Quoted: Oh cry me a river.
If you value your friendships so little that one vote can end them, go ahead. Each person makes their choice and that choice is private and sacrosanct. I have great friends who have voiced their support for Obama and while I might heckle them for that choice, it affects my friendship in no way.
Hell, my wife, a school teacher, will probably vote for Obama. This saint of a woman, who didn't blink when I walked in the door returning from a gunshow this weekend with a guide gun over a shoulder and two NIB Bulgarian milled AKs places a high value on the candidates views on education. The Republicans frankly have done a piss poor job on education reform. If she votes for Obama, I do not fault her logic.
Your views frankly strike me as unamerican. Our system values free choice and open and frank discussion. Your proposed actions are not unlike the Nazis you reference. You propose to alienate those for whom you care, and those who most likely care for you over one small vote.
To each their own. |
Wow, where to start?
First it is note a single vote that bothers me. It is what they are voting for.
If I found out a friend of mine was a neo-nazi, a klansman, a earth-firster or a PETA member that would drastically affect my opinion of them. The beliefs of those groups are completely contradictory to mine. I do not wish to associate myself with those type of people. That is my choice, my decision and my right.
I am sure you have some great friends and obviously a fantastic wife even if you don't always agree on things. You can choose to do what you wish with them, that is your choice, not mine. If anything I would defend your right to do as you choose. I may not like you but I do recognize your rights along with your wife's rights just as I recognize my friends right to make their own decisions. That does not mean I have to agree.
Now for me being like a nazi.. wow...
First the nazis did not just walk away from those they didn't like. They threw many of them in camps, the word genocide comes to mind.
In no way do I wish to harm my friends. If anything I hope they live and grow and achieve enlightenment. I wish them the best of everything.I believe my post showed compassion for those different than I am.
If you or anyone else would like to go among these folk as a.. well, I guess missionary is the right word, and try to bring them to understand what the consequences of their actions could/would be then go right ahead. As for me I am tired of it and no longer have the strength to save the world.
Everyone else, thank you for your support and understanding. I fiugred there might be a few others that felt the same way.
Eric, I am not exactly ex-communicating them. I will still be friendly to them and talk to them when ever I see them but I will not go out of my way to do things with them. I will be much more reserved when we do get together and I am afraid I will not be able to treat them as confidants. I am sure you know what I mean.
Heck, I am sure most of you here that know me understand what I mean and how I feel.
Everyone, lets all have a good day and try to make the best out of whatever comes.