For longevity, Ice Block is supposed to be the best. Me? Building a house out of concrete-reinforced styrofoam concocted in NV is unsettling.
Cost-wise? Expensive, unless you take into account the supposed life span, in which case it is hands down the most economical material around. Also, see below.
DIY? Yes, very easily (labor costs are drastically reduced). The cost savings in labor alone are SUPPOSED to be worth it, but with no experience sans the electrical, I cannot comment. They interlock like panels with tounge and groove application.
Upgrading? Forget about it. Once it is built, changes are incredibly complex, expensive, and time-consuming. Aside from that, inspectors have no idea here in AZ what they are even looking at, as it is a commercial product that is only recently found a niche in the residential field.
Now, regardless of what material you use, call me when building. I'll wire it for you for 1/10th of what it would cost, and you supply the beer. Call it professional courtesy between AZ guys who know how to act in the AZHTF. You buy the beer, the lunch, and the material, and I'll wire it for the cost of gas to get there and a chance to run a mag through your gunz.
And yes... I am covered under an electrical license and have 14+ years in the trade. Matter of fact, I probably know your inspector.