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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:22:05 PM EDT
[#1]
Her dad died and she flipped out.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:23:48 PM EDT
[#2]
mine turned into a fucking loon after she gave birth.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:23:58 PM EDT
[#3]
whoring
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:25:28 PM EDT
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Mine went nuts (literally) after being married for 5 years, it took another 3 to finally get divorced.
I have been married almost 7 years this time and figured out that in the past that the problems were squarely with my ex-wife. Of course being in my mid 30's vs. early 20's makes a huge difference as well. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:26:03 PM EDT
[#5]
"not enough steaks in the freezer"
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:26:56 PM EDT
[#6]
I didn't like either one of mine, so i went hunting or fishing EVERY day instead of spending time with them. They got tired of it and decided they would find someone who did want to spend time with them.
Funny thing is as soon as they were gone....I quit hunting and started chasing women. It was a win-win. Especially for me. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:28:40 PM EDT
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i never really figured it out. she just kept screaming arfcom something, as she ran out of the house.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:36:32 PM EDT
[#8]
Seperated here I sort of got tired of her hostility and went looking for and found a better looking less hostile mate unluckily for me though I now have to work about 60 hours a week to support myself and make child support payments
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:39:02 PM EDT
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Her dad verbally assaulted me one night something fierce the Spring after I went to Basic/AIT/OSUT for the Guard and had been in approx. 18mos at this time and wanted to know why "I didnt have a job" (
 ) and I wasnt going to put up with it.So we broke up for a while and were "still together"....then I was going to ask her back out and found out from my sister that she was going on a date with some other dude. Needless to say it pissed me off so I went off on her and the rest is history. Last time we talked was on the phone and it ended up with me telling her "Ya know what, just fuck you..." After she told me I was "just there to get her through high school" and that "she never loved me". I was like, "Theres only a few things you dont say to someone you've dated for 5 years....those would be near the top." Fuckin psychobitch, but her personality and looks I miss everyday. Havent found another girl that has everything I want yet. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:40:35 PM EDT
[#10]
Really? So did mine. WTF happens and isn't there a simple test for hormone imbalances or something? Oh, I'm still married. But it isn't easy. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:47:30 PM EDT
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Drugs and alcohol on my part on the first one. Second was basically a nut case. Third one is a charm. Wonderful, thoughtful, Christian lady that puts up with me. I did good on this one!
 ETA; I had to do some of growing up too! 
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Posted: 12/27/2006 12:51:08 PM EDT
[#12]
She got fat and she cheated on me...
Then she started talking about having babies. That was when I hit the eject button. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:03:20 PM EDT
[#13]
I wish I had bookmarked Swingsets post, my ex failed 4 out of 5 of his test questions.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:03:39 PM EDT
[#14]
My first wife was perpetually unhappy. She changed jobs 6 times and we moved to 3 different states to try to make her happy. Finally after 4 years and her 100 pound weight gain, I had enough. I met the current wife in the marriage counselor's office. We've been happily married for 21 years.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:04:06 PM EDT
[#15]
She said she wasn't happy
 But I wonder how happy she is now, working at a compay she hates, and taking the kids to daycare every day? TXL |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:09:43 PM EDT
[#16]
17th year. watch out! |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:11:49 PM EDT
[#17]
Mine became an instant moonbat. Little did I know that she was bi-polar and had an eating dissorter. She refused help, said I was the problem and she became very violent, beating my lab with a golf club and sending me to the doctor. I packed up and left while she was at work.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:11:53 PM EDT
[#18]
LOL. Don't mean to laught at your expense, but this is like tragic comedy. Sorry you all have to go through this. I am not married; hope I don't end up like this. Good luck! |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:12:11 PM EDT
[#19]
She took the gerbil and ran off with Richard Geer
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:15:40 PM EDT
[#20]
I'm in my 17th year. Never happier.
But I'm enjoying all the crash and burn stories.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:17:05 PM EDT
[#21]
she was lazy and crazy, but damn fine looking, I'm fat and really really mean and nasty according to her,
but one of the first nails in the coffin according to her occured when we were out partying one night and ran into her older sister, whom I dated before I married (the hot, lazy crazy one), well the wife thought her sister was too drunk to drive, so we take her to our home, she sleeps in the spare bedroom, me and the wife in ours, well I wake up, still drunk but horny, turn and see a naked chick whom I assumed to be my wife, I say something to her, she assumes the ass up head down posture, so I mount up and got a good rythme going, when I feel this mosquito start biting my back, well I'm too busy to be bothered and figure it ain't gonna eat much anyway, turns out it was my naked wife slapping me, appearently sometime after we passed out her sister came into our room and stripped naked and layed down, the wife wasn't really that upset that I'd boned her sister since we had dated several years before, she was just mad that I didn't lay the porkchop to her first, she even said that when she brought it up at one of our divorce hearings, the judge just rolled her eyes, but mostly we split because of funds, she thought we should spend every cent I made, I thought I should pay the bills first and buy the kids what they needed before we bought what we wanted, she never could comprehind that kids cost and need a lot, and that bills come around pretty regularly. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:20:46 PM EDT
[#22]
My ex was a cross dresser. Found out 1 1/2 years into the marriage. I put up with it for 7 years, but finally couldn't take it anymore.
I'm the pretty one, dammit! |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:21:06 PM EDT
[#23]
Alright, you win. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:21:21 PM EDT
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I think most marrages fail because couples don't work at it hard enough.
Biggest problem is that couples don't communicate enough about how they feel about themselves and their spouse. If you don't communicate you can't identify problems in your relationship so it just sits in the background somewhere waiting to come out. Small problems are easy to fix but if you don't do anything to fix it it just gets to be bigger problem. People expect their relationship and feelings to remain same/constant as time goes by while they and their spouse are changing. One thing my father taught me (mom and dad has been married for 45 years) since I was old enough to date girls was that if I treat them like a queen they will more likely treat me like a king and if they don't they are not worthy to persue. Guess what, it was true... I treat my wife a like a queen and she treat me like a king. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:23:04 PM EDT
[#25]
Threads like this make me realize how good I have it now.
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:23:42 PM EDT
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:25:16 PM EDT
[#27]
You have got to be shitting me? Really? |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:27:06 PM EDT
[#28]
I thought it would be interesting to tally up the responses
I wasn't sure what category to put some of the replies in...several of them I had to put in a category all by itself: Swingset Questionaire, the Cross Dresser, and the lady who thought it was OK to Bone her Sister as well as her, but was peeved about coming in Second (Low Moral Character and Spoiled Sport) Arfcom Reasons for Divorce Family Crises caused by Death-1 Post Partum Depression - 1 Pre-Partum Depression - 1 Infidelity-8 Irreconcible Differences - 9 Drugs-1 Insanity-9 Failure of Swingset's Questions-1 Perversion (Cross Dresser) - 1 Woman of Low Moral Character and Spoiled Sport - 1 |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:27:26 PM EDT
[#29]
Admittidly, I failed to take care of her emotional needs so she had an affair(s).
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:29:01 PM EDT
[#30]
I disagree. I think most marriages fail for specific reasons but most center around: money problems or immaturity. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:29:22 PM EDT
[#31]
no shit?, fuckmefunny that some weird dude, but hell I wore a womans thong once when I was drunk, but in my defence it was on my head like a sweat band. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:29:37 PM EDT
[#32]
Well yes, there is only so much you can expect. If you start off with a nut case don't expect anything good at the end. Let me put it in a term everybody here will understand... If you start off with a good strait action and put a good barrel on it it is more likly that you will get a strait shooter than if you start with a warped action and put a rusted and pitted barrel on it. Got it?!?! |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:30:29 PM EDT
[#33]
Ah, uhm, First divorce, she was a horrid cunt.
Second divorce, she was a horrid cunt that hurt my daughter. Second break up from first ex wife. I'm never there due to work and she liked another dude, so I told her to have fun, I'd give her away at the wedding. She has since gone nuttier than a squirrel turd and the docs are experimenting with different combos of drugs to control her |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:30:32 PM EDT
[#34]
Damn!! You win. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:31:52 PM EDT
[#35]
Good thing you said you wore it on your head, you almost had your man card revoked! 
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:34:22 PM EDT
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:36:52 PM EDT
[#37]
!st marriage=Infidelity, on her part
2nd marriage=Infidelity, on her part Yes, I do have some "esteem" issues as a result of it but, Hey, life goes on! I just chose wrong.(Both women were products of "divorced mothers" so they just did what they knew.) I am now engaged to a wonderful,(a little flakey) woman and we're taking it slow.  Hessian-1
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:37:15 PM EDT
[#38]
Funny......my ex-wife got loony and then got knocked up!........but NOT by me! |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:40:28 PM EDT
[#39]
I was at war, she wasn't
Came back home and got a new one 16 years now of her putting up with my shit |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:40:57 PM EDT
[#40]
hell it wouldn't have mattered if I wore it, there isn't a thong made that would contain me, hell I had to stop wearing boxers and go to the tighty whities cause with boxers my gear would always end up hanging down on one leg opening or the other and I'd end up setting on my porkchop and taters, and that was too painfull to go through everytime I wanted to sit. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 1:46:18 PM EDT
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:02:39 PM EDT
[#42]
So she failed to treat you as she wished to be treated? It seems to fit fairly well. No single philosophy will cover every exigency as they simply cannot cover choice: sometimes someone simply chooses to do irrational things. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:04:30 PM EDT
[#43]
Wife had self-esteem problems.
She interpreted EVERY DAMN THING that I did, did not do, or she dreamed up as evidence that I didn't love her. She thrived on crisis. If there wasn't a big one, she'd treat a small one as a big one. If there wasn't a small crisis available, she'd either imagine one or cause one. 
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:04:58 PM EDT
[#44]
My divorce was partly my fault. I was gone a lot, either deployed with the Marines or working for an airline. Neither of us were good communicators. There was a slow leak in the marriage until we didn't really like each other.
Anyway, my ex got religion, took off with our daughter's Sunday School teacher, then became obsessed with doing as much damage to me as possible. She even ruined her second marriage because she just couldn't move on. She did me a favor in the long run, but damn she went nuclear for years, using the court system and the kids to screw with me. Took me a long time to trust one of THEM again. 
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:09:32 PM EDT
[#45]
My X went nuts, literally. She was first diagnosed with clinical depression at 42, 2 years later we were divorced. In those 2 years there were 2 suicide attempts and 5, IIRC, visits from local law enforcement for domestic issues. I have 2 kids, now in college, and when they come home they keep it secret so they don’t have to see the bitch. This is their decision. I don’t get involved with their relationship with her.
Its better to be alone than wish you were alone |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:13:34 PM EDT
[#46]
Let's just say irreconcilable differences.... I won't go into details. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:45:18 PM EDT
[#47]
She was eighteen. I was twenty.
I was a worthless fuck. She started whoring on me almost immediately, although I didn't find out for two years. Two months after we had a little Boy.  Then I put up with it for another two years while we "worked on it" and I moved out and in about three times. I really was pathetic. I went through hell for my son but gave in after two years. Standing in the kitchen seeing some dude's truck pull up and your wife hopping out does something to you. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:47:14 PM EDT
[#48]
That's OK, if I felt it was mean spirited I'd run off and find a mod- It's just fucked up, that's all. |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:49:44 PM EDT
[#49]
 I think you win! Dayum.......
dude, wasn't the first marriage enough? |
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Posted: 12/27/2006 2:53:58 PM EDT
[#50]
My first wife said she was leaving me to marry some gunsmith in Oregon--16 years ago this month.
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