found myself involved with a beautiful, sweet woman- divorced, 3 kids. (heaven help me!
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she was married 15 yrs. guy ,of course, wants her back. don't have a lot of detail yet, as near as i can gather your typical horror movie ex-husband: large, not too bright, self centered, construction worker. i'm imagining lots of forearm tattoos and a little dribble of saliva running down his chin.
she did get a restraining order during her divorce. she is afraid of him.
he dosen't know about me yet, but the kids know (17, 13 and 2) and they will be visiting dad today. i asked her if he would come to my shop to try to make trouble for me (bad choice for him). she said, "no, but if he kills me at least i got to know you"!!!
not really sure how serious she was about that yet...
i took the boy scout motto to heart... and cut and run is not in my blood. i guess i need some pointers from guys who've been through this.
i knew i could count on you guys.