Divorced - never smelled it coming.
The ex's lieing, cheating ways have left me unable to trust anyone in a relationship ever again - so be it. Essentially she started cheating before we were even married. I suspected but decided to trust someone for once in my life. Eventually, when our son was about 2, she decided she wanted this other guy to move in, bye to me, told me some of what she had done to make me want to leave. A month later, she is pregnant with the other guys kid, cheating on him to get him to leave, and wanting me back because I am such a great guy and "I don't know what I was thinking, you should come back for our son if nothing else. I don't ever want to be with anyone but you".
Right.
A week later she had a new live-in boyfriend - I knew the guy. Two months later I run into him and all he says to me after deciding if he should run away or not, is "Why didn't you warn me?" I laughed.
I won't even get into my bank accounts and credit cards - nothing like buying essentials for the new apartment and having them refuse your credit. She obviously planned ahead.
I got married under the impression that it was a one time only deal. Oh well, my time is done.
I did get my revenge though. I act like her friend to this day. Never once have I yelled at her, been goaded into fighting with her as she so desperately seems to want, or even come close to hitting her. I knowingly encouraged her into a situation I knew she could not emotionally handle. So far she has refused to commit herself as her psychiatrist (psychologist? I never remember) has recommended, but she is on so many antidepressants and other drugs I can't keep them straight. She is on a royal mind-fuck from hell and she cannot get out of the situation.
Sorry so long [:)]. I know I sound bitter, and maybe I am a little but, well..... so be it. I don't let it affect me much.