Since there are folks here with a wide variety of living experience, I thought I pose this question here.
My dad is 82. Up until October of last year, he has lived on his own, alone, in Florida, since my mom died seven years ago.
He got sick in October, and my two sisters decided he should move in with one of them, who lives out of state. They told him it would be a temporary arrangement. They hired a in house assistant to help him out, from 11AM to 4PM every weekday.
Physically, he has improved dramatically, and wants to go back to FL. He and my sister are not getting together at all, and it is an extremely unheathly situation from an emotional perspective for the both of them. I have suggested assisted living back down in FL, as thats where he wants to be, where most of his friends are. My sisters argue that he needs to be near one of us. I say he needs to be where he is most happy.
So I'm looking for some general advice/comments here, as well as specific advice on finding an assisted living place in Fl. ie what to look for, range of costs, what to avoid.
Thanks