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Posted: 9/10/2004 4:57:35 AM EDT
Theres a lovely young thing (well she looks younger than me, though considering I'm 42 ...) that is interested in going out with me. One problem is she has a boyfriend. They are not engaged and she said she is not going to marry him. A part of me is really turned off by this, while my Mr. Happy part says go for it since its been a long, long time since he went spelunking.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 4:58:56 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 4:59:25 AM EDT by ARDOC]
She aint married, shes interested, go for it.

But if you end up dating her, dont think she wont do it to you. She WILL.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:00:27 AM EDT
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:00:27 AM EDT
What the doc said...and she might be lying to you. She might just want a piece of ass.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:01:41 AM EDT
Sounds like a slut to me.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:01:41 AM EDT
Hit it. It may be your only chance.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:02:01 AM EDT
Pooper. Pics.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:02:14 AM EDT
Hell no! If she likes you enough, she'll break up with the other guy. If she does, it would also be a sign of whether or not she has any class... Oh, and whether or not she'll cheat on you!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:04:04 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 5:05:26 AM EDT by sonofbp]
Hit it like the caveman, take pictures, give them to the boyfriend, tell them both good-bye.
He will be pissed, but will thank you later.
SHE WILL CHEAT ONCE, SHE WILL CHEAT ON YOU.
You can't trust someone you stole from someone else.
This is my standing rule:
If a girl I am dating/sleeping with goes for your pants, hit it, take pics for proof, spit in her face, and let me know I need to dump her.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:04:17 AM EDT
The Beekeeper in his old age wisdom does make a good point. Becareful and realize there are consequences. But if he is a kerry supporting lib go for it!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:14:23 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 5:14:58 AM EDT by warriorsociologist]
No...any woman who would stray like that isn't worth my time. Besides, I'm married.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:15:50 AM EDT
I wouldn't tread on that territory...


A+ for your use of the verb "spelunking"


- BUCC_Guy
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:20:00 AM EDT
its apparent she doesnt value her relationship. if you dont give her the bone then someone else will so for the love of god DO IT. we expect a picture from your date. G-rated is ok but we will require proof.


bonus points if you post lurid details of freaky sex just to get a rise out of SgtAR
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:20:18 AM EDT
Nope
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:21:09 AM EDT

Originally Posted By skid2964:
Nope



+1
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:22:34 AM EDT
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:24:50 AM EDT

Originally Posted By FiftyCalibre:
Pooper. Pics.



+1
I second that from the other side of the world from Fifty.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:28:23 AM EDT
Why not.....check it out, but don't fall for her unless she turns out to be a great gal. Take it slow and have some fun. As long as you don't let yourself get hurt, the worste thing that could happen is you get to knock off a chunk....nothing wrong with that
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:28:52 AM EDT

Originally Posted By skid2964:
Nope



Right answer.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:32:59 AM EDT
NO!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:33:48 AM EDT
Does she have a boyfriend or is she just dating someone. If she is dating, and is upfront about it, and says she sees other people, it is one thing. But if she is supposed to be in a serious relationship with the guy it is another. But a lot of people are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they grab another, which is what it sound like is going on. She is going to dump the other guy anyway when mr right comes along. Keep in mind the reason people date, to find the right person... It is ok to date someone and then not marry them. I wish I had thought about it a bit longer before I married the first time.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:37:01 AM EDT
Having had a girl tell me the exact same thing, all I can say is play it for all it is worth but know it will not last. She is obviously not getting something she needs at home, but is emotionally tied to the boyfriend. In the end she'll use her fling with you to stir up things with the boyfriend.

The whole "I'm not going to marry him, but I don't want to end it" line is an advertisement for a "Cuddle Bitch"!!!!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:38:36 AM EDT
Don't do it
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:38:48 AM EDT
Would I date her... no.

Would I have sex with her.... probably.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:40:09 AM EDT


Main Entry: spe·lunk·ing
Pronunciation: -ki[ng]
Function: noun
Date: 1944
: the hobby or practice of exploring caves



Since there is another cave dweller, I wonder how the semen will mix..
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:40:52 AM EDT
So when you're the "boyfriend" how are you going to feel?

Trust is a rare commodity these days
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 5:41:44 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Ghostchild:
Would I date her... no.

Would I have sex with her.... probably.



+1
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:27:48 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 6:45:28 AM EDT by Yojimbo]

Originally Posted By thebeekeeper1:
I wouldn't-- www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=271812

. . . too much chance for unacceptable consequences.



+1



No need to be a dishonorable dog and back stab another guy. If she wants to date you tell her to be upfront with her current boyfriend and break up with him first.

Shit like this is why I think dueling should still be legal...
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:34:17 AM EDT
Don't eat!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:36:54 AM EDT
And when you fall in love with her and might be intent on marrying her some day, don't be dissappointed if all of your time and money goes down the drain and she tells you she' seeing someone else behind your back,,, and you have herpes.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:39:45 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 6:43:36 AM EDT by Dolomite]
+1 on you filling some sort of emotional need that her current dude is unable to provide.

(Can I call you "Daddy"?)

Just get her to be straight with you (I know, I know - a near impossibility with women) about how the other guys feels about her dating. Of course, there's a 99.9% possibility that she'll be lying - but get in writing or at least on audio tape.

If she's willing to date you - she doesn't really have a boyfriend. A lap dog or cuddle bitch, maybe - but not a boyfriend. Be sure to tell her that (again, in writing or some other record that could be admissable in a court of law).

But get it while the getting is good. She'll be on to to some other geezer in less than two weeks.

CARPE THE MOTHERFUCKIN' POON!!!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:42:51 AM EDT
Dick thinking always leads to problems.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:51:51 AM EDT

Originally Posted By taptap:
Dick thinking always leads to problems.




Dude, its like riding in a lamborghini,

you don't think how much it is costing you.

just enjoy the ride..
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 6:56:38 AM EDT
If you just want the pie, why not, but as for a serious relationship, HELL NO.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:00:21 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Yojimbo:

Originally Posted By thebeekeeper1:
I wouldn't-- www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=271812

. . . too much chance for unacceptable consequences.



+1



No need to be a dishonorable dog and back stab another guy. If she wants to date you tell her to be upfront with her current boyfriend and break up with him first.

Shit like this is why I think dueling should still be legal...



+2 on the beekeepers point. (Besides, if she's randomly hitting it with a bunch of guys, how much do you want to be that she's got a little something?)
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:17:55 AM EDT
What if she has a girlfriend?
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:20:14 AM EDT
YES, you should go out with her as a friend, she is not engaged or anything so it's OK, just dont get attached emotionally, just because you date someone doesnt mean they have to marry you.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:28:20 AM EDT
Hit it... Hell yea (as long as it ain't your friend.)

Date ? Shit no... That is trouble.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:35:09 AM EDT
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:36:42 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 9/10/2004 7:39:25 AM EDT by echo6]
Where is Wedge when we need him?

ITS A TRAP!!

Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:46:06 AM EDT

Originally Posted By FreeAmerican:
But a lot of people are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they grab another, which is what it sound like is going on. She is going to dump the other guy anyway when mr right comes along.



Most women won't take the step of breaking up with their current thing until they have their next step scoped out. Almost all of them are opportunist in that regard. They're conditioned to think of themselves as couples, they can't accept being alone to the same degree a man can.

A good rule is, at any given time count on half of their friends to be agitating them to dump their current thing, dating, married, engaged, whatever.

It's just the way they are.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 7:47:31 AM EDT
Has she asked you to take a test yet?

Is she from florida?


Sgtar15
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 8:05:48 AM EDT
Well, I agree with FA. Most women I dated were dating another man when I met them. Again, if she states it is not a serious relationship, go for it. Don't get attached to start. go slow and enjoy her company. But go for it.
As for the "trust is a rare commodity" I agree completely.

As always, if you hit it, pooper and pics are a bonus.

E.
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 10:58:12 AM EDT
Some people are like monkeys, thats a good one. I have met a lot of women that fits that. Hit it and forget it. Try to get it without having to take her out anywhere. So you get free pie!

Actually having been at both ends of that sort of situation, its sucks to be the other guy and get sucker punched.

Its a TRAP!
Link Posted: 9/10/2004 11:00:45 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Sandguard:
Hell no! If she likes you enough, she'll break up with the other guy. If she does, it would also be a sign of whether or not she has any class... Oh, and whether or not she'll cheat on you!




Nope she just wants to make sure M38 can handle the "workload" before she fires the old guy.
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