My beloved girlfriend of many years insisted on splitting the bills on dates for quite some time, but eventually she just let me pay (which is what I wanted). Then a few years ago we were out somewhere and it was a relatively small bill, some place like Jillians, and I was just going to leave enough cash to cover the bill and tip since we were late for a movie or something. I asked her for a quarter so the waitress could get a full $ 5 or whatever v. getting .75 of it in change, and the g/f just smiled and shrugged when I asked for a quarter.
"You don't have a quarter?"
"Errrrrr, no."
"Could you look please?"
"Errrr, ummmm mumble"
"Sorry honey, what was that?"
"I don't have my wallet"
"Huh??"
"I said, I don't have my wallet."
"You don't have your wallet or any money at all on you? Not even a driver's license or credit card?"
"Weellll-No, you pay for everything and drive and I don't drink so I don't need to carry one."
"Um, huh...... I take it this has been going on for awhile?"
"Few years now."