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I want you all to know that I really love my sister and niece, but I can't really say how I feel. I do not feel sad for her. I guess that is what really bothers me because she is hurt and could of died. Well thank you all for your kind words. [>:/]
Linda [:I]
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I can understand how you feel.
On one hand, its bad that ANYONE is hurt [b]BUT[/b]
one the other hand she has to be responsible for her own actions....
In a way I wish she [i]COULD[/i] read this thread,
WHY? Because she could see how ALL of these other people are angered by her actions and the irresponsible parent as well as the [b]SELFISHNESS[/b] of her mother.
Yes, her daughter is hurt and she should be THANKFUL TO GOD [b]BUT[/b] someone [b]DIED[/b] by [b]HER[/b] actions, which were avoidable it seems.
She has to realize that at some point in her life she has to be responsible.
We live in a society where so many look for scapegoats for [i]THEIR problems[/i].
Don't take me wrong, its not directed at you.
I just pray that for a moment she can see things from the perspective of someone else - [b]the family of the deceased![/b]
If she sees this thread, maybe then she'll see just how wrong it was - how angry it makes one feel.
They (the niece and her mother) should think of how his family must feel. May he [b]does[/b] have small children, maybe a pregnant wife. Will he ever see his kids grow up? Will his kids be fatherless? Will his family be in need because of their loss? Maybe he never even had the opportunity to have any kids? There are all kinds of possibilities but the have all been taken away - never again possible! NEVER!
I have to stop...
I don't know but I hope all turns out for the best.