I thought I would update this thread.
I ordered a VM2 in cordovan for my XD9 through Lighting Arms (who had it in stock
houghThen, as I couldnt help from reading a ton of good reviews about CTACs, I decided I wouldnt buy a new one, but if I could find a good deal on a used one I would snap it up. Then about a week ago I found one for sale and ended up paying $42 shipped for a nearly-new CTAC. (instead of ~$80 new) Ironically, or maybe not, the guy who sold me the CTAC stopped using it in favor of a VM2.
Now I am just trying to test out each one to see which is staying and which is going. Thus far, I am still working on the cant adjustments for the CTAC (point to the VM2 for having the perfect cant to start with). The CTAC is much thinner than the VM2, which I like, and the Kydex hasnt yet bothered my skin (no undershirt), but Im still going to wait it out for awhille before I pick between them.
I eventually decided not to go with the Com3 as:
A) no one stocks it..so you are forced to wait the 18 weeks
B) Its kind of expensive for there not to be raving reviews about it like there were on every gun forum I checked for the VM2.
Thanks again for all of the responses.