This is a good example of "Don't judge a book by it's
> cover".
>
> A lady in a faded gingham dress and her husband, dressed
> in a homespun
> threadbare suit, stepped off the train in Boston, and
> walked timidly without an
> appointment into the Harvard University President's
> outer office. The secretary
> could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country
> hicks had no business at
> Harvard and probably didn't even deserve to be in
> Cambridge.
> She frowned...
>
> "We want to see the president," the man said softly.
>
> "He'll be busy all day," the secretary snapped.
>
> "We'll wait," the lady replied.
>
> For hours, the secretary ignored them, hoping that the
> couple would finally
> become discouraged and go away. They didn't and the
> secretary grew frustrated
> and finally decided to disturb the president, even
> though it was a chore she
> always regretted.
> "Maybe, if they just see you for a few minutes, they'll
> leave," she told him. He
> sighed in exasperation and nodded. Someone of his
> importance obviously didn't have the time to spend with
> them, but he detested gingham dresses and homespun
> suits cluttering up his outer office.The president,
> stern-faced and with
> dignity, strutted toward the couple.
>
> The lady told him, "We had a son who attended Harvard
> for one year. He loved
> Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago, he was
> accidentally killed. My
> husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him,
> somewhere on campus."
>
> The president wasn't touched.... He was
> shocked. "Madam," he said gruffly, "we
> can't put up a statue for every person who has attended
> Harvard and died. If we
> did, this place would look like a cemetery."
>
> "Oh, no," the lady explained quickly. "We don't want to
> erect a statue. We
> thought we would like to give a building to Harvard."
>
> The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham
> dress and homespun
> suit, then exclaimed,"A building! Do you have ! any
> earthly idea how much a
> building costs? We have over seven and a half million
> dollars in the physical
> plant at Harvard."
>
> For a moment the lady was silent. The president was
> pleased. Maybe he could get
> rid of them now.The lady turned to her husband and said
> quietly, "Is that all it
> costs to start a university? Why don't we just start our
> own?" Her husband
> nodded.
>
> The president's face wilted in confusion and
> bewilderment. Mr. and Mrs. Leland
> Stanford got up and walked away, traveling to Palo Alto,
> California where they
> established the university that bears their name,
> STANFORD UNIVERSITY, a
> memorial to a son that
> Harvard no longer cared about.
>
> You can easily judge the character of others by how they
> treat those who they
> think can do nothing for them or to them. -- by Malcolm
> Forbes
>