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Quoted: My sister's first child died in infancy. That child never makes a sound. |
How very sad. Please don't use that as a way to try and guilt someone else. If you're trying to start something here, please take it elsewhere. |
No ma'am, I was not trying to start anything nor make anyone feel guilty. My objective was to motivate the readers to view the subject from a different perspective. I have to do that to myself frequently. |
I thought about not responding to this, but... I dunno, it seems like it needs a little something...
Perhaps people already have their own perspective that you're not aware of, hmm? I think you'd be surprised at how many women here may have dealt with similar loss to your sister's, which I am very sorry about.
Here's
my perspective
(and I'm not looking for sympathy or anything, it is how it is and I'm dealing with it); this was probably the last Christmas I'll ever see. If that's the case, it was wonderful, we made beautiful memories. Did I allow my children to engage in obnoxious behaviour because of it? Not so much. At this point, in my opinion, consistent parenting is one of the most important things I can give them.
I certainly don't think that people complaining about noisy toys need a different perspective, like I said, many people already have their
own perspective. Patty herself had her own battle with cancer, if you remember.
We all deal with loss. Life goes on. Parenting goes on.
And very noisy toys that don't have removable batteries because people think it's funny are easily "mislaid". Hope your holiday was wonderful.