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I sold them all beacause of how they felt in my hand, not because of any problems. And yes Im haveing a terrible time finding the right gun! Went to the local gunshop today and played with a few. SP-01, P30, FNX, G19/17, and M&P 9. The SP-01 was a chunk! It did feal good in the hands but it was a little to much of a reach for the trigger in double action. Could that trigger be pulled back a little?
if i kept all of my guns that "fit" my hand properly, i woud only have a handful (pun intended) of guns. most if not all of my CF guns dont fit (per book). Close, but not really text book. My thumbs are too short to reach the mag release on most guns and even my trigger finger is not as long as it should be. The DA is a reach and if im lucky i can get my pad on it. But i dont care and if i have to move my hand a tad to do things, so be it.
the CZ SA recommendation is correct. If you want SA/DA you may have to look longer.
have you tried the Beretta Vertec? They were suppose to have a smaller circumference grip?
also, i dont shoot most of my guns DA anyway. once you pop that mag in, its in SA mode. If you want to carry/practice with DA mode i guess it will be an issue.
btw, with the M&P and any of the swappable grip guns, did you try using them with the smallest backstrap and side panels?
also, have you thought about a revolver?
also, also, if you find one close, you may want to think about the grip panels if it has any. you could always replace them with thinner ones, but it would depend on how close or far you are from what you want.