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Posted: 8/7/2005 2:52:51 PM EDT
Well this is very embarrassing but it has been a on and off problem for a little while now, It seemed like everything was going great and me and my GF were getting along great and having great sex, well about 2 weeks ago i started having a really hard time holding out during sex. This lead to a great deal of frustration for both of us, she was especially dissapointed because everytime she would get close to climaxing I had to stop. Well this kept happening and just when i thought things couldn't get any worse, i started having problems getting it up and keeping it up. things will be going great and then we both are thinking WTF happened???

Its hard to explain how dissapointed both of us are, we get along great and I am very much in love with her. She thinks i dont find her attractive anymore and also that I dont love her

Its opened up a few other problems because we were so comfortable with each other and now we are both on edge.

I am really confused I am only 22 and the problem is all me, I am seriously considering getting some viagra and anything because of how bad things have become.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 2:54:07 PM EDT
induce whiskey dick
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 2:55:24 PM EDT
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 2:57:12 PM EDT
If you have ED problems at 22 you should see a doctor. You should be able to drive nails at that age.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 2:59:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 3:00:40 PM EDT by FightingHellfish]
Aren't you a ROTC Cadet?

Try better utilising your 8 troop leading steps and write up a thorough Op Order before sex. Focus on execution and stress the desired end state. Give your girl friend a good 'commander's intent', she needs to understand where this is supposed to be going.

If you try all that, and it's still not working, have a Sergeant get the job done for you.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:00:35 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:01:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Attman:
If you have ED problems at 22 you should see a doctor. You should be able to drive nails at that age.



Yup. Definitely go see a doc. The only help we can provide is cheap shot jokes... and you know they are coming. No pun intended.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:02:42 PM EDT
Preperation H on the crank.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:03:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey



No drugs, no smoking i am not obese and am in good shape. Stress, maybe but come on no amount of stress should cause this.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:05:25 PM EDT

Originally Posted By cmjohnson:
Perhaps the most important thing is to back off. No matter how much we love the old "in out, in out",
even the most enthusiastic man can only do so much.

You're probably just getting too much and it's becoming routine.

You and your girl should try taking a few days off and then after that, don't do it every day. Twice a
week, maybe three times.

And not too many sessions per night, too! One good one is better than three that are just going through the motions.

CJ



Yeah that could be it it has been multiple times a day for a while, but we tried taking a week off and we only made it to day 2, and the problem still happened.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:06:37 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey



No drugs, no smoking i am not obese and am in good shape. Stress, maybe but come on no amount of stress should cause this.



Must be mental, your spidey senses bugging you about this girl?
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:08:41 PM EDT
Just think about another girl while your having sex and that should cure it.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:08:41 PM EDT
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:10:03 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey



No drugs, no smoking i am not obese and am in good shape. Stress, maybe but come on no amount of stress should cause this.



Must be mental, your spidey senses bugging you about this girl?



no she is great and great looking thats what i dont get, i feel like i am going to ruin a good thing.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:12:08 PM EDT
If you can rule out stress or some type of relationship problem
you either have a medical problem or are turning gay...........
Good luck
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:12:09 PM EDT
...!
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:12:13 PM EDT
just take a break from sex and everything will work out
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:12:16 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:12:53 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:17:08 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:17:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:19:53 PM EDT
I would vote to see a doc also. Maybe this a symptom of something else that is wrong. You shouldn't be having those problems at such a young age.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:20:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?




Maybe something that happened in your childhood.........
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:22:11 PM EDT
I think buying a new rifle will put you back on track.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:23:14 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dru:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?




Maybe something that happened in your childhood.........



I really dont think so, i had a very normal childhood, normal family no real problems. Only thing i can think of is going to christian school and their distorted views of sex.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:23:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dru:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?



Maybe something that happened in your childhood.........



Could be a "trust" issue..........
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:24:27 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 3:25:01 PM EDT by Dru]

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By Dru:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?




Maybe something that happened in your childhood.........



I really dont think so, i had a very normal childhood, normal family no real problems. Only thing i can think of is going to christian school and their distorted views of sex.





Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm we MIGHT be on to something here........... Tell me more
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:25:44 PM EDT
its just you know how they are, try to say horrible things will happen to you if you have sex before you get married.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:27:17 PM EDT
I'll send you a vial of my blood. About once a month, two folks in lab coats visit and take some, out which they make the pill known as Viagra.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:27:41 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:29:01 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:32:19 PM EDT

seriously, why do some flks feel the need to ask such questions on a FIREARMS community. seek proffesional medical help or try dr ruth.com




LOL!

Because that would be too much like thinking...
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:32:37 PM EDT
Everybody has a batting slump.

Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:34:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By The_Beer_Slayer:
system messege.....

moved to the MY PECKER DOESN'T WORK ANYMORE FORUM

­


seriously, why do some flks feel the need to ask such questions on a FIREARMS community. seek proffesional medical help or try dr ruth.com



Mmmm....because this is GD not a tech forum?
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:34:43 PM EDT
For a short term solution, avoid the Viagra and try something meant for stamina. My roommate got these pills called Staminex or something along those lines. They are meant to get you at full attention and stay there. Being the curious guy I am, I asked for a few and tried them out. They work pretty well. Just pop two, take a nap for an hour or so so youre well rested and get ready for some fun.

Although this may be caused from fear of ending too soon like you said you have been experiencing. I suggest trying new things and get a position thats not too stimulating for you but just as fun for her. I would suggest her on top. Good luck to ya.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:36:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By The_Beer_Slayer:

seriously, why do some flks feel the need to ask such questions on a FIREARMS community. seek proffesional medical help or try dr ruth.com





I dunno... but of all the things I'd call barfcom, a "firearms community" is low on my list
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:37:36 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 3:37:57 PM EDT by soccermike7]
where a really thick condom. less friction, = you last longer

and an additional plus. its safer
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:38:01 PM EDT
Dude...
The way I figure is that: (a.) something is wrong with your body..in which case you need to see a Doc or (b.) Something is wrong with your state of mind (be it something about the girl you don't find too attractive, to some sort of fear, or maybe that this chick just aint you're ticket, and you should try a different type or age of a girl)

(I'd rather not think of the third possibility...just stay away from Lord Trader and Beer Slayer..better safe than sorry)
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:41:11 PM EDT

Originally Posted By soccermike7:
where a really thick condom. less friction, = you last longer

and an additional plus. its safer



well that was my first thought then I started having trouble keeping it up so now I cant seem to stay hard, which is worse than the original problme
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:46:41 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:47:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By Dru:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
what would be the harm in ordering some viagra on the internet just to get back in the swing of things?



Because you shouldn't NEED viagra at your age. There's an underlying problem here, be it psychological or physiological. I agree with MrClean...is your spidey sense sending you a red flag? If not, then maybe you should see a doc.



damn what kind of psychological problem would cause this?




Maybe something that happened in your childhood.........



I really dont think so, i had a very normal childhood, normal family no real problems. Only thing i can think of is going to christian school and their distorted views of sex.



I was talking about the girl. Maybe deep inside something is setting off a warning signal to your brain, causing the problem. I know you said you loved her, but is it really love? I hear SOME guys actually have to have an emotional attachment to a woman in order to do the deed.

Some.

I don't know any, but I heard about it. Maybe it was in one of those 'Urban Legends' books...Hmmm....



I'm one of them. Last girl I was with...well, I was kinda pressured to be with her. She was hot, but a little bit...um, pushy to say the least. I had problems like what Greg is having (and i'm 20 right now, this was when I was 18). I actually feel dirty if I'm with someone I don't love (go ahead, flame away . If you don't have anything stressful going on (my problem was undoubtedly stress related) and this is still going on, might be time to see a doctor. It's not you, and it's not something to be ashamed over, this kind of shit happens, just get it taken care of and everything will be fine.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:52:10 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey



Or you can be in conflict with what your heart tells you what is right and your penis telling you what it wants.

The few times I couldn't get it up was because I knew I was doing something I wasn't supposted to be doing.

Sgat1r5
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 3:55:10 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:00:35 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 4:00:43 PM EDT by NimmerMehr]
Any issues masturbating?
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:00:57 PM EDT

Originally Posted By FightingHellfish:
Aren't you a ROTC Cadet?

Try better utilising your 8 troop leading steps and write up a thorough Op Order before sex. Focus on execution and stress the desired end state. Give your girl friend a good 'commander's intent', she needs to understand where this is supposed to be going.

If you try all that, and it's still not working, have a Sergeant get the job done for ou.




HAHAHAH! whew. I'm a dot and i just got done with an exercise in futility this past weekend at drill. Thanks for the comic relief!
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:09:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By NimmerMehr:
Any issues masturbating?



no, but i have had no reason to.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:10:23 PM EDT

Originally Posted By sgtar15:

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Smoking, drinking,drugs and obesity are the main causes. Stress doesn't help it either.


Or you could be ghey



Or you can be in conflict with what your heart tells you what is right and your penis telling you what it wants.

The few times I couldn't get it up was because I knew I was doing something I wasn't supposted to be doing.

Sgat1r5



hmm interesting, I really care about this girl though. I thought i really loved her.
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:11:01 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/7/2005 4:12:13 PM EDT by EPOCH96]
it's not just for senior citizens...

Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:11:54 PM EDT

Originally Posted By EPOCH96:
img.photobucket.com/albums/v216/Jbays/Viagra14.gif



I am tempted is there any harm?

Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:14:29 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
hmm interesting, I really care about this girl though. I thought i really loved her.



Sounds like you two are a perfect match! Has she met your mother yet? I ask because I believe it is time she does.

Sgat1r5
Link Posted: 8/7/2005 4:14:59 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:

Originally Posted By EPOCH96:
img.photobucket.com/albums/v216/Jbays/Viagra14.gif



I am tempted is there any harm?




yes

Sgat1r5
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