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Posted: 10/26/2013 8:52:37 AM EDT
Just wondering...if your separated from wife unit.....are you dating?

Is that still cheating?


Yes...another marriage tanked thread....

Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:54:59 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:55:44 AM EDT
Don't date until the divorce is final.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:56:03 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:57:05 AM EDT

Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:


Just wondering...if your separated from wife unit.....are you dating?



Is that still cheating?





Yes...another marriage tanked thread....



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Personal opinion is no.  Opinion of the court is very likely.  I know it was a question I had to answer.  
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:58:06 AM EDT

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Oh really, like you would know anything about this topic
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:58:14 AM EDT
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What if the shit is taking a LONG ass time because the papers
keep getting changed and tweaked...

Let me re-word "date"......

Little ass on the side

Link Posted: 10/26/2013 8:58:48 AM EDT


Pics of soon to be ex-wife?


Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:00:26 AM EDT
Knocking out hood rats and whores, sure go for it. Starting a relationship? Give yourself some time to be emotionally available again. Just making a fair assumption about your emotional state without trying to be offensive or act like I know you.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:00:58 AM EDT
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Well I already have "my" things safe, "sold" to brother

Bank account is good, wife has her own account....

I literally left her EVERYTHING, except what I could pack in
the truck and brother has 2 handguns and rifles....wife kept
the 38 and a 9.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:00:58 AM EDT
You were already getting a *little ass on the side* while you were still married so, to quote Hitlery, "What difference, at this point, does it make?"
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:02:42 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
What if the shit is taking a LONG ass time because the papers


keep getting changed and tweaked...





Let me re-word "date"......





Little ass on the side





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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:





Originally Posted By Naffenea:


Don't date until the divorce is final.

What if the shit is taking a LONG ass time because the papers


keep getting changed and tweaked...





Let me re-word "date"......





Little ass on the side










 

If you end up on the stand you're the one that has to decide if you are ok with perjury.  Mine took a year and a half pretty much.  I played with fire and was lucky to not get burned.  My thoughts were after she told me I should cheat, divorce her, and get a girlfriend because every time I touched her it made her want to throw up and she had no want or desire left for me and that I should be good to go.  Is when I left.  Just took forever to finish from there.




FTR, we settled out of court and I never took the stand.  

 
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:02:54 AM EDT
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Are there still at fault states?

Hell my ex move d a stranger from idaho , who moved here to mov in with herinto her new place 6 weeks after s eperation order.

Brought him to the divorce paper signing as well. Know who gave a fuck ? No one . Besides me. Judge said if hesnot fucking my underage daughters he doesn't gaf.

Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:02:59 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Aimless:
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1)  Listen to the lawyer.
 2) Yes, I did it and got away with it. If you wind up in a serious relationship to whoever you date, they WILL throw that shit in your face. Its ok for them to date you, but its proof positive (to them) that you're a cheater. The female mind is a remarkable thing.
3) You need a timeout to re-evaluate your priorities.
There will be plenty of pie and your head will be in a better place.
Sorry this didn't one work out.
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:



Well I already have "my" things safe, "sold" to brother

Bank account is good, wife has her own account....

I literally left her EVERYTHING, except what I could pack in
the truck and brother has 2 handguns and rifles....wife kept
the 38 and a 9.
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Originally Posted By Aimless:
Good way for the divorce to blow up in your face



Well I already have "my" things safe, "sold" to brother

Bank account is good, wife has her own account....

I literally left her EVERYTHING, except what I could pack in
the truck and brother has 2 handguns and rifles....wife kept
the 38 and a 9.



Hmmm......when all this first came up you said she cleaned the house out and even took your dog.  

C'mon OP.  Keep the stories straight..
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:04:02 AM EDT
Dating while separated hurts you but not her.
If you aren't used to a double standard...you will be.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:04:16 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By OnlineAllTheTime:
You were already getting a *little ass on the side* while you were still married so, to quote Hitlery, "What difference, at this point, does it make?"
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Just curious on the different moral standards of the hive  

I am enjoying the "singles" life again.....forgot what it was like  


No pics of ex......posted some here before....
added LOTS more weight since  
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:06:10 AM EDT
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Hmmm......when all this first came up you said she cleaned the house out and even took your dog.  

C'mon OP.  Keep the stories straight..
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Originally Posted By OnlineAllTheTime:
Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Originally Posted By Aimless:
Good way for the divorce to blow up in your face



Well I already have "my" things safe, "sold" to brother

Bank account is good, wife has her own account....

I literally left her EVERYTHING, except what I could pack in
the truck and brother has 2 handguns and rifles....wife kept
the 38 and a 9.



Hmmm......when all this first came up you said she cleaned the house out and even took your dog.  

C'mon OP.  Keep the stories straight..



We got back together to re-try it again....not gonna work, WAY too much damage done
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:07:15 AM EDT
I did not. I now wish I would have. (There was a very nice girl hanging around, and she eventually got tired of waiting)

She was, but that was why we were getting the divorce in the first place.
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...she told me I should cheat, divorce her, and get a girlfriend because every time I touched her it made her want to throw up...
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Originally Posted By moonjumper:
...she told me I should cheat, divorce her, and get a girlfriend because every time I touched her it made her want to throw up...

Well, she certainly staked out a position there.


Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Just curious on the different moral standards of the hive  

Oh please, if sanctimony was gold bars, this would be a forum full of millionaires.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:08:09 AM EDT
Get the thing done asap.  The longer it drags out, the worse it will be and the much, much, much more expensive it will be.

Once your wife realizes that she cannot control your emotions she is more likely to want to get it done.

Many divorces started by women have a high level of punishment involved.  They don't just want to be free, they want you to be their hostages.

Fight any restraining/protective order.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:09:05 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:10:18 AM EDT
from my own situation of knocking out ho's and getting caught by the soon to exwife, she had already filed and left me. Left me as in pregnant and jumped in the car and abandoned me, never to return. She pulled this infidelity crap when custody and visitation came up and I dropped the abandonment aspect on her and the court told her to drop it and move on.
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Originally Posted By runcible:
Well, she certainly staked out a position there.
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Originally Posted By runcible:





Originally Posted By moonjumper:


...she told me I should cheat, divorce her, and get a girlfriend because every time I touched her it made her want to throw up...





Well, she certainly staked out a position there.





 

Yeah was an interesting conversation that night.  Explained a lot about the previous 5 or so years.  She gave a lot more details along same lines.  She said it made her feel better so was all that mattered....  did crack me up when about 3 weeks later she asked why I had quit touching her.







Did allow me to eject with a clear conscience from her.  

 
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:13:59 AM EDT
So how many *almost divorces* does this make?  

Y'all have been having issues ever since I remember.  Why does she keep coming back?  
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:21:54 AM EDT
My buddy has been trying to get a divorce for over a year.
He is already engaged.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:22:38 AM EDT

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To quote the nice LAPD officer who wanted to search my friend's truck, "ARE YOU A FUCKING LAWYER?! "



Oh, wait, you are. Carry on then.
 
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:30:04 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:



What if the shit is taking a LONG ass time because the papers
keep getting changed and tweaked...

Let me re-word "date"......

Little ass on the side

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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Originally Posted By Naffenea:
Don't date until the divorce is final.



What if the shit is taking a LONG ass time because the papers
keep getting changed and tweaked...

Let me re-word "date"......

Little ass on the side



Get a fleshlight, change hands, hump the couch.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:32:18 AM EDT
Ask your attorney if he thinks it is a good idea for you to date.......
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:37:51 AM EDT
I dated my current wife while awaiting the divorce to be done with my first wife. No big deal IMO.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:40:17 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Naffenea:
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Originally Posted By Aimless:
Good way for the divorce to blow up in your face
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Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:43:52 AM EDT
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Mr ex wife had a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:50:59 AM EDT
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:55:16 AM EDT
MEDIATION AGREEMENT.



Then you can do whatever the fuck you want.  "Living separate and apart"
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 9:58:03 AM EDT

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Mr ex wife had a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
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LOL

 



Someone would have a worse day than me...
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:00:03 AM EDT
No. You don't need the drama.

Get divorced, go heal, fix what ever needs fixing and live life.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:00:40 AM EDT
Yes I'm separated.
Yes I'm dating.  
No it's not cheating.
I fuck every girl that I get my hands on.  
The ex has a boyfriend, so I have a green light.  
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:00:45 AM EDT
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LOL  

Someone would have a worse day than me...
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Originally Posted By Poppy83:
Originally Posted By MARINEORDIE:
Mr ex wife had a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
LOL  

Someone would have a worse day than me...

I hope against hope everyday that she develops a painful rapid acting case of cancer!
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:00:50 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:



We got back together to re-try it again....not gonna work, WAY too much damage done
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Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Originally Posted By OnlineAllTheTime:
Originally Posted By hightech_redneck:
Originally Posted By Aimless:
Good way for the divorce to blow up in your face



Well I already have "my" things safe, "sold" to brother

Bank account is good, wife has her own account....

I literally left her EVERYTHING, except what I could pack in
the truck and brother has 2 handguns and rifles....wife kept
the 38 and a 9.



Hmmm......when all this first came up you said she cleaned the house out and even took your dog.  

C'mon OP.  Keep the stories straight..



We got back together to re-try it again....not gonna work, WAY too much damage done



lol ya think?
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:20:52 AM EDT
Depends
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this
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:23:21 AM EDT
Sure, keep it on the down low, don't go anywhere you might run into the soon to be X
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:28:44 AM EDT
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The lawyers have and will tell you no. If the divorce isn't too contentious and you remain discrete (don't rub the ex's nose in it), you'll probably be alright. This advice is worth what you paid for it.

ETA: In my case, the wife bailed and relocated out of state. The chances of running into her while out and about were slim to none. And Slim was out to lunch.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:29:16 AM EDT
I think common sense would dictate that your dick remain in  your pants until the decree is issued.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:29:27 AM EDT

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You should be fine once it is filed as it shows the clear intent to end the marriage.  A divorce can literally take years, you don't need to stop having a life for that long.  Disclaimer: I'm not a scum sucking bottom feeder (lawyer)

 
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I hope against hope everyday that she develops a painful rapid acting case of cancer!
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Originally Posted By Poppy83:
Originally Posted By MARINEORDIE:
Mr ex wife hai a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
LOL  

Someone would have a worse day than me...

I hope against hope everyday that she develops a painful rapid acting case of cancer!

So why don't you send her tanning bed coupons and free cigarettes?  

Mrs. Ex Marineordie you have been selected as a product tester for your region. You'll be provided, at no cost to you, free samples and coupons for excIting products. Products from partners like RJR, Bungee Drop America and J.B Tanning Beds. You will also have the opportunity to win fabulous trips to such exotic locations as Fukishima Japan and cruises on Somalia Seas cruise line.
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 10:38:41 AM EDT
yes and yes.
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So why don't you send her tanning bed coupons and free cigarettes?  

Mrs. Ex Marineordie you have been selected as a product tester for your region. You'll be provided, at no cost to you, free samples and coupons for excIting products. Products from partners like RJR, Bungee Drop America and J.B Tanning Beds. You will also have the opportunity to win fabulous trips to such exotic locations as Fukishima Japan and cruises on Somalia Seas cruise line.
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Originally Posted By discworld717:
Originally Posted By MARINEORDIE:
Originally Posted By Poppy83:
Originally Posted By MARINEORDIE:
Mr ex wife hai a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
LOL  

Someone would have a worse day than me...

I hope against hope everyday that she develops a painful rapid acting case of cancer!

So why don't you send her tanning bed coupons and free cigarettes?  

Mrs. Ex Marineordie you have been selected as a product tester for your region. You'll be provided, at no cost to you, free samples and coupons for excIting products. Products from partners like RJR, Bungee Drop America and J.B Tanning Beds. You will also have the opportunity to win fabulous trips to such exotic locations as Fukishima Japan and cruises on Somalia Seas cruise line.

Now that is an idea!!!!
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Mr ex wife had a kid with another guy two weeks before our divorce.  The judge congratulated her on her new born son.  Made me pay for a paternity test and the awarded her 1/2 of my retirement and full custody of our two daughters.
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I'm amazed that there aren't more murders over things like that.
 
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 12:12:03 PM EDT
Are you banging the same homewrecker that fucked up your marriage?
Link Posted: 10/26/2013 12:16:26 PM EDT
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In Texas the courts do not give a fuck.       Filing for divorce because your wife is fat or because she is banging hobos is the same in the eyes of the court.
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