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Posted: 8/6/2005 5:38:25 PM EDT
See 'em pretty frequently. Bunch of superficial scars.
Wife says it is a fad and they are not trying to harm themselves. WTF, any of you guys know what that is all about or how it started.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:39:42 PM EDT
It's a cry for attention from psychopaths.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:40:15 PM EDT
they are non-conformists
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:40:51 PM EDT
some of them see it as "art" others simply have emotional problems Hell I had problems when I was younger. Once cut a chunk out of my arm with toe nail clippers and couldn't even feel it. Its very bad to try to bury your emotions. It just fucks you up.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:41:46 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MachinegunManiac:
It's a cry for attention from psychopaths.


+1
Lots of young ladies these days have serious issues with self-image.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:41:55 PM EDT
It's called "LOOK AT ME".
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:42:30 PM EDT
My wife is a therapist has a few different patients that are doing this. She said the best easy way to explain it is that inflicting pain on themselves to make them feel better. Usually these people actually have some serious in the head type shit going on.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:44:38 PM EDT

Originally Posted By bblake00:
It's called "LOOK AT ME".


Not really true. Wasnt the case with me, I never expected a soul to look at me until one day I found myself being escorted by a sherif deputy and EMT's to childrens hospitial.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:44:57 PM EDT
When I worked for a while at a local girls college, I noticed that probably 10% of the girls there had scars on their wrists. I had to help several girls that cut on their wrists, but when I was there, none were successful in killing themselves. It was all superficial attention stunts.z
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:46:35 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:
My wife is a therapist has a few different patients that are doing this. She said the best easy way to explain it is that inflicting pain on themselves to make them feel better. Usually these people actually have some serious in the head type shit going on.


And it does its a way of releasing shit, also I agree fully with fucked up head.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:48:03 PM EDT
In-Before-the-ATTENTION-WHORE-Pic!
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:49:32 PM EDT
This is funny. "Look at me, and, feel my pain" is what MOST are saying. The ones that WANT to kill themselves, DO kill themselves.



The rest of it is simply pathetic, non-strong, stupid girls that will be in therapy for the rest of thier lives, and, blame men for it.


I asked my wife on that one, and, that's what SHE said, so, blame her.

It seemed so good when she was saying it, so, I posted...lol.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:50:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Rebel_Marine: See 'em pretty frequently. Bunch of superficial scars. Wife says it is a fad and they are not trying to harm themselves. WTF, any of you guys know what that is all about or how it started. hr
They're American(ized) girls with low self-esteem. Make sure your sons marry reliable (less bitchy) import models who can cook.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:52:34 PM EDT
They are feeling some sort of pain in life, whether it's physical or emotional, I don't know, but they cut themselves to feel less pain.

They may also be attempting suicide.

I don't know though.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:54:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By deej86:
They are feeling some sort of pain in life, whether it's physical or emotional, I don't know, but they cut themselves to feel less pain.

They may also be attempting suicide.

I don't know though.



If I was a Chick, I could gety sympathy for my plight and my wrist cutting...

Sadly, I'm just a poor white guy, and, noone gives a shit.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:57:05 PM EDT
fools that can't successfully commit suicide
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 5:59:09 PM EDT

Originally Posted By sharky30:
fools that can't successfully commit suicide


you don't know what your talking about, it's not about killing yourself. Some of you just like spewing bs by how you see it. When in fact you have no idea because you have never experinced it. That like me saying I know what it feels like to jump out of a plane even though I have never done such a thing.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:00:41 PM EDT
Nothing new...I knew girls 15 years ago that were doing this
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:06:54 PM EDT

Originally Posted By olyarms:

Originally Posted By sharky30:
fools that can't successfully commit suicide


you don't know what your talking about, it's not about killing yourself. Some of you just like spewing bs by how you see it. When in fact you have no idea because you have never experinced it. That like me saying I know what it feels like to jump out of a plane even though I have never done such a thing.

\

I suspect it's in the middle somwhere.....


Some of us have been through suicide drama and, ongoing stupidity at a point.....

Certainly Wrist slitting is a casue for alarm......It's what was asked for....It's what they get, most times.

In my experience the girls were going ape over their parents splitting up.

Call me a hardass, but, I don't care, because I was there, and, did that.

I didn't slit my wrists.

Different generation I suppose.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:08:20 PM EDT
I thought they only did that when I dumped them...
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:11:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Rodent:
I thought they only did that when I dumped them...





Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:12:34 PM EDT
Low self esteem and the self pity that so frequently accompanies it. I suppose they want someone to notice, be concerned and give them attention.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:13:33 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Goonboss:

Originally Posted By olyarms:

Originally Posted By sharky30:
fools that can't successfully commit suicide


you don't know what your talking about, it's not about killing yourself. Some of you just like spewing bs by how you see it. When in fact you have no idea because you have never experinced it. That like me saying I know what it feels like to jump out of a plane even though I have never done such a thing.

\

I suspect it's in the middle somwhere.....


Some of us have been through suicide drama and, ongoing stupidity at a point.....

Certainly Wrist slitting is a casue for alarm......It's what was asked for....It's what they get, most times.

In my experience the girls were going ape over their parents splitting up.

Call me a hardass, but, I don't care, because I was there, and, did that.

I didn't slit my wrists.

Different generation I suppose.


It's not about killing your self, see that what I think some see. It's not. Killing your self is rather simple. It's about dealing with emotions. I had the same problem. I wasn't to good at being angry, sad, happy etc. I would do the shit to simply release all the shit built up. It wasn't for pain. Hell I rarely ever felt pain.

And I was embarrassed by it and would try doing it places people couldn't see and cover myself up. Now I am sure some people do it as a look at me, but to put every one in the crowd isn't right.

Hell like I said I wasn't found out until I took a trip to the nut house with the sheriffs office and some emt's.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:13:38 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Rodent:
I thought they only did that when I dumped them...



I heard they do that after "you" ask them out.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:15:53 PM EDT
What? You guys don't date "loser" girls and dump em just to see if they go all the way this time?

Btw oly, IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTENTION WHORES!!!!
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:16:28 PM EDT

Originally Posted By BlairHous:

Originally Posted By MachinegunManiac:
It's a cry for attention from psychopaths.


+1
Lots of young ladies these days have serious issues with self-image.




I've seen these self-image issues in my own family.

my stepmother (non live-in) raised my step sister in typical liberal fashion.

She emphasized self esteem over everything else

Not the good self esteem, where you are proud of your accomplishments because you worked hard for them.

Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:16:59 PM EDT
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:17:07 PM EDT

Originally Posted By bblake00:

Originally Posted By Rodent:
I thought they only did that when I dumped them...



I heard they do that after "you" ask them out.



Well, there's that, too...
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:20:50 PM EDT

Originally Posted By natedogg42:
What? You guys don't date "loser" girls and dump em just to see if they go all the way this time?

Btw oly, IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTENTION WHORES!!!!


Okay whatever, go tell that to the dead ones. Go look at the suicide rates with these "attention whores" Go to a local emergency room and see how many people who are in for attempted suicide have the "attention whore" marks. Go for it...
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:26:46 PM EDT
They're not scars, it's what happens when they realize he isn't Peter North
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:30:28 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/6/2005 6:33:03 PM EDT by Daytona955i]
Not all these girls are depressed at all. They have tiny little insignificant problems in the grand scheme of things. They do it to make it seem like they are full of angst and have real issues with the world.

Most are much too dull witted to even capture problems outside of boys and their parents.

They "cut themselves to feel" that's what I always say.

Whenever I meet a girl that shows me that she cuts, I tell them, if you were serious you'd go down the highway, not across the road.

That shit doesn't impress me at all.

Probably 25% of the girls I meet either do this, or have scars from once doing it. Why? Not because I'm a magnet for psycho females, but I meet a lot of metal/emo/punk chicks at college and playing/going to shows and they seem to be the ones that do this the most.

People that really want to kill themselves don't show outward signs of actually doing it, because they don't want people to stop them! Otherwise they just want attention.

ETA: The best ones are the ones that when you ask them if they cut, they say no, they are marks from being tied up.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:38:57 PM EDT

Originally Posted By olyarms:

Originally Posted By natedogg42:
What? You guys don't date "loser" girls and dump em just to see if they go all the way this time?

Btw oly, IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTENTION WHORES!!!!


Okay whatever, go tell that to the dead ones. Go look at the suicide rates with these "attention whores" Go to a local emergency room and see how many people who are in for attempted suicide have the "attention whore" marks. Go for it...



C'mon. Look. Life isn't for everyone. I am all for helping, but, if you want to kill yourself so much...........

Go..Do...The gene pool is better.

I see you have a connection to this picture, but, face it....You're a strong one. You survived...And could afford a membership



I'm a being flippant?

Yep.

I think suicide drama queens can bite my ass.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:40:08 PM EDT
Cutters are the ones who are too chicken-shit to even fake a suicide attempt.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:41:40 PM EDT
Endorphin rush.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:41:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MonkTx:
Cutters are the ones who are too chicken-shit to even fake a suicide attempt.



You are being insensitive.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:53:41 PM EDT

Originally Posted By olyarms:


Btw oly, IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTENTION WHORES!!!!


Okay whatever, go tell that to the dead ones. Go look at the suicide rates with these "attention whores" Go to a local emergency room and see how many people who are in for attempted suicide have the "attention whore" marks. Go for it...



If you want to kill yourself, you'll find a way to get it done(or botch it and wind up a vegetable or something).
The one's in the hospital are the psychos trying to prove how bad their lives are or they are trying to lay the mother of all guilt trips on their parents.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 6:54:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Rebel_Marine:
See 'em pretty frequently. Bunch of superficial scars.
Wife says it is a fad and they are not trying to harm themselves. WTF, any of you guys know what that is all about or how it started.



They're nutjobs.

GR
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:00:40 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/6/2005 7:02:20 PM EDT by Dusty_C]

Originally Posted By MonkTx:
Cutters are the ones who are too chicken-shit to even fake a suicide attempt.

Your as ignorant as a football bat. Cutters for the most part have what they view as serious issues. Whether or not anyone else views them as a real problem is not an issue. It's just like a 12 year old girl thinking they are in love. You and I know better but we will never convince them of that. When someone cut's themselves in this manner it's not a suicide attempt and it's not to get attention. It's because the pain allows a release and makes them feel better. Cutting is not the only way of doing it either. Salt branding is pretty popular also. There are many ways of doing it, and contrary to what anyone says, a lot of these kids are pretty intelligent. Unless you've experienced it, or have a certain level of expertise, like having dealt with it medically or professionally another way, like my wife, then honestly, you don't know fuck all. And you should keep your mouth shut to keep from exposing your ignorance further. That being said, I think most of the problems are bullshit and they are whining, to others or themselves and need to get the fuck over it. I can say that because I myself have scar lined arms from doing this. Branding not cutting. And it's turned from that, into piercings and tattoo's.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:02:29 PM EDT
I don't care why the fuck they do it. Just keep them away from me, cause they're 'fake' emotional crazies that I don't wanna talk to anyway.

I don't care wtf happened to you, or how many boyfriends broke up with you, or how fat you are, or how many emotions you have pent up in you, cutting yourself isn't going to solve anything. The only thing you gain from cutting yourself is hideous scars that show how weak minded you are and how unable to cope with things that many people go through you are. I don't care who you are, someone in the world has it 10 times worse, and they probably don't cut themselves.

Cutting is for sissies.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:06:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:

Originally Posted By MonkTx:
Cutters are the ones who are too chicken-shit to even fake a suicide attempt.

Your as ignorant as a football bat. Cutters for the most part have what they view as serious issues. Whether or not anyone else views them as a real problem is not an issue. It's just like a 12 year old girl thinking they are in love. You and I know better but we will never convince them of that. When someone cut's themselves in this manner it's not a suicide attempt and it's not to get attention. It's because the pain allows a release and makes them feel better. Cutting is not the only way of doing it either. Salt branding is pretty popular also. There are many ways of doing it, and contrary to what anyone says, a lot of these kids are pretty intelligent. Unless you've experienced it, or have a certain level of expertise, like having dealt with it medically or professionally another way, like my wife, then honestly, you don't know fuck all. And you should keep your mouth shut to keep from exposing your ignorance further. That being said, I think most of the problems are bullshit and they are whining, to others or themselves and need to get the fuck over it. I can say that because I myself have scar lined arms from doing this. Branding not cutting. And it's turned from that, into piercings and tattoo's.




I declare anyone doing this a "retard"

I guess since my mom raied me alone, and, my dad left when I was three, I didn't have time for stupid ass bullshit.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:07:53 PM EDT

Originally Posted By codyXdeath:
I don't care why the fuck they do it. Just keep them away from me, cause they're 'fake' emotional crazies that I don't wanna talk to anyway.

I don't care wtf happened to you, or how many boyfriends broke up with you, or how fat you are, or how many emotions you have pent up in you, cutting yourself isn't going to solve anything. The only thing you gain from cutting yourself is hideous scars that show how weak minded you are and how unable to cope with things that many people go through you are. I don't care who you are, someone in the world has it 10 times worse, and they probably don't cut themselves.

Cutting is for sissies.




Ouch
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:16:42 PM EDT
I could stand to lose a few pounds myself.

I excersize though, I don't cut my arm to pieces.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:17:33 PM EDT
It is often done to distract from an emotional pain.

It is a form of substitution, they replace a pain they don't know how to deal with and don't know will go away with one that they can control the intensity of and that will most definitely heal.

Some of them kill themselves, some of them scar themselves permenantly, and some of them eventually get over it albeit with a lot of physical scarring.

If you see a girl who wears long sleeve shirts in ANY kind of weather you can be pretty sure there is some cutting involved... and its best to just deal with them with kindness and compassion.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:21:12 PM EDT
Whats crazier? someone cutting themselves, getting their ear pierced, getting their dick pierced, or spending thousands of dollars on guns? There are those who would say that we are crazy for spending the money we do. There are those who think getting your ear pierced is ok, but not your dick. And now cutting designs into your body is body art in some places. Crazy is in the eye of the beholder. No matter how adamant you are about something, there is someone else as educated, and as intelligent, who thinks your wrong and feels just as strongly about it.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:26:09 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 8/6/2005 7:27:35 PM EDT by CAR-10]
Let me know if they cut up the arm (rather than straight across the wrist) or start with the arteries. Otherwise, they're just looking for someone to pay attention to them and to take them seriously.

Classic cry for attention.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:28:37 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Katana16j:
It is often done to distract from an emotional pain.

It is a form of substitution, they replace a pain they don't know how to deal with and don't know will go away with one that they can control the intensity of and that will most definitely heal.

Some of them kill themselves, some of them scar themselves permenantly, and some of them eventually get over it albeit with a lot of physical scarring.

If you see a girl who wears long sleeve shirts in ANY kind of weather you can be pretty sure there is some cutting involved... and its best to just deal with them with kindness and compassion.



If you did this, send me your guns. You're not fit.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:28:56 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:
Whats crazier? someone cutting themselves, getting their ear pierced, getting their dick pierced, or spending thousands of dollars on guns? There are those who would say that we are crazy for spending the money we do. There are those who think getting your ear pierced is ok, but not your dick. And now cutting designs into your body is body art in some places. Crazy is in the eye of the beholder. No matter how adamant you are about something, there is someone else as educated, and as intelligent, who thinks your wrong and feels just as strongly about it.



Piercing your ears or your dick is something else all together in my mind. I've known people with scarification, also.. which in one of the cases would qualify as having your arm cut up. But it was done professionally (yep) and it was an actual design. Cutting your arm as a 'release' is something different entirely, and I believe thats mostly what this thread is about.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:29:57 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:
Whats crazier? someone cutting themselves, getting their ear pierced, getting their dick pierced, or spending thousands of dollars on guns? There are those who would say that we are crazy for spending the money we do. There are those who think getting your ear pierced is ok, but not your dick. And now cutting designs into your body is body art in some places. Crazy is in the eye of the beholder. No matter how adamant you are about something, there is someone else as educated, and as intelligent, who thinks your wrong and feels just as strongly about it.



What's crazier?


Cutting your stupid ass arm. That's what!

Fuckin' weak ass retards.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:35:37 PM EDT
You don't understand their paaaain.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:44:06 PM EDT

Originally Posted By TheCynic:
You don't understand their paaaain.



Right

Everyone that is a self hating retard, line up here. I'm cutting. Gotta cull the heard somhow!



Can you imagine if this came up 100 years ago?

"Get your ass out into the field and pick some corn!"

lol..

The pain...The pain...

My kids know not to let me get within earshot of stupid crap like this.
Link Posted: 8/6/2005 7:46:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By codyXdeath:

Originally Posted By Dusty_C:
Whats crazier? someone cutting themselves, getting their ear pierced, getting their dick pierced, or spending thousands of dollars on guns? There are those who would say that we are crazy for spending the money we do. There are those who think getting your ear pierced is ok, but not your dick. And now cutting designs into your body is body art in some places. Crazy is in the eye of the beholder. No matter how adamant you are about something, there is someone else as educated, and as intelligent, who thinks your wrong and feels just as strongly about it.



Piercing your ears or your dick is something else all together in my mind. I've known people with scarification, also.. which in one of the cases would qualify as having your arm cut up. But it was done professionally (yep) and it was an actual design. Cutting your arm as a 'release' is something different entirely, and I believe thats mostly what this thread is about.



I'd assume that with that opinion your tattoo'd and pierced. Again without first hand experience no one will ever understand the mentality. I am tattoo'd and pierced, and they are very much the same thing. A lot of people get a new tattoo or piercing when going through a period in their life of pain or anguish, the pain helps them cope and releases the pain. I am heavily tattoo'd and pretty heavily pierced, and I do understand the mentality of it. Simple thing, for some others, if you have negative shit to say about it, shut the fuck up. This is one case where keeping your mouth shut is how you help. Even if you subscribe to the theory that people only do it for attention, then walk away QUIETLY and then your helping.
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