Well looking back at my relationships, one thing I never did is let a woman "make suggestions" on how I live my life. Hence the reason of me being single @ age 35. Yes folks, never been married. Only lived with 2 womenz in my life and only engaged once.

So if that's what you want. I have some advise for you.


1) When she lives stuff around your apartment. Clear a drawer space or two for her. Also go to your nearest container store for her stuff. This was you can coral all of her belongings so that when another honey comes a calling it makes for an easier clean up and the other one thinks your all about her. Believe me this is a tried and true method.

2) Make sure if you're gonna two time to have the same cute pet name for the both of em. Keeps from slip up in your drunken stupor.

3) Everytime she suggest something about you to change, suggest something sexual of her to change. IE, her="I want you to shave the beard" you="Great idea!! You know I love you and I would do anything for you. You love me too don't ya?" "Then how bout if I shave my beard we shave Miss Kitty [;)] We can take turns shaving each other"
Then you wouldn't mind giving things up that much.  

As pointed out above it is the nature of women to try to change "their" man - they see potential and think that they can be the woman to make you change. Make it clear while dating that you'll not change. I play a game where I say pick three things (off of their list of about 20 things) that you'd like to change about me ... now understand that they're going to pick the three easiest ones off the list to give to you. This give you a look into your womans mind.

Had one that said she didn't like guns ... turned her into nothing more than a booty call that very night.

eshell - markers [:D]