This is pretty low tech, but it works for me...
I use trapping gloves like
these insulated gauntlets for setting and picking up. In between I just switch to regular bulk quantity generic brown jersey gloves, which work fine for keeping the bite off while still being able to pull a trigger. I normally carry anywhere from three to five extra sets with me in my pockets, in the boat, or in my bag so that I can just change them out as they get wet. I keep one final pair in the truck so that I can have warm, dry hands for the drive home too.
On really, really cold days I will put the jerseys under a pair of glomitts, which aren't waterproof either but normally have enough repellant/mass in them to keep me dry enough until pick up.
I could never get neoprenes to last long and even though they weren't super uncomfortable when they got wet, they still weren't as comfortable as a switched in pair of dry jerseys.
Yes, each time I come home from duck hunting I have to put wet waders on the dryer and several sets of wet gloves in the laundry. It just becomes part of the clean up afterwards regimen.