefighters booed Bill & Hillary. The booing was edited out and applause was edited in(how typical). I mentioned a clip that I saw where a NY policeman (Possibly fireman, can't remember which)got up on stage and said (paraphrasing)"UBL can blow me...Hillary Clinton can kiss my Big white Irish ASS!" which resulted in an overwhelming ovation from the audience! I went on to say that I was surprised to see that on TV but I agreed 100% and then some. At the precise moment I said "white ass" I saw his cube mate give me an evil eye, which I did not acknowledge. The conversation ended a few nimutes later and I went back to my office. A few minutes after that Jim comes in and asks me if I've got a second. No prob, man what's up? Uh lets go back here. ?????? Okay whatever, what's the problem? The problem it turns out was that I "offended" this thin skinned POS. He didn't even recall my saying anything offensive. I instantly knew what I said that offended her (beside complaining about liberal Democrats) and repeated it verbatem to keep it in context. Now I was pissed that she didn't have the balls to tell me right then and there that I offended her. Had she done so I would have instantly appologized as it was not my goal to offend her. But NO she had to send Jim down. What a friggin POFS!!! After a few obsceneties and telling Jim precicly where she could go, what she could do there, and how really felt about it all we went back out to my office.
After thinking of how friggin cowardly this lady was I REALLY started to get P.O.ed.(Most people in my office curse like sailors [some are sailors] and think along the same general lines as I do). I spoke my mind some more and went to my supervisors office to give them a heads up, in case the Colonel wanted to talk to them about me. Just some good CYA on my part. The official recommendation was for me to go appologize. I simply stated that I didn't think that I wanted to do that. You should have seen the look on their faces "Oh shit here he goes...SGT Davis is gonna stand his line again on grounds of "principles" this is gonna be ugly". My blood was boiling by this time and I'm telling a Senior Master SGT "F*** her, I don't care what she thinks. If she was so interested in my PRIVATE conversation, she would have understood the context of what I said, and that they weren't my own words, and if she was so darn offended she would have said something..blah blah blah...screw her...blah blah blah...don't care what the Colnel says I'm still right, and I'm not appologizing for what I said..." They had the look of true concern, like they could see me augering in when "IT" comes up with the big wigs. I asked Doug if he had a smoke (I haven't had one in a while) "here take two"!!!! So long story short I went out and had a smoke calmed down and tried to plan my attact errr appology. I prayed all the way to her office that GOD give me some patience, wisdom, and self control. Worked like a charm. I told her that I was sorry she was offended at what I said, but I was having a PRIVATE conversation and was simply quoting something from TV. The ^ *#@& Mother &&$#**# B(*& just smiled and said "I accept your appology". I wanted to put the heel of my friggin boot right across that fat smugg azz smile she had on her face! I had to appologize because someone was offended? WTF I offend people everyday, usually it's unintentional, sometimes it is intentional. Had I not appologized I would have been standing in front of the COL and the Sergeant Major getting the butt chewing of my life! I really really wanted to make an issue of it, but decided to choose my battles more wisely. The real kicker (to me anyway)is that this lady has a history of problems, they're all against white people, and typically white men(if not all). Prfessional Victims can KMMFA!!! Affirmative Action has definately lived past its usefullness.[/RANT MODE OFF]
Sorry to be so long winded, but I had to get this off my chest.