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Posted: 3/16/2006 7:52:41 AM EDT
i keep remembering the story line from pulp fiction.

But then I hear come on Blue i trust you with my GF and i trust her.
i am going to be out of town and she has tickets to a concert. One will go to waist if you don't go. This feels wrong to me. Not that I would do anything and she would not but I don’t like to put myself in situations like this. Then I think you’re a big boy. You can keep big D in your pants and your acting silly. It’s just a concert and dinner. Maybe some polite conversation and a couple glasses of wine. No reason not to go.

So what say you?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:53:28 AM EDT
About what?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:54:02 AM EDT
just don't give her a foot rub
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:55:04 AM EDT

Originally Posted By TheFreepster:
just don't give her a foot rub



"but i am the foot Fu@#$ MAST'A"
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:56:02 AM EDT

Originally Posted By TheFreepster:
just don't give her a foot rub



Or a shoulder massage.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:56:54 AM EDT
I would hit it
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:57:23 AM EDT
sounds like you are a standup guy, if you feel comfortable take her out and have a good time.

I have a few buddies who i would trust with my lady.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:57:49 AM EDT
I say I can't figure out what the hell you're talking about.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 7:59:33 AM EDT
If he trusts the both of you and you trust the both of you, act like adults and enjoy the concert. No big deal. But most of the time people don't act responsibly and therefore the problems.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:00:33 AM EDT
Don't leave your high grade heroin unattended in your over coat and
everything should be fine.


GM
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:05:11 AM EDT
What's the issue?

She's your friend's g/f, unless you're harboring lustful feeling towards her that you're afraid you won't be able to control , or one or all of the people involved are the type who thrive on that sort of drama, I see no problem accompanying her to a concert. It's hardly the most intimate of settings ....

As an aside, why can't she give the spare ticket to one of her own friends?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:06:36 AM EDT
Sounds like she must be hot, and she'll be lonely while he was away.

Similarly, my friend was left to keep the company of his friend's girlfriend. Took her fishing, took her to the movies, took her to dinner. They hooked up, he was enamored.

B/f comes back, g/f sees him, they get engaged, my friend is left in the dust.

GUARD YOUR FEELINGS! If you're just worried about hittin' it or not, well... that ain't worth it in my book. Keep it in your pants.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:06:53 AM EDT
I say go for it. I took my friend's girlfriend (at that time) to a new year's day shoot while he was working. I had his blessing on it and everything went very well. If nothing else, you get a free concert, what more do you want? MJD
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:07:27 AM EDT
I wouldn't do it, but my wife gets jealous & always thinks I am having affairs.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:07:53 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 8:08:40 AM EDT by gks452]
I don't think your problem is keeping your pants zipped. But what happens if you end up having a really great time and she does too. Then what? You like her. She likes you. If there is a problem it is likely to happen two or three weeks later


[grammar nazi]It's 'go to waste' not 'go to waist'. Or was that a Freudian slip? [/grammar nazi]
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:11:07 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bluepaddle:

One will go to waist if you don't go.

Then I think you’re a big boy. You can keep big D in your pants and your acting silly.

So what say you?



First, why would she tuck it in her pants?

Second, you obviously want to get in them as well.

Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:12:25 AM EDT

Originally Posted By HarrySacz:
I would hit it

Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:13:14 AM EDT
Take her. She can help you score with other chicks.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:21:13 AM EDT
It would help the analysis of your dilemma if you posted pics...
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:25:33 AM EDT

Buddy, afterwards, he will ALWAYS wonder if maybe......just maybe something happened between the two of you that night.

I know I would. Which is why I wouldn't ask a friend to do that in the first place.

Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:28:21 AM EDT
If it's blue and you are a paddler, then you should hit it.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:34:42 AM EDT
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:36:51 AM EDT
Trust me with your life, not your money or your wife girlfriend.


Sounds like you know more than you are telling. Smell your finger.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:39:26 AM EDT
My best friend has begged me to keep his wife company so he could do his own thing. He knows I would kill myself before I would touch her so he doesnt care. Also I knew her as a friend even before I met him. So I do have dinner with her or do stuff occasionally with her and no problems.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:40:02 AM EDT
if your friend is dumb enough to trust you with his gf,
i see no other option but to hit,
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:41:29 AM EDT
what? she has no girlfriends she can take?

a sister? a brother?

If not then go. I went to the symphony with my best friend's fiancee. We had fun. There was never any question of "what if". Jeez...sounds like you don't trust yourself with another guys girl. She should be so off limits in your eyes that she might as well not even be the same species.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:44:03 AM EDT
are you a ?

If the story IS true, then no you shouldn't go. If it doesn't feel right, then it isn't right. Sounds to me, however, like your "friend" WANTS you to fuck his girl the way he's FORCING you two together while he's out of town. But that's no excuse for you to do something you KNOW isn't right. Something smells fishy.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:44:20 AM EDT

Originally Posted By ChunkyLover53:
if your friend is dumb enough to trust you with his gf,
i see no other option but to hit,



Like a retard with a drum set!
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:45:51 AM EDT
Did anyone say post pics yet?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:46:17 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 8:47:17 AM EDT by Gravitas1]
fine obviously you WANT to fuck your friends GF . . . and HE'S pushing you two together. So throw morality and loyalty in the pooper and go F the rotten thing.

ETA: I don't know why you're asking for advise. You've obvioulsy already made up your mind. Hope it's worth it.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:48:14 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 8:48:38 AM EDT by wedge1082]

Originally Posted By goodmedicine:
Don't leave your high grade heroin unattended in your over coat and
everything should be fine.


GM



But if you do then you only have to stab her once, not three times. But it has to be hard enough to get through the bone.

eta. This is a trap.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 8:53:44 AM EDT

Originally Posted By tc6969:

Originally Posted By out-a-ammo:

Originally Posted By bluepaddle:

One will go to waist if you don't go.

Then I think you’re a big boy. You can keep big D in your pants and your acting silly.

So what say you?



First, why would she tuck it in her pants?

Second, you obviously want to get in them as well.




Hope her waste isnt too big.



Yes especially with these damn postban toilets.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:03:31 AM EDT

Originally Posted By WayneD:

Originally Posted By ChunkyLover53:
if your friend is dumb enough to trust you with his gf,
i see no other option but to hit,



Like a retard with a drum set!



Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:06:32 AM EDT

Originally Posted By daisywench:
what? she has no girlfriends she can take?

a sister? a brother?

If not then go. I went to the symphony with my best friend's fiancee. We had fun. There was never any question of "what if". Jeez...sounds like you don't trust yourself with another guys girl. She should be so off limits in your eyes that she might as well not even be the same species.



Do you honestly think that would stop some of the guys on this board? MJD
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:08:21 AM EDT
Your friend is testing the waters for a 3-way.

You'll get with his girl and then he'll come join you wearing a robe.

I've seen it a million times.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:09:14 AM EDT
Go unless you don't trust yourself or there have been sparks flying between you two.

I have been in your shoes before and went to some movies with a bf's best friend. He was HOT--all my female friends swooned over him--but to me he was just Dave and nothing would ever happen.

Go and have a good time unless you are tempted.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:11:48 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Silesius:
Your friend is testing the waters for a 3-way.

You'll get with his girl and then he'll come join you wearing a robe.

I've seen it a million times.



yea, me too... but my life ain't a porno
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:13:55 AM EDT
Maybe he's just testing you, period.

Or maybe the girlfriend suggested it. Maybe she's jealous of the time you and your buddy spend together. So she might say you tried to make a move on her, then he's never gonna talk to you again. Then she'll have him all to herself. Of course I don't even know half of the story so it's your call.

Unless you know her very well, I'd say not to give her the benefit of the doubt. More often than not women are evil, manipulative, scheming bitches that almost but not quite make me ashamed of being one myself.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:16:01 AM EDT
[Travolta]
So you're gonna go out there and you're gonna say 'goodnight, I've had a very lovely evening', walk out the door, get in the car, go home and jerk off and that's all you're gonna do.
[/Travolta]
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:16:50 AM EDT

Originally Posted By highwayman:

Originally Posted By daisywench:
what? she has no girlfriends she can take?

a sister? a brother?

If not then go. I went to the symphony with my best friend's fiancee. We had fun. There was never any question of "what if". Jeez...sounds like you don't trust yourself with another guys girl. She should be so off limits in your eyes that she might as well not even be the same species.



Do you honestly think that would stop some of the guys on this board? MJD



It should. What is it you guys always say "Bro's before Ho's?"

your friend should take precedence over ANY dick action.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:27:24 AM EDT

Originally Posted By goodmedicine:
Don't leave your high grade heroin unattended in your over coat and
everything should be fine.


GM




+87
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:27:47 AM EDT
No good can come of this...
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:30:32 AM EDT

Originally Posted By daisywench:

Originally Posted By highwayman:

Originally Posted By daisywench:
what? she has no girlfriends she can take?

a sister? a brother?

If not then go. I went to the symphony with my best friend's fiancee. We had fun. There was never any question of "what if". Jeez...sounds like you don't trust yourself with another guys girl. She should be so off limits in your eyes that she might as well not even be the same species.



Do you honestly think that would stop some of the guys on this board? MJD



It should. What is it you guys always say "Bro's before Ho's?"

your friend should take precedence over ANY dick action.



In an ideal world this is true. Unfortunately, most don't see it this way. One of the man's rules goes, "Once you have known a man for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever unless you actually marry her." The same could go for girlfriends. I prefer to just wait until my friends break up with the desirable ones. Yes, I know, I'm evil. MJD
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:32:50 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 9:34:33 AM EDT by bluepaddle]

Originally Posted By ProGunFemme:
Maybe he's just testing you, period.

Or maybe the girlfriend suggested it. Maybe she's jealous of the time you and your buddy spend together. So she might say you tried to make a move on her, then he's never gonna talk to you again. Then she'll have him all to herself. Of course I don't even know half of the story so it's your call.

Unless you know her very well, I'd say not to give her the benefit of the doubt. More often than not women are evil, manipulative, scheming bitches that almost but not quite make me ashamed of being one myself.



yea. she and i don't know each other well. Mostly because the buddy has a revolving door relationship with chicks and as soon as I get to know one he has dumped her and moved on. I don’t date old GFs of friends of mine. This girl and I have been pleasant to one another and She is Major HOTIE. But I am not ruining a friendship over her. I understand where you are coming from. also, she may be looking for a reason to break their relation ship and I have been played that way before.

I am a man who needs or wants very little drama in my life. So I think I will beg out and stay at home and let her take one of her GF’s to the show. I don’t see how this can “turn out good”. I see many ways of it going bad. (is sucks to be a cynic).
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:33:57 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 9:34:40 AM EDT by DK-Prof]

Originally Posted By ARDOC:
My best friend has begged me to keep his wife company so he could do his own thing. He knows I would kill myself before I would touch her so he doesnt care. Also I knew her as a friend even before I met him. So I do have dinner with her or do stuff occasionally with her and no problems.



I once paid to fly in a good buddy of mine from L.A. just to get out of going to a Sting concert with my wife (fiancee at the time).


Sting sucks ass!


My wife also just bought two season tickets to the Symphony.

I wonder who she is going with, because it aint gonna be me.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:34:56 AM EDT
this one is a powder keg, and your dick can ignite it bro. She's gotta be hot for you to even worry, so where there's hottness trouble usually follows...do as you will, just makesure its worth it.

That being said, if she is hot and you do get her naked...post pics!
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:42:49 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Luopo:
No good can come of this...



+1

Don't talk about complicated dick issues.
Just say that something else has you occupied at that time, and you can't make it.

Or if you don't care about the friendship then SIHPAPP, but don't fuck around with half-measures.

Get it all or leave it the fuck alone.
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:46:48 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 3/16/2006 9:50:52 AM EDT by sslocal]
I took my friends GF to a concert once. Of course he was not informed of this before the fact. He had to find out from somebody else after we had left.
I had no ill intent on this woman nor she on me. We were just friends going to listen to some music together.

It worked out well after I talked him out of kicking my ass for taking her.

Edit to correct licking problem. <sigh>
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:48:39 AM EDT

Originally Posted By sslocal:
I took my friends GF to a concert once. Of course he was not informed of this before the fact. He had to find out from somebody else after we had left.
I had no ill intent on this woman nor she on me. We were just friends going to listen to some music together.

It worked out well after I talked him out of licking my ass for taking her.



you had to talk him out of licking your ass?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:50:39 AM EDT

Originally Posted By sslocal:
I took my friends GF to a concert once. Of course he was not informed of this before the fact. He had to find out from somebody else after we had left.
I had no ill intent on this woman nor she on me. We were just friends going to listen to some music together.

It worked out well after I talked him out of licking my ass for taking her.hr


you mean kicking your ass right?
Link Posted: 3/16/2006 9:50:49 AM EDT

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:

.......................My wife also just bought two season tickets to the Symphony.

I wonder who she is going with, because it aint gonna be me.



Check out the schedule. Tell her you'll go anytime they're featuring Sibelius. Then go and enjoy your nap.
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