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Posted: 11/16/2012 9:16:27 PM EST
I'm a waiter at a restaurant and am waiting on five women. I think one is really pretty and debated asking her out but didnt get the chance. As they are leaving they are all looking on the floor for some small piece of jewelry she dropped. She gives me her number and to call if I find it. I didnt find the jewlery. If I were to call to ask her out, how should I do this? Five women on a Friday night screams single to me.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:18:00 PM EST
Just call, and ask. Is it really that difficult?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:18:18 PM EST
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:18:43 PM EST
Only one way to find out huh?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:19:05 PM EST
This outta be good.

Tag.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:19:24 PM EST

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Professional? A waiter? Yeah, he'll never work in that town again.

Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:19:55 PM EST
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:20:15 PM EST
Find the jewelry.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:20:48 PM EST
Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.


This. I waited tables for 5+ years. Don't call unless it is for the reason she wants you to call.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:20:55 PM EST

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"

Work on your game.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:21:32 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/16/2012 9:21:55 PM EST by Johnny_Reno]


You should do a reverse phone number search on her number and get her address. From there, it's just a matter of showing up and tapping on her bedroom window until she lets you in.

Women love suprises.


Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:21:39 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/16/2012 9:21:55 PM EST by Tomislav]

Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Professional? A waiter? Yeah, he'll never work in that town again.






To OP:
Call.

During WW2, our per-bomb accuracy terrible, but we put up a LOT of bombers with a LOT of bombs, eventually hitting the targets we wanted to hit. Women are like that; you have to attack every possible target in order to rack up some successes.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:22:06 PM EST
Five women on a Friday night screams 'girls night' more than 'single' to me.

I think you should call her if you find the jewelry. I think you look semi sleazy if you call her to ask her out. Should have just done it while she was there.

BUT, what do I know? Do your thing and report back.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:22:34 PM EST
Call and found out. No harm in trying.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:23:35 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"

Work on your game.


Im looking for pointers. What would you say?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:23:49 PM EST

Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:

Women love suprises.


He gets it

Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:24:08 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"

Work on your game.



Truth be told!

What do you have to lose? Pride? Bah! You either get nothing or some sweet lovin'
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:24:55 PM EST
In before the Home Depot e-mail guy.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:25:16 PM EST
Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"

Work on your game.


Im looking for pointers. What would you say?


Text her and say you didn't find it. If she's interested, she will respond in such a way to let you know.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:25:38 PM EST
Originally Posted By HingleMcCringleberry:
Five women on a Friday night screams 'girls night' more than 'single' to me.

I think you should call her if you find the jewelry. I think you look semi sleazy if you call her to ask her out. Should have just done it while she was there.

BUT, what do I know? Do your thing and report back.


I kind of agree with the sleazy part. Im trying to see the general consensus.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:26:08 PM EST
Originally Posted By VRMN8R:

Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:

Women love suprises.


He gets it




I'm a romantic.

If she has a clothes line, you can remove some of her lingerie and leave your mark on them.

Put them in her mailbox so that she'll see it the first thing when she gets home.

It'll be a huge turn-on for her.

Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:26:32 PM EST
Go buy some cheap POS jewelery, call her up and say "Can I bring it over to you?" Don't forget a bottle of wine and some flowers. Wimmin love wine and flowers.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:27:09 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/16/2012 9:27:55 PM EST by Grin]
Buy some decent looking cheap (less than $10) earrings.

Call.



Profit

ETA: I should've hit F5 before clicking reply
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:27:57 PM EST
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:28:39 PM EST
Go ahead, go full-creep and call the number. I'm sure her husband will be happy to talk with you.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:29:29 PM EST
Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:


You should do a reverse phone number search on her number and get her address. From there, it's just a matter of showing up and tapping on her bedroom window until she lets you in.

Women love suprises.




You're on fire today.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:29:36 PM EST
Did she give you a vibe or eye contact, any flirtation? You should know whether to call or not by now based on that.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:29:49 PM EST

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"

Work on your game.


Im looking for pointers. What would you say?
I'd say play it straight, mostly. Call, ask if she remembers you. Gage her reaction. If she reacts positively, play off of that. Tell her you didn't find the jewelry, but if she is available, you'd like to meet her for coffee. Have a place and time ready to suggest, in case she's receptive. If she declines, compliment her. Express a small amount of disappointment, and leave it alone.

Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:30:13 PM EST
Any chance this piece of lost jewelry was her wedding ring?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:32:30 PM EST
Originally Posted By Skibane:
Any chance this piece of lost jewelry was her wedding ring?


Well if she loses the ring shes back on the market, right? it was a charm to a braclet
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:35:38 PM EST
Um yea....she gave you HER number. Call.


If her only concern was the jewelry and not wanting you to call....she would have given her number to the MANAGER. Not you, the waiter. Your job is waiting tables. Not finding her damn jewelry.


Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:46:45 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/16/2012 9:47:47 PM EST by forker]
Listen up, OP:

The jewelry BS was a pretext.

She wants you to call and will greet you with a dripping box.

Man up.

Hit it like it's, wel, you know . . .
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:48:12 PM EST
Originally Posted By Blackwind:
Um yea....she gave you HER number. Call.

Remember, this is a woman. There might not even be any lost jewelry, its might be just a reason to give you her number. Who knows.

Even if you don't find the jewelry, call and let her know that it was searched for and not found. See what kind of vibe you get over the phone.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:49:16 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:
Just call, and ask. Is it really that difficult?


Yep.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:52:12 PM EST
Bitch didn't lose anything....

Call her.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:52:41 PM EST
If you don't find the jewelry, go to a pawn shop and buy some cheap piece of other jewelry. Call her and say you found it and get her to meet you somewhere for drinks or dinner to pick it up ;)
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:53:42 PM EST
I'm sure she will be very pleased to hear that you didn't find her jewelry.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:56:34 PM EST
When you call you will find out that, "Oh, I had them in my purse after all! Anyway, I'm Sweet Tits, what's your name"?

Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:56:55 PM EST
[Last Edit: 11/16/2012 9:57:32 PM EST by elcope]
Originally Posted By Gamma762:
Originally Posted By Blackwind:
Um yea....she gave you HER number. Call.

Remember, this is a woman. There might not even be any lost jewelry, its might be just a reason to give you her number. Who knows.

Even if you don't find the jewelry, call and let her know that it was searched for and not found. See what kind of vibe you get over the phone.


Normally, I'd agree with the poster up the thread and say it's not professional, but a simple call to say that you went in on your off hours to search and didn't (or maybe luckily did) find the lost jewelry, might just pan out.

Or you could take Johnny Renos advice and tap on her bedroom window.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 9:58:40 PM EST

Originally Posted By elcope:
Originally Posted By Gamma762:
Originally Posted By Blackwind:
Um yea....she gave you HER number. Call.

Remember, this is a woman. There might not even be any lost jewelry, its might be just a reason to give you her number. Who knows.

Even if you don't find the jewelry, call and let her know that it was searched for and not found. See what kind of vibe you get over the phone.


Normally, I'd agree with the poster up the thread and say it's not professional, but a simple call to say that you went in on your off hours to search and didn't (or maybe luckily did) find the lost jewelry, might just pan out.

Or you could take Johnny Renos advice and tap on her bedroom window.


Calling her and talking about the jewelry is a great way to make sure that there is no potential for a date.


Call her, ask her out. Done. Why the games and trickery and vibe-gettings and whatnot? Just ask her out.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:05:16 PM EST
Originally Posted By Lougotzz:
I feel kind of odd going "yeah hi i didnt find what you dropped wanna go out?"


Better approach:

"Ma'am, I didn't find your bracelet charm while I was crawling around under the table where you were sitting...but I DID find a beer nut stuck to a glob of petrified nacho cheese that would make a DANDY earring..."
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:06:17 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tomislav:

Originally Posted By elcope:
Originally Posted By Gamma762:
Originally Posted By Blackwind:
Um yea....she gave you HER number. Call.

Remember, this is a woman. There might not even be any lost jewelry, its might be just a reason to give you her number. Who knows.

Even if you don't find the jewelry, call and let her know that it was searched for and not found. See what kind of vibe you get over the phone.


Normally, I'd agree with the poster up the thread and say it's not professional, but a simple call to say that you went in on your off hours to search and didn't (or maybe luckily did) find the lost jewelry, might just pan out.

Or you could take Johnny Renos advice and tap on her bedroom window.


Calling her and talking about the jewelry is a great way to make sure that there is no potential for a date.


Call her, ask her out. Done. Why the games and trickery and vibe-gettings and whatnot? Just ask her out.


She left a number with a guy in the event he finds her jewelry. For him to call and ask her out with no mention of the Jewelry would be a bit... odd.

If he has any chance, it would be in calling, explaining he and a few others looks and looked after closing and never found it - maybe ask if she ended up finding it - you know, show real human empathy and concern first.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:07:34 PM EST
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Professional? A waiter? Yeah, he'll never work in that town again.



Doesn't matter what job you do, it should always be done in a professional manner.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:10:49 PM EST
Originally Posted By mdguy90:
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Professional? A waiter? Yeah, he'll never work in that town again.



Doesn't matter what job you do, it should always be done in a professional manner.


Yes, but the real question is will he be professional enough to handle a Glock "foty"!?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:11:04 PM EST
If it's a cell number, send her dick pics. Bitches love dick pics. Also tell her you didn't find her jewelry but you'd like to give her a pearl necklace.

It's the smooth approach.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:11:33 PM EST
Call her.

Didn't find any jewlery but you've been thinking about her. Like, all honest and shit.

Ron Goldman would say burn that fucking number!!! But he must have did it wrong 'cause OJ went all OJ on him.

Call her, but look for the signs.

Only other bad outcome is she says, "ewwww, no.."

She DID give you the digits after all.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:12:01 PM EST

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
Originally Posted By Tim_the_enchanter:

Originally Posted By mdguy90:
In

Don't.

Not professional.
Professional? A waiter? Yeah, he'll never work in that town again.



Doesn't matter what job you do, it should always be done in a professional manner.

Who says asking out a customer is unprofessional? You? Can you run down the rest of the Waiters code of conduct for me?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:14:07 PM EST
Originally Posted By Soylent:
If it's a cell number, send her dick pics. Bitches love dick pics. Also tell her you didn't find her jewelry but you'd like to give her a pearl necklace.

It's the smooth approach.


This would be funnier if I hadn't seen people argue this in other contexts, and suggest I was old and out of touch for being taken aback.

I guess there's always the shirtless, headless pic thing as well, preferably taken in a bathroom mirror with the camera showing in the photo. The kids these days dig that shit.
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:18:17 PM EST
Too easy: Go to lost n found box, extract cheap shit ring, call lady, tell her you found "IT"
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:18:17 PM EST
Originally Posted By JBlitzen:
Find the jewelry.


This... if you can't find it, don't call. Are you up to the challenge?
Link Posted: 11/16/2012 10:19:52 PM EST
Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:
Originally Posted By VRMN8R:

Originally Posted By Johnny_Reno:

Women love suprises.


He gets it




I'm a romantic.

If she has a clothes line, you can remove some of her lingerie and leave your mark on them.

Put them in her mailbox so that she'll see it the first thing when she gets home.

It'll be a huge turn-on for her.



What is "the mark" ? A little pouch in the crotch of her panties from him wearing them for a little while?
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