If schools are a consideration, think about the inner ring of suburbs. Sycamore Township, Madeira, Indian Hill, Blue Ash, are all on the east side. To the north, the Lakota system is good (Butler County).
There is also a large than usual percentage of parochial schools to choose from, mostly Catholic, a couple Jewish, and two or three non-Catholic Christian.
As mentioned, stay out of the Cincy city limits. Dumb-ass politics, and a beyond-saving school system.
If you move to Hamilton County, you will likely get your CCW issued in Clermont County, where the Sherrif is reasonable about such things.
Otherwise, Clermont, Warren, and to a lesser extent Butler countiy allow more land for the dollar, if that is a consideration. Just be careful of the drive to work you may be in for. All the traffic patterns are according to plan, they just planned 'em wrong.