I didn't add this above because it's slightly OT.
I thought of one more piece of guidance I could give. I've been all through the different safeties the swenies, the browns, the kings, the cheapy brownells, etc.
You mentioned that you have yet to purchase your safety. You also mentioned "extended". In my personal experience the "extended" or lengthened safeties are worthless. The right safeties are the "wide" competition type like the brown, sweenie, and king. If you are shooting any kind of competition you should go ahead and learn the high grip with the thumb remaining up over the safety and the supporting hand palm against the side of the grip, fingers wrapping around over the dominant hand fingers.
Some folks may sell this grip off as an "IPSC" thing or whatever, but it really does improve control. Afterall better control means better sight picture ergo better "hits" ... on paper and in the real world, better "hits" count.
IMHO
Ryan