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Posted: 11/19/2008 5:09:25 PM EDT
i'd like to hear some opinions from someone else other our friends, so heres the story. i'll start off with i got married @ 18, divorced @ 24. after divorce, started traveling all over the place bull riding in rodeos, sportfucking, and living the single life. now @ 32, multiple injuries keep me from competing full time, so i just do a few county fairs and whatnot, figured i was time to settle down, well about a year ago the customer service chick who we do maintenence for got a divorce, and couple months later we started dating. she seemed like a real sweet gal, i told her about my past, all the rodeos, sportfucking, and other crazy shit i've done, to be up front because i felt it was gettin a little serious. well bout a month later, SHTF!! she's accusing me of fucking everything that walks, every time i go have a beer with the boys i'm fucking someone and have not done anything like that, not to mention, her dildo ex husband is still in love with her and i have deal with that shit, tellin everyone of her friends he's gonna kick my ass. WTF??? (I could take him) well i know i broke the law of gettin my pie and paycheck in same place, and should have knew better, but oh well. The one thing is if i eject i'll still have to deal with her @ work. (wont be pretty) am i just whining as some say or do a reason to bitch??? well i may have dug my own grave here with yall, but hell let me have it, eager to see what yall got to say
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If she doesn't trust you, there really isn't anywhere for the relationship to go but down.
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explain to her that you wanted to be honest with her, that is why you told her. Explain that you are not that guy anymore. Explain that if she keeps this shit up you are hitting the fucking road. FIN
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This one is simple.
She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does. Oldest trick in the book. |
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oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before |
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Responses 3 and 4 seem to be the most plausible.
Try answer 3, and if it fails, it is because of answer number 4. |
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Straightforward, calmly, and in very few words.
Tell her that relationships are built on trust, and without that, you do not feel comfortable or right about continuing a relationship with her. Sounds like she is very insecure, and prone to a lot of drama. Do not give her "drama". Give her integrity. Just tell her that you're gonna roll on down the road and get out of her hair. And do not give in. Because she will try to get back with you. She's messing with your head, trying to get more commitment out of you. Bad ju-ju here. Drop it, and stay away from it. Not worth it. ETA Female opinion here. <–––––––– |
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you said it
never get your honey: where you get your money you are screwed either way plus she still got it going on with the x look for work , you can't win............ |
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Sounds like the beginning of a wonderful marriage...
Psst... eject... Do it for the children! |
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Some things are not meant to be told. You fucked up. Now, make it clear to her that you were never the type to be unfaithful and that you won't be to her.
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ifindthatparagraphsandpunctuationhelpwhentryingtoexpressmythoughtsyoushouldcheckitoutsometime
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This one is simple. She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does. Oldest trick in the book. This. She pulled the oll fuck the ex behind the new guys back routine. |
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I believe I would give her ex a tune up, just before I told her to keep all the Drama.
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ifindthatparagraphsandpunctuationhelpwhentryingtoexpressmythoughtsyoushouldcheckitoutsometime |
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i'd like to hear some opinions from someone else other our friends, so heres the story. i'll start off with i got married @ 18, divorced @ 24. after divorce, started traveling all over the place bull riding in rodeos, sportfucking, and living the single life. now @ 32, multiple injuries keep me from competing full time, so i just do a few county fairs and whatnot, figured i was time to settle down, well about a year ago the customer service chick who we do maintenence for got a divorce, and couple months later we started dating. she seemed like a real sweet gal, i told her about my past, all the rodeos, sportfucking, and other crazy shit i've done, to be up front because i felt it was gettin a little serious. well bout a month later, SHTF!! she's accusing me of fucking everything that walks, every time i go have a beer with the boys i'm fucking someone and have not done anything like that, not to mention, her dildo ex husband is still in love with her and i have deal with that shit, tellin everyone of her friends he's gonna kick my ass. WTF??? (I could take him) well i know i broke the law of gettin my pie and paycheck in same place, and should have knew better, but oh well. The one thing is if i eject i'll still have to deal with her @ work. (wont be pretty) am i just whining as some say or do a reason to bitch??? well i may have dug my own grave here with yall, but hell let me have it, eager to see what yall got to say Next time less history.. more mystery.. Eject... |
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explain to her that you wanted to be honest with her, that is why you told her. Explain that you are not that guy anymore. Explain that if she keeps this shit up you are hitting the fucking road. FIN Yep, time for a no bullshit conversation to end either the problematic situation, or the entire arrangement. |
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Quoted: oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before My reaction too! |
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...sportfucking...
Que? Is there a nation league for this? Perhaps with a chapter in the Midwest? Are there divisions? What sort of gear and training will I need to get started? |
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damn, some of yall have no mercy in here....one reason i guess i love this place
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+1. That's all she wrote. |
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...sportfucking...
Que? Is there a nation league for this? Perhaps with a chapter in the Midwest? Are there divisions? What sort of gear and training will I need to get started? no leagues, no training, no rules, he with the most points wins....only gear needed is condoms.....lots of them lol |
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Jealousy stems from one projecting their own behavior on someone else.
EJECT EJECT EJECT |
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This one is simple. She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does. Oldest trick in the book. My first thought too. |
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oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before +1! |
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EJECT!EJECT!EJECT! You can say that again! Oh wait, you already did. |
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Can someone post the .gif from Tombstone........"Well............bye"
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well, for one, you are gay for riding bulls. For 2, SIIHPAPP
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Your first name don't start with an "S," does it? no |
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Your first name don't start with an "S," does it? no OK, thought there was a chance I knew you for a sec (the stories wouldn't have matched up, so I would have known it was a BS/fun post then is all). |
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Women are like Democrats... you can tell what they're really doing by what they accuse YOU of doing.
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Cool, a T-33 ejection pic. I've never seen that one here before. And for the OP: Odd timing. You tell her your history and a month later she de-compensates. Something happened, and while it could be the reflexive hive "dirty whore's fucking somebody" answer, it could be something else. It'd be interesting to know what. Jane |
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wow, theres a bunch of new eject pictures on this thread!
Obviously if shes telling her friends that her ex is gonna kick your ass, theres a problem. Even if you can take him, its not worth the problems. Dont worry i can still read and understand your post, im not a grammer nazi like everyone else here. Must be a cowboy thing |
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