Warning

 

Close

Confirm Action

Are you sure you wish to do this?

Confirm Cancel
Member Login
Posted: 9/9/2010 8:19:28 PM EDT
For people that live with their SO, do you 2 go to bed at the same times?
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:21:28 PM EDT
Nope. She's been in bed for almost 3 hours already.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:08 PM EDT
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:35 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/9/2010 8:23:03 PM EDT by Utah_Sniper]
I usually go to bed about an hour after her and get up an hour after in the morning. I work from home and I can roll out of bed at noon some days if I want to.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:56 PM EDT
When I had one yes....would do what she called "cuddling", whatever the fuck that is....guess it's where you pretend that you aren't pissed cause she denied you sex:-/. Then once the beast passed out I'd get on the computer to proceed to rub one out;-)
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:24 PM EDT
Nope and haven't since the first 2-3 years of our marriage and we've been married 23 years.


Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:25 PM EDT
Within 2-3 hours. She goes to bed first. She is a morning person, I'm a night owl. Works out perfectly
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:30 PM EDT
Most of the time. It frustrates her that I always fall asleep first.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:37 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Blac:
For people that live with their SO, do you 2 go to bed at the same times?


Every night. Rarely I dwell on jobs in progress and stay up late and can't sleep.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:24:06 PM EDT
nope. shes likes to watch her shows in bed, I like to watch the news. by the time i get to bed shes been asleep for an hour.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:25:00 PM EDT
Hardly ever. He goes to bed usually before I do. Sometimes it's just and hour, other times it's a couple hours.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:25:39 PM EDT
We rarely even sleep during the same time of day.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:27:39 PM EDT
Nope. I don't sleep much and the wife is sleeping 5 minutes after getting in bed. I stay up and reload/ watch old westerns, or surf GD.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:28:10 PM EDT
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:32:08 PM EDT
I put "occasionally yes" because I work 24 hour shifts and I'm only home 3 or 4 times a week depending on how much OT I decide to work.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:38:30 PM EDT
Nope. I either go to bed way earlier or fall asleep on the couch at night to avoid sexual intimacy.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:42:00 PM EDT
Dont really feel like laying there and rubbing her back unless shes going to rub me back
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:46:24 PM EDT
She falls asleep on the couch about 9 or 10 usually, I go to bed around 11 or 12

Upside is I get to watch what I want on the tv while she's sawing Zs
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:50:55 PM EDT
Almost always... that when we have sex
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:53:02 PM EDT
No, almost never.

Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:54:29 PM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:55:07 PM EDT
wife in bed at 10, Im in bed at 2
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:57:15 PM EDT
Nope.

She thinks that she needs 9-10 hours of sleep to function.

She goes to bed at about 9, gets up at 7.

I go to bed about 3ish, wake up about 8-9.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 8:59:19 PM EDT

Originally Posted By victorgonzales:
wife in bed at 10, Im in bed at 2

Same here.

Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:05:32 PM EDT
No, she makes me lay in bed and cuddle her then leeches on to me. I have to wait for her to fall asleep then slowly peel off arms and legs until I can slide out of bed.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:07:55 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/9/2010 10:23:20 PM EDT by beaverpelt]
I hardly ever go to bed at the same time as the wife. I work nights and when I'm not working I will go to bed around 2am-3am and get up at 7am on weekdays.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:12:41 PM EDT
No. She cries herself to sleep around 9 pm. I stagger in around 5 am or so, depending on what time the bar tosses me out.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:30:08 PM EDT
I work mids, she works days. Sometimes we get to sleep together during the weekends...it's quality time, and I cherish it. Just sleeping together is a recharge for the both of us. (10 years)
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:40:04 PM EDT
No. I am a night owl on my days off . I tend to stay up until 2 or 3am catching up on emails, listening to music, surfing the net, etc.. Mrs. 45ProCarry is in bed by 10pm.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:42:11 PM EDT
What a question to ask at night on ARFCOM.

Of course they don't, why the heck do you think they are online right now (surfing BOTD).

"When you can't get it from the wife, get it from ARFCOM"

Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:42:54 PM EDT
Insomnia.....I dont sleep............
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:43:00 PM EDT
Only when I'm going to hit it

Sakic #19
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:46:19 PM EDT
Nope. She's off to bed between 9-11pm. I go to bed at 12:30-2. She goes to school full time, I work fully time and go to school at night. If I'm not up late studying then I'm burning off steam and drinking a few beers. However, every night I take about 15-30 min to tuck her into bed. Give her a back rub, chat, etc.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:47:20 PM EDT
Usually. I changed shifts, so now she is asleep when I get home sometimes. Other times she stays up for me to get home then crashes out but I stay up. 4 or 5 nights a week we go out or she works late and we crash out at the same time.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:48:30 PM EDT
We hot bunk during my work week. I kick her out of bed when i get home from work.

on my days off she's always in bed before me.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 9:54:20 PM EDT
Yes, I have a rule in the house that we goto bed at the same time. Doesnt mean sleep, just in the bed at the same time.

Link Posted: 9/9/2010 10:52:26 PM EDT
Originally Posted By SharpCharge:
Nope. She's been in bed for almost 3 hours already.


same here.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 10:52:32 PM EDT
Awesome J/W.

GF has been bitching non stop because I go to bed 2-4hours after her usually. She says I wake her up and I offer to sleep on my couch in my man room, she says that will just piss her off because I'm not in bed then when she gets up... lol.
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 11:08:23 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Gaboonviper85:
When I had one yes....would do what she called "cuddling", whatever the fuck that is....guess it's where you pretend that you aren't pissed cause she denied you sex:-/. Then once the beast passed out I'd get on the computer to proceed to rub one out;-)




+100
Link Posted: 9/9/2010 11:22:35 PM EDT
Only after a good night at the Bar after sex.... is the only time we sleep together. Other wise after 15 plus year of being on 3rd Shift I am a Day sleeper she is a 11pm to 7am sleeper.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 12:58:57 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2010 1:01:25 AM EDT by DriveNASCAR]
My wife works a regular 9-5 job and goes to bed around 11 PM. I work second shift (2 PM - 10 PM) and go to bed around 1 AM or 2 AM.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 1:01:20 AM EDT
Never have.. weird work schedules... one of the top things that have ticked off prior gfs.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 1:10:23 AM EDT
I work a rotating 12 hour schedule, I vary rarely see my wife.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 1:11:51 AM EDT
Originally Posted By AR15fan:
We hot bunk during my work week. I kick her out of bed when i get home from work.

on my days off she's always in bed before me.



That is us too. I get home at 700 hours. She's already showered by then.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 1:12:13 AM EDT
Originally Posted By davewvu86:
Nope. She's off to bed between 9-11pm. I go to bed at 12:30-2. She goes to school full time, I work fully time and go to school at night. If I'm not up late studying then I'm burning off steam and drinking a few beers. However, every night I take about 15-30 min to tuck her into bed. Give her a back rub, chat, etc.




Awwwwwwwwwwwww, seriously
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 1:13:40 AM EDT
Originally Posted By AR15fan:
We hot bunk during my work week. I kick her out of bed when i get home from work.

on my days off she's always in bed before me.


Glad to know I'm not the only one. Sucks ass, but it means I don't have to warm up the bed in the winter.
Link Posted: 9/10/2010 7:11:36 AM EDT
Every night. We also have sex every night (or close enough) so that helps get me into bed when she goes.

Don't hate.

Top Top