Quoted: Dave,
I would delete this thread, keeping in mind the advice that has been given.
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All things considered, I'd second that.
Dave,
I don't normally state opinions on other folks personal situations, but I'll offer this:
By posting here, knowing that your wife will be reading, will only "fuel the fire" so to speak.
If indeed the relationship is over, it's best that you and her find a way to end it peacefully and respectfully with each other.
Now , for you and her, it's a time for reflection of the past , what it meant to each of you, consideration what the future holds for both of you, and especially, a time to let bygones be bygones.
If you both insist on parting ways forever, don't destroy each other in the process. The only people that will benefit will be the attorneys, and Old Aunt "somebody", that always sez "I
tole ya it woodn't werk out 'tween them two."
Now is a time for "cooler heads to prevail". Both of you need to be that. Just that. Cool headed.
Work on "how to work it all out" rather than "how to get even".
I don't know either of you all that well, but I'm aware of enough to know that
both of you have apparently built or worked on a relationship/business/goal/dream together. All that didn't happen all by itself.
Don't let your anger and frustrations with each other now destroy the results your past efforts, or the potential of your individual futures.
Good luck to you both. I wish you the best.
John