Quote History I love Dennis and have listened to him on the radio, heard him speak in person, and read his books for over 30 years. We both live in Southern California and were each born less than a month apart.
What I will describe is just my own direct personal experience from many years ago, but it has stuck with me even to today.
I'm a tradesman and was working on a building in a bad part of Los Angeles, so I carried a small auto with my tool belt. While on the job I encountered three guys who had that look in their eyes that people get when they are about to do something. As we stood there, I noticed they were waiting for me to give them an excuse to do it. At that time I just happened not to be afraid of them or angry at them or had any resentment or judgement, and simply looked back at them. Oddly enough they started sheepishly looking around and at the ground and restlessly shuffled around. Then they simply turned and walked away.
My gun was right there, but it was
not the appropriate response for the moment. It was irrelevant. What
was relevant was my own attitude at that moment. I can't tell you how powerful a lesson this was for me even though it happened decades ago.
I'm totally into guns. I enjoy getting them and working on them. I go to the gun range once a month to shoot targets and clay and it's lots of fun. I've been around guns most of my life. I'm a Vietnam Vet. But I'm coming to the realization that there is something
else at least
as important and maybe even
more important to living in this world...
...and that's my own attitude towards others.