I believe all of the factory refurbs had their military/police markings removed. Look for a mill mark on the right hand side of the slide. Also look for a purple or brownish color slide, and check the sight inserts to see if they are missing or appear shrunken. When they reblued them, they dipped the whole thing, sights and all. The plastic sight inserts didn't fare so well in that process... Also look for any odd import markings. Shouldn't be anything other than Chantilly, VA (early guns) or Sterling, VA (later/current guns) there. Some other importers picked up some surplus guns outside the country and their information will be marked on those.
However, it doesn't mean that they aren't police trade-ins. In which case, they may have seen harder than average use. Or they may have sat in a holster and never shot more than a couple of times a year. Keep in mind that the factory refurbs are more than cosmetic - all springs, etc. would be replaced as well, and a non-refurb trade-in probably won't have this done.
Being somewhat of a rare gun, I'd suspect that any place that has three used ones are either refurbs or otherwise police trade-ins. Which isn't to say that a police trade is would be bad, but it doesn't sound like that's what you're looking for. I picked up one a couple of years back for a price that couldn't be beat. Externally, it was showing lots of wear (the factory bluing isn't very durable), but it doesn't appear to have seen much shooting. I sent it off to be hard chromed.
What shop in PA, btw?