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Posted: 2/5/2006 7:46:19 PM EDT
I like several women - a lot. Any of them could be the right one, but I have to get to know them first. A time-saving way would be to date them concurrently, rather than consecutively. Makes sense to me, but I think they might get a little upset if they were to find out about eachother. Women are strange like that.

What do you think.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:48:22 PM EDT
Tell them up front.

Just being honest is by far the best way to get to know someone.

Of course if you are dating other people, you have to expect they will too.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:49:23 PM EDT
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:50:04 PM EDT
I would if I were not already hitched.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:50:24 PM EDT
been in the same boat...very difficult to juggle, espcially with the damn names. make sure you call her the right name....give no other details....drink, get ur pecker wet, and choose whoever makes the best sammich....

and wrap it...

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:52:43 PM EDT
Are you 20 with a dick of iron and plenty of time?

Otheriwse, no. We all did it once. You're grown now.

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:53:41 PM EDT
Tried it my first year at college.

I learned that it takes too much effort and is easier to work with one.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:54:12 PM EDT
Hell Yes.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:55:06 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 7:55:24 PM EDT by Specop_007]
Dated 4 at once. Didnt last long, hard to juggle that many gals.
But for the month or so I pulled it off, there was an abundance of pie. And a variety too. Life was good.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:56:26 PM EDT
Absolutely not! My wife would be so pissed off if she found out.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:00:35 PM EDT
BTDT, they'll do it to you if they're not committed, so why not?
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:02:15 PM EDT
I see no problem with "dating" more than one girl at a time. I think there is a difference between dating and..a relationship.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:03:06 PM EDT
Just keep your shit straight and you'll do just fine. My limit would be 3 at once.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:15:08 PM EDT
I think that you should date as many women at the same time as you can. They ride it out until it blows up in your face.

Like it has been said before...I would do it, but my wife would kick my ass if she found out.

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:19:36 PM EDT
I'd be happy with just one...
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:19:36 PM EDT
I think once you have had sex with one you need to make a decision, but until that point it is ok. I’m 19, and this view is certainly the minority at my school.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:21:23 PM EDT
I did it quite a bit in my former life. It is a fucking workout.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:27:16 PM EDT
I did it once a few decades ago. Turned out they knew each other.

Never again.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:41:44 PM EDT

Would you date two or more women at the same time?

Hell ya, love too. Could you please ask Mrs. Colt_SBR if I can. She'll hit me if I ask.


Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:43:47 PM EDT
only when I was younger.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:44:27 PM EDT

Would you date two or more women at the same time?

Been there, done that. In my younger days, sometimes at the same time.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:50:25 PM EDT
I'll have to ask my wife about that. I'll get back to you ...

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 8:50:26 PM EDT
I have one that will last my or her lifetime, but if you don't know if you have the perfect one, yes date several, BE HONEST and UPFRONT. If they are worth a shit they will understand you want to find a good one, then when you get serious choose ONE, the right one.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:19:07 PM EDT
date no
Friend with benifits yes.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:23:25 PM EDT
only if all of them are paying their own way.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:25:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 9:26:16 PM EDT by Sukebe]
I have and I would if I were single. But you should let them know up front.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:27:21 PM EDT
Would you date two or more women at the same time?

If by date, you mean SHAG.......

A lot of work really, kinda like spinning plates
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:28:30 PM EDT
If I were still on the market and had no commitments, I would. No harm in that. How can you choose if you do not sample the merchandise.


no sexual pun intended.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:28:40 PM EDT
Too damn confusing, forget it.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 9:55:51 PM EDT
RUN, RUN, RUN fast while you can!! sooner or later especially after many years of marriage you'll find out that porn and your hand is your best friend! and a hell of a lot cheaper!LOL!

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 10:18:00 PM EDT
NEVER NEVER use their names. When you are addressing them, use Hon, Sweetie, anything that is not your name. Because sooner or later you are going to fuck up and call her the other girls name. It happens!

It got real expensive after I called Debbie another name.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 10:29:55 PM EDT

Lawrence: I'll tell you what I'd do, man, two chicks at the same time, man.
Peter Gibbons: That's it? If you had a million dollars, you'd do two chicks at the same time?
Lawrence: Damn straight. I always wanted to do that, man. And I think if I had a million dollars I could hook that up, cause chicks dig a dude with money.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 10:37:54 PM EDT
yes, I would do it

women do the same thing, they are always dating other guys behind our back, never get attached to just one woman when your single.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:34:48 PM EDT
Never again . Jebus that sucked .
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:41:00 PM EDT
Oh, that says date, nevermind.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:43:17 PM EDT
I would only date multiple until I got to know them and find out who I really clicked with. That would happen after the third or fourth date I think. Then I would pick one for a relationship.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:43:44 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 11:45:51 PM EDT by prk]

Originally Posted By twonami:
only when I was younger.

Anything before was when you were younger.

I mean, anything you've DONE, you did it when you were younger. Such is the nature of time....
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:45:45 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 11:46:09 PM EDT by Stealth]

Would you date two or more women at the same time?

Dear Lord no.
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:49:49 PM EDT
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 11:58:33 PM EDT
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:31:46 AM EDT

Its a good thing because it make you seem less desperate/needy. However once its get serious you need to pick one.

My personal policy was dump anyone that did not give up the goods by or on the third date. Plus after the 5th date(s) you have to pick one.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:34:51 AM EDT
Considering the luck I've had lately with women, while behaving like the perfect gentleman, at this point I'm ready to date them by the dozen and lie, cheat, and steal from them, as well.

It's a phase, and it'll pass. Hopefully soon.

Getting my heart ripped out and stomped on twice in as many years tends to make me a bit jaded on the topic.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:37:42 AM EDT
yes, but please don't date two women who like to ski...even though they live 200 miles part

long story
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:38:45 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/6/2006 6:45:51 AM EDT by Wave]
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:40:03 AM EDT
No way! That's just asking for trouble. I might yell out the wrong name.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:40:35 AM EDT
I once dated three at the same time. Never again. If you haven't dated multiple women at once, give it a try. It will be a great learning experience!

Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:41:05 AM EDT
[sniff sniff] [/sniff sniff]
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:57:34 AM EDT
WHen I'm dating, I'm in "mate selection mode."

That means, I'm god damn well looking at the whole menu.

I am honest about it and completely so: I tell each of them that I'm "out there" and dating, and I'll even tell them when a date they wants conflicts with a plan I've got with someone else.

Weeds out some non-hackers, i.e., jealous women who once in a serious relationship would be jealous of female co-workers, etc., and weeds out some super "clingers" -- i.e., women who have so elevated the concept of "love" in their brains that they attach themselves like a blood tick after one date and start those insane "forever" talks. That leaves me with the sluts (I mean, cmon, they're doing the same thing), and a pretty good selection of "good ones." The sluts are weeded out quickly through a couple of simple things that reveal their true colors, and then I'm left with a couple decent women who are comfortable with themselves.

My big rule, and one I make clear as a "fairness" issue when I tell each of them that I'm dating several women, is to let them know I'm not going to sleep with several women at the same time. When I go for the pie, that means you're the one I'm going to want to date for a while. I've had good results -- competition is a good thing!
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 8:07:01 AM EDT
I've dated multiple women, who knew I was.
I've dated multiple women, who didn't know I was.
I've dated multiple women together.

Anyway you go with, it is alot of work.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 11:18:02 AM EDT

Originally Posted By prk:

Originally Posted By twonami:
only when I was younger.

Anything before was when you were younger.

I mean, anything you've DONE, you did it when you were younger. Such is the nature of time....

when I was young and whoring I was juggling 4 women at one time. I gave it up and decided to marry 1 of them.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 11:19:27 AM EDT
Another woman thread from WMW....
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