Quoted:Honda actually does make the Ridgeline, a unibody truck. But its max towing capacity is 5k, and I'm afraid it'd be struggling too much.
Very flat terrain down here, 2-50 miles hauling a boat. Capacity for 4 people is ideal, 2 people everyday though. Offroad, not really, 4x4 would be nice for beaches, but not necessary. I prefer a pickup, I do need to haul lawn stuff and sheets of plywood. Hauling plywood would be short 2 mile trips in town though, I can live with it hanging out the back.
Everyday use would be a 5 mile jaunt up the interstate to work, I'd like a compromise between efficiency for everyday and pulling capacity, but I doubt that's very realistic. Edit: On the subject of things that probably aren't realistic, good handling is a plus to me, I like vehicles that handle corners well. AWD/4WD auto would be great in that regard.
How much better of a deal is used right now when they're taking 7-15k off the sticker?
Thanks for the specific questions Jeremy.
From what you have said, I think you would be best off with the Ridgeline, conditional on your listed towing requirement. How are you coming up with 3-5K? Dry weight of boat + trailer is going to be much less than the weight with gas, balast, gear, etc.
The Ridgeline would be the best everyday vehicle, and will be much more comfortable and handle better with low COG, unibody, and independent suspension. I have a friend that has one, and while I think it ugly as sin, and it would not work for me with offroad and hauling requirements, it is a nice vehicle. He has hauled a 5000 lb enclosed trailer and 4 people from Canada to North Carolina with it many times. Probably not the best idea, and he can't break 60mph on some of the long grades, but it does the job.
Then you can consider the Tacoma and Frontier. They are trucks, and ride and handle like trucks, but can pull 6500lbs, and go off road. They are also small enough to still fit in parking spaces and down town parking garages (usually). Mileage 17-20mpg if you drive gently, pulling will be 8-12 depending on grades and speed.
In the half tons, I like the new style Sierra, or Tundra. They are a bit larger, but should have no problem with your towing requirements. Expect city mileage of 13-15, 8-12 towing.
Skip the 3/4+ ton and diesels. They are not good for a 5-10 mile daily driver.